DD 16 First Love

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.

If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.

Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.

Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Were you never 16?

ALL 16 years old have sex on their mind. Girls too. It’s the average most lose their virginity.

Whether they act on it or not, they are ALL horny as heck. I would have 100% given up my virginity to a summer fling from Australia.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.

If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.

Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.

Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.

The poor helpless girl! I guess she has no say it the matter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.

If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.

Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.

Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.

The poor helpless girl! I guess she has no say it the matter.

Of course she has a say, but we’re talking about his goals for this relationship. Tracking a girl by saying you’re in love and then going home is a classic HS boy studying abroad trick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

They can focus on both.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Parents are so invested in making sure 16 yr old starts to get her orgasms. Maybe make sure that her Math grades are good so that she can have a career one day!

SMH.

Times have changed, granny. Also, you can be a math whiz and still have a romantic partner. They are not mutually exclusive.

This is not a romantic partner. It is a fuxxxk buddy for the NOW. No one is thinking long term as they do in romance. They want to bump their uglies. Hope the man is chugging pineapple juice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cervical cancer is definitely a concern here. Has she had the Guardasil vaccination yet?

Her cervix won’t be exposed if he wears a condom like he is supposed to.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Cervical cancer is definitely a concern here. Has she had the Guardasil vaccination yet?

Her cervix won’t be exposed if he wears a condom like he is supposed to.

[Anonymous]

Np. I agree with not saying anything, letting her enjoy herself. Make sure she’s safe and not over her head. I had a summer fling at 16. I’d gone from having never held a hand before to making out topless on the beach in about two weeks. We then went our separate ways two days later. I didn’t want the risks of sex, but don’t know if I would have changed my mind if it had been longer. I then went from then to a very short lived boyfriend (never got much beyond kissing) early my freshman year of college and then met someone at the end of freshman year who I ended up marrying. At the time of my 16 year old fling, it was fun but also a lot of/ kind of overwhelming because it all moved fast. I’m grateful I had the experience though because I ended up not having many other experiences.

[Anonymous]

Po here - to be clear, I didn’t marry DH super young / while in college. But we did date all of college and got married a few years after college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.

If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.

Bet she is looking to score! Oh wait what am I saying. Girls never think that way.

Well that may be true as well, but he’s just trying to hit it, that we know.

The poor helpless girl! I guess she has no say it the matter.

Of course she has a say, but we’re talking about his goals for this relationship. Tracking a girl by saying you’re in love and then going home is a classic HS boy studying abroad trick.

Newsflash, many HS girls also like to get theirs in non-committed flings

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Thanks for the input. I really don't think I need to worry about them sleeping together. I mean of course we've talked about sex and everything. But she tells me everything and she was so excited about holding hands and a kiss. And drawing on my own experience with my first bf we didn't have sex right away we dated for a full 2 years before that happened, but maybe I'm being naive
They are also never alone.

If he’s here from Australia, he’s not looking for a relationship or feeling obligated by social norms that he might at home. He’s looking to score before he goes.

This is true because he's nearly a man, not because he's Australian. Social norms don't discourage men from sex; those norms discourage women from casual encounters. Women are known to enjoy those encounters when they are abroad because they believe their reputation will not suffer.

I have no idea what the daughter wants here, but we all know the Australian lad is interested in one thing only.