DD 16 First Love

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

Your premise is wrong.wanting to have sex and not a long term relationship is not bad intentions

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

Your premise is wrong.wanting to have sex and not a long term relationship is not bad intentions

Convincing a girl that you are interested in a long term relationship, love her and want her to visit in Australia because you know she wants her first time to be with someone who she is in love with - when you do not want her to visit, do not love her and are not interested in a long term relationship- is a bad intention.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

Your premise is wrong.wanting to have sex and not a long term relationship is not bad intentions

Convincing a girl that you are interested in a long term relationship, love her and want her to visit in Australia because you know she wants her first time to be with someone who she is in love with - when you do not want her to visit, do not love her and are not interested in a long term relationship- is a bad intention.

- except you know NONE of this. You don’t even know the boy.

All you seem to know is hate and misandry, PP. hate, hate, hate.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

Your premise is wrong.wanting to have sex and not a long term relationship is not bad intentions

Convincing a girl that you are interested in a long term relationship, love her and want her to visit in Australia because you know she wants her first time to be with someone who she is in love with - when you do not want her to visit, do not love her and are not interested in a long term relationship- is a bad intention.

- except you know NONE of this. You don’t even know the boy.

All you seem to know is hate and misandry, PP. hate, hate, hate.

yeah... maybe this boy is different than ALL the rest.



maybe...

[Anonymous]

I am going to be real.

As a mom with 15yr DD, I would prefer the first time to be with a summer fling that goes back across the world at the end of the summer. Better than some boy here who will just try to trash her reputation or they try and get over involved.

Sorry but that’s me.

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Anonymous wrote:I am going to be real.

As a mom with 15yr DD, I would prefer the first time to be with a summer fling that goes back across the world at the end of the summer. Better than some boy here who will just try to trash her reputation or they try and get over involved.

Sorry but that’s me.

You have major issues.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

Your premise is wrong.wanting to have sex and not a long term relationship is not bad intentions

Convincing a girl that you are interested in a long term relationship, love her and want her to visit in Australia because you know she wants her first time to be with someone who she is in love with - when you do not want her to visit, do not love her and are not interested in a long term relationship- is a bad intention.

- except you know NONE of this. You don’t even know the boy.

All you seem to know is hate and misandry, PP. hate, hate, hate.

yeah... maybe this boy is different than ALL the rest.



maybe...

You still don't get it. You're operating from the belief that girls are tricked into having sex

[Anonymous]

Oh all you boomers clutching your pearls. Girls love sex just as much as boys do. And this boy is not a predator. Give me a break. Teens have sex. LOTS of sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am going to be real.

As a mom with 15yr DD, I would prefer the first time to be with a summer fling that goes back across the world at the end of the summer. Better than some boy here who will just try to trash her reputation or they try and get over involved.

Sorry but that’s me.

funnier.

Same.

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Anonymous wrote:I am going to be real.

As a mom with 15yr DD, I would prefer the first time to be with a summer fling that goes back across the world at the end of the summer. Better than some boy here who will just try to trash her reputation or they try and get over involved.

Sorry but that’s me.

funnier.

Same.

Not sure where the funnier came from.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh all you boomers clutching your pearls. Girls love sex just as much as boys do. And this boy is not a predator. Give me a break. Teens have sex. LOTS of sex.

Agree, but there is someone on this thread who goes way beyond clutching her pearls. She mentally loathes boys to her very core.

She’s probably the same mentally-unstable one who goes around DCUM trashing every woman with a son and calling them “boy moms” like an insult.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes OP- you’re naive. And if they’re never alone, when is the kissing occurring?

Op here. Probably on the beach with their friends the backyard. I mean they are never truly alone the beach is about a 10 minute walk from our house there's constantly neighbors walking to and from and around the beach. At the beach they go with her friends and like bi said neighbors are always there and our neighbors love to talk. When they are at our house I or DH is always around and they are only allowed in the backyard/ front porch family room and people are always in and out including younger siblings it's the same at neighbor's house including a MIL that lives there. I feel like I have eyes everywhere. And we talk. She told me she thought he was cute at the start and the kids. I think she would tell me if she was wanting to have sex. How would I even get her on birth control anyway just ask if she wants it? As for keeping condoms in the house not sure how I feel about that.

If she’s only 16 then I don’t think has s*x on her mind.

Oh, you sweet summer child!

Young girls should focus on their studies and not on foolishness, such as boys.

What studies…it’s summer.

Exactly. I was boy crazy and this would have been a great summer in my opinion. Now a nurse anesthesiologist so I guess I was able to study and get some fun hook-ups.

It’s time for the sexist double standard comments to come to an end. All teens are horny. Girls are allowed to want flings and hook-ups too. Long term boyfriends are boring and too emotional.

Oh girls are totally fine to want flings too... but girls DO tend to get a bit more starry-eyed about it and they are the ones who will feel worse if his intentions are wrong.

I don't know what the controversy is here--almost every teen boy has bad intentions (spoken as a former one) and saying that teen girls can also have bad intentions doesn't make it less important to protect this one.

Your premise is wrong.wanting to have sex and not a long term relationship is not bad intentions

Convincing a girl that you are interested in a long term relationship, love her and want her to visit in Australia because you know she wants her first time to be with someone who she is in love with - when you do not want her to visit, do not love her and are not interested in a long term relationship- is a bad intention.

- except you know NONE of this. You don’t even know the boy.

All you seem to know is hate and misandry, PP. hate, hate, hate.

yeah... maybe this boy is different than ALL the rest.



maybe...

You still don't get it. You're operating from the belief that girls are tricked into having sex

A lot of girls are tricked into sex. Did you not go to high school?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am going to be real.

As a mom with 15yr DD, I would prefer the first time to be with a summer fling that goes back across the world at the end of the summer. Better than some boy here who will just try to trash her reputation or they try and get over involved.

Sorry but that’s me.

I'm the person who is rightfully calling this kid a predator, but you have a valid point. As long as the daughter is aware that this not the love of her life—I've got no beef with girls who just want to get laid, but the OP described a DD who thought she was in love, and her partner is clearly just trying to bang and abandon her.

[Anonymous]

some of yall are serious freaks