Most important factor for strong sex life

[Anonymous]

quality time together and friendship, generally intimacy outside the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The wife needs to be a bit of a freak. Someone who learned how to please herself at a young age and has a dirtier-than-average mind. That’s to get her closer to the wavelength of the average guy.

Honestly? This is closer to the average woman than you seem to think. My freak flag flies higher than most of the men I've met; y'all have trouble keeping up.

You are not the average woman, by a long, long shot.

Stop telling women what is average. If all the women you have been with appear to be sexless then the problem might be … that you are bad at doing sex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:what’s most important to maintaining your strong sex life?

Not being married.

This. Familiarity may not breed contempt, but it sure does breed boredom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The wife needs to be a bit of a freak. Someone who learned how to please herself at a young age and has a dirtier-than-average mind. That’s to get her closer to the wavelength of the average guy.

Honestly? This is closer to the average woman than you seem to think. My freak flag flies higher than most of the men I've met; y'all have trouble keeping up.

You are not the average woman, by a long, long shot.

Stop telling women what is average. If all the women you have been with appear to be sexless then the problem might be … that you are bad at doing sex.

Or that he selects women who don’t like sex because he is scared of the ones that do (maybe because he has performance anxiety, or maybe because his parents or friends or pastors told him to watch out for women who do those things)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Physical fitness and personal hygiene.

No that's not enough, we both have that and a dead bedroom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Aside from having a strong relationship, what’s most important to maintaining your strong sex life?

Putting the kids to bed early. Bedroom on separate floor from the kids. Working from home. Scheduling sex. Just some potential answers to name a few.

Helpful, empathetic husband - especially postpartum. Might be biased right now lol

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I read smutty romance books and they do honestly get me in the mood. Paired with excellent foreplay, and that’s the key for me.

Can you provide a few titles?

Check out this thread from the DCUM Book Club: https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1153897.page

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The wife needs to be a bit of a freak. Someone who learned how to please herself at a young age and has a dirtier-than-average mind. That’s to get her closer to the wavelength of the average guy.

This is me. Unfortunately my DH can't appreciate it.

Me too!! No, DH isn’t as thrilled as he should be if I am reading this forum correctly 😂🤣😂

You know what you guys, people are dumb and sometimes you can’t appreciate when you are drowning in what other people want. 😂🤣😂

[Anonymous]

+1

[Anonymous]

If you’re the girl, you need to want a bad boy. And he needs to be a bad bad boy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Aside from having a strong relationship, what’s most important to maintaining your strong sex life?

Putting the kids to bed early. Bedroom on separate floor from the kids. Working from home. Scheduling sex. Just some potential answers to name a few.

1). Having a strong relationship (reliable, trustworthy, teammates) and good communications.
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Keep things playful, have trips to look FW to, keep your sense of self & interests, stay healthy & in shape.

[Anonymous]

Porn
Good internet connection
Frequently available online lover

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:quality time together and friendship, generally intimacy outside the bedroom.

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