I like how you’re acting like people don’t have divorce parties, that’s how much they don’t take divorce seriously. I’m sorry for your hardships, but you are acting like you being abandoned is the way it always goes down. There are a lot of people who act like divorce is NBD, fail to take their kids’ feelings seriously, fail to do everything they can to help their kids, fail to prioritize their kids. |
NP. People have gone out of their way to acknowledge that there are some divorces that are better for everyone, especially due to abuse…but keep pretending. Keep pretending like lazy, casual divorces with freaking divorce parties aren’t a thing. Keep discounting the kids who suffer from that type of unnecessary dynamic. |
I have not seen that. It really sounds like you are looking for a way to feel like you are better than others. You are married, here is your cookie!! You are sooo superior and so are your children. |
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. You either chose poorly or performed poorly. Those are the only two reasons. If you chose poorly the marriage was doomed from the start. If you performed poorly during the marriage you transformed a viable union into an unfortunate separation. |
I think what some of the smug posters don’t want to admit is a lot of what is referenced in the article doesn’t apply to your average dcum-er. I am one of the posters who was left and my child and I were able to stay in the family home. We worked out a financial agreement such that nothing in my child’s life has changed, aside from seeing his dad less (I am not discounting this, of course this matters, and I feel bad about it all the time -hope you’re happy op, you smug smug little so and so) he still is doing the same activities and still has the same level of family involvement with me going to everything (book fair, games and practices), along with involved grandparents.
I’m going to be honest, I don’t think my kid is going to have a worse outcome than the kid his age up the street who has two married parents. I guess the other mom might look at me and inwardly feel smug because she’s got a big ring on her finger and I don’t but my kid is doing fine! |
You’re right, you are better than me! Here is your cookie. |
Do you understand the English language? “Vast majority” =/= “All” Obviously there are SOME issues that absolutely SHOULD lead to divorce, but the VAST MAJORITY of couples CHOOSE to divorce because it’s the most convenient choice for one or both partners. |
You are a deeply unpleasant, spiteful person. I’m not surprised your husband left you. |
Yeah it’s soooo convenient for me that he left me to raise our kid alone!! I am having a blast on those four “free” days a month he takes our kid, as long as he feels like it. It’s great!!!!! (Ha ha just kidding, I have no time to date or have fun, I usually use that time to clean the house and batch cook, but go off I guess) |
It’s hardly unpleasant to point out that life has unpredictable ups and downs, some of which are out of our control. |
Jesus H. Christ you dumb little so and so, OP DIDN’T CONDUCT THIS RESEARCH. I’m terribly sorry that facts trigger you, but don’t shoot the messenger. |
This. Trainwreck families gonna trainwreck. |
Pointing something out is not the same as wishing misfortune on others. You’re a bad person. |
Asked and answered: you DO NOT understand English. You’re also painfully stupid. |
Op was obviously hoping to accomplish something by starting this thread. |