Do you discuss your sex life with friends?

[Anonymous]

Or anyone that’s not your partner?

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

no, never

[Anonymous]

No, I'm adult.

[Anonymous]

With one of them, in vague ways. She and I have similar struggles in our marriages so we allude to things, but don't really discuss it. We discuss the hell out of how we are coping with any given challenge...

[Anonymous]

It entirely depends on the friend. I have one who is warm, gregarious, and tends to overshare, and with her I find myself talking about ANY subject. It's quite freeing for me, who grew up in the most uptight, conservative family full of taboos! My other friends don't veer in to such territory

It's all fine.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It entirely depends on the friend. I have one who is warm, gregarious, and tends to overshare, and with her I find myself talking about ANY subject. It's quite freeing for me, who grew up in the most uptight, conservative family full of taboos! My other friends don't veer in to such territory

It's all fine.

Does your spouse know and is onboard? I would consider it a betrayal if my spouse was openly talking about our sex life with other people. For me that is private and not something to be shared with others. Once it is out there, you lose all control. Your oversharing friend could be now oversharing about your sex life with everyone else too.

If your spouse is consenting to you talking about them and you are also fine with them talking about you with their friends and whoever else they want to, then go for it.

[Anonymous]

Never. What happens with spouse stays between myself and spouse, bedroom and otherwise. Always

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It entirely depends on the friend. I have one who is warm, gregarious, and tends to overshare, and with her I find myself talking about ANY subject. It's quite freeing for me, who grew up in the most uptight, conservative family full of taboos! My other friends don't veer in to such territory

It's all fine.

Does your spouse know and is onboard? I would consider it a betrayal if my spouse was openly talking about our sex life with other people. For me that is private and not something to be shared with others. Once it is out there, you lose all control. Your oversharing friend could be now oversharing about your sex life with everyone else too.

If your spouse is consenting to you talking about them and you are also fine with them talking about you with their friends and whoever else they want to, then go for it.

Just got back from a guts weekend here to of the dudes shared videos they'd made with their wives....

[Anonymous]

Yes.

Mostly about issues and how drs treated it or toys or something that works for us.

Mostly toys though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It entirely depends on the friend. I have one who is warm, gregarious, and tends to overshare, and with her I find myself talking about ANY subject. It's quite freeing for me, who grew up in the most uptight, conservative family full of taboos! My other friends don't veer in to such territory

It's all fine.

Does your spouse know and is onboard? I would consider it a betrayal if my spouse was openly talking about our sex life with other people. For me that is private and not something to be shared with others. Once it is out there, you lose all control. Your oversharing friend could be now oversharing about your sex life with everyone else too.

If your spouse is consenting to you talking about them and you are also fine with them talking about you with their friends and whoever else they want to, then go for it.

Just got back from a guts weekend here to of the dudes shared videos they'd made with their wives....

Which it seems is fine with some posters as they don't consider their sex lives to be private and are also talking to their own friends about their dude and him as a sex partner. But if one person is private and isn't sharing and doesnt want anything shared, the other person needs to respect that.

[Anonymous]

No, not since college days.

[Anonymous]

When we first started dating, my BF and I struggled sexually. We just couldn’t seem to connect that way and I know we both talked with friends about it.

I’m actually very happy he did - he talked to his female friends who gave him really solid advice and helped out a lot.

I would never say anything disrespectful about him to friends. Like I’d never talk about anything awkward that happened during sex, or make fun in any way.

[Anonymous]

No. Nor do I care to hear about anyone else's.