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[quote=Anonymous]No, and in my experience women who try to force these conversations fall into two categories:

1) Let it all hang out types who just don't see why anyone would want to keep this info private. The problem with this is that they also would think nothing if sharing what you told them with others. There is no privacy here. They can't relate to feeling vulnerable, exposed, or embarrassed by these conversations (or worrying your partner would feel that way) because those are not things they experience. I tell people like this I don't discuss my sex life with others in very clear terms. Firm boundaries.

2) Deeply insecure women who want to have these conversations either to compete or to check and see where they "stand" compared to friends. These are the women who will drop hints about how much sex they have, how big their partner is, how adventurous they are, etc., in the hopes you will react or ask for more info. My theory is that these are women who previously completed over men while dating, competed over engagements/weddings/houses/kids, and now look for additional ways to compete as those factors fade. I ignore, this is not healthy behavior.[/quote]

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