I love that phrase. And agree - I think there are lonely people who long for community. And there are people who are surrounded by folks who need things from them and need quiet alone time. |
You can do that now in the US but the problem is when you get older. You might need people to take care of you. If you are healthy you don't really need people but it's good to have people in case you need them. |
Most of these do not apply to me. |
Well put! It sounds dreamy. |
I feel like the US is the country that doesn't value community. Because sOcIaLiSm. People value their perceived community but the US is too full of "others" for people to want to be communal with them. |
300m people is too big to generalize. Some value community. Some don’t. |
I'm so cynical now but this is what the suburbs are about. The people who go on about loving their community are usually taking advantage of others. I was raised to be a helper and after decades of being taken advantage of, I don't put my hand up anymore. |
Liberal democrat here but what you are saying has nothing to do with political leanings. I've walked away from several liberal "friends" who care about themselves and their kids over everything. They'll happily dump their problems on you and expect favors but when anyone requests help or has needs you'll hear "I just don't have the bandwidth". Selfishness and cruelty are not isolated to one political group. |
AI communities don’t value communities Social media ones don’t either, only for ad revenue or making a sale. |
Why not? What do you do with your time? What if those can be more in person or social? |
No. You can do it with friends, neighbors, families from distant locations or small families as well. Growing up that was our Christmas Eve- with family friends family. And here in DC we host Easter ham or Thanksgiving turkey with family friends from school and my parents love to meet gem all too if they fly in. Stop the excuses, make some effort. |
Most of America did value community back with people mainly had children in wedlock, or went to a place of worship weekly, or were from similar cultures. Now the Hispanics have their community, the Muslims do, the Jews do, the Catholics do, the wasps do, and the rest of the hodge podges abandoned it all. That said, outside of the east coast there is great school spirit, sports team pride, and community or state pride in the Midwest, the south and in California. Here people ca. even name a starter in their mlb, nfl, nhl, or nba or flagship state school team. Heck, they probably dont even know what those acronyms mean. |
Me neither. I just stay home all the time working or watching Netflix and social medias. |
You think the U.S. values community!?!? HA it’s all about individual rights. Don’t tread on me, not don’t tread on us. No trespassing signs everywhere. HOV lanes instead of mass transit. Until recently, little multigenerational housing. Single family homes the dream, apartments and condos for people who haven’t made it yet.
The U.S. values communiry!? Please |
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