Perfect guy, sex life sucks.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him about it. Show him what you like and don't like. If he is marriage material, don't throw it away over something that is absolutely fixable. You have to put in the work, OP, but isn't that worth a better sex life with a guy that checks all of the other boxes? I have been with my husband for close to 20 years and the sex keeps getting better because we are open and honest. That takes time and effort but it is worth it.

[Anonymous]

I dunno. Isn’t there a reason it’s bad? Like biologically you’re off? OP, do you have crazy chemistry? Like when he’s in your presence can you tell your body is getting ready? If that’s not happening and it’s not fun, you will resent the F out of this man who does not do it for you after a decade and a few kids. I need a man who can destroy me physically because I am in charge the rest of the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t place so much emphasis on sex.

This

[Anonymous]

I married that guy. He now has zero drive. Lovely guy. I wish I’d listened to my body better.

[Anonymous]

He might be nervous. Talk to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is why women end up 35, childless and desperate, then 45, childless and bitter.

Which is 100% better than being 45 divorced with two kids and really bitter.

[Anonymous]

Part of what constitutes a great overall romantic relationship is that both partners are able to connect ->> on many different aspects.

Sex is one of the more pivotal aspects.
If you are unable to connect w/him on this one, specific aspect then the chance for a solid relationship going forward will definitely end up being compromised.
Big time.

If two people cannot connect sexually - - the only solution I can see is couples counseling however you have only been dating this person a few short wks.

Maybe as time progresses things in the bedroom can improve.

If you really like this guy, it might be worth it to allow time to see if more passion develops on his end.
If things do not then unfortunately it will be up to you to decide if you can forgo good sex out of love ❤️ for the rest of your life.

Wishing you the best in whatever you decide to do going forward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why women end up 35, childless and desperate, then 45, childless and bitter.

Which is 100% better than being 45 divorced with two kids and really bitter.

No it is 1000% worse. I don’t miss my ex at all but I will always have 2 fantastic kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why women end up 35, childless and desperate, then 45, childless and bitter.

Which is 100% better than being 45 divorced with two kids and really bitter.

No it is 1000% worse. I don’t miss my ex at all but I will always have 2 fantastic kids.

Women can have kids without getting married to the men they feel unhappy with

[Anonymous]

Pillow princess getting older isn't going have guys chasing her for primal sex.

[Anonymous]

A few weeks?! Yikes OP