Do you discuss your sex life with friends?

[Anonymous]

No, except many years ago I had a GF who was very open about it and she told me about a mutual guy friend who could go 3-4 rounds a night with her. Two years later I married the guy and she was right. Now, he’s much older and is only good for one time which is perfect for me. Our one week honeymoon was amazing.

[Anonymous]

My former lover and I, would orgasm multiple times a session. It was amazing.

[Anonymous]

We do, in fairly general terms. I need to be able to look their partners in the face, and it's hard to do that if I know too many details. So I generally know if someone has a good sex life, but I might not know what that involves. But if they want to tell me, that's probably ok too.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely. With many of my friends. We are all working professionals in our 30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, except many years ago I had a GF who was very open about it and she told me about a mutual guy friend who could go 3-4 rounds a night with her. Two years later I married the guy and she was right. Now, he’s much older and is only good for one time which is perfect for me. Our one week honeymoon was amazing.

At one point in time I could go 3-4 rounds as well. But I was 24 then. Are there men who can go 3-4 rounds at 45? Maybe.

When we were in our late 20s DW was always super wet, her coochie was extremely juicy. Now at 48 that's no longer the case, but its perfect for me.

[Anonymous]

My BF is in his late 40's and we've gone 3-4 rounds in a single morning. It's pretty awesome. I thought that phase of my life was over. That said, he's pretty self absorbed in bed so I'd trade some of that for giving more energy to my satisfaction.

[Anonymous]

Not since I have been married

[Anonymous]

Yes I do. Here on DCUM

[Anonymous]

No, and in my experience women who try to force these conversations fall into two categories:

1) Let it all hang out types who just don't see why anyone would want to keep this info private. The problem with this is that they also would think nothing if sharing what you told them with others. There is no privacy here. They can't relate to feeling vulnerable, exposed, or embarrassed by these conversations (or worrying your partner would feel that way) because those are not things they experience. I tell people like this I don't discuss my sex life with others in very clear terms. Firm boundaries.

2) Deeply insecure women who want to have these conversations either to compete or to check and see where they "stand" compared to friends. These are the women who will drop hints about how much sex they have, how big their partner is, how adventurous they are, etc., in the hopes you will react or ask for more info. My theory is that these are women who previously completed over men while dating, competed over engagements/weddings/houses/kids, and now look for additional ways to compete as those factors fade. I ignore, this is not healthy behavior.

[Anonymous]

No, but I just listen as some of my GF's complain about the lack of a sex life. They'd be very jealous if I described ours so I keep my mouth shut. We recently became empty nesters which has really made sex far more spontaneous.