Men, how often are you hit on by women here?

[Anonymous]

When I go for a walk with my daughter, who's a pretty girl, women often talk to me. I'm not sure they're actually hitting on me but they seem attracted to me. I suspect these women are intrigued because their families don't have many fathers who talk respectfully to their daughters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I go for a walk with my daughter, who's a pretty girl, women often talk to me. I'm not sure they're actually hitting on me but they seem attracted to me. I suspect these women are intrigued because their families don't have many fathers who talk respectfully to their daughters.

This is the kind of stuff that makes me so surprised this website is free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I go for a walk with my daughter, who's a pretty girl, women often talk to me. I'm not sure they're actually hitting on me but they seem attracted to me. I suspect these women are intrigued because their families don't have many fathers who talk respectfully to their daughters.

This is the kind of stuff that makes me so surprised this website is free.

Thank you. Glad you find me so entertaining.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am curious how often are you hit on by woman in this area and when and how does it happen and how do you respond if you are seeing someone especially?

Be direct. “Are you flirting with me? The person who I am together with is (location). You actually look just like her! Would you like to see a photo? (if the person is presentable).

The person will go away

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I go for a walk with my daughter, who's a pretty girl, women often talk to me. I'm not sure they're actually hitting on me but they seem attracted to me. I suspect these women are intrigued because their families don't have many fathers who talk respectfully to their daughters.

This is the kind of stuff that makes me so surprised this website is free.

Nah. Nah women will talk to anyone We are neglected and bored

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Right?

If he is getting hit on with his wife by his side, that's more about bullying the wife than it is flirting with a man.

Wow. No exchanging smiles ,ever

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm barely average looking and I don't get hit on. That's something for attractive men only.

Feel the same as a woman, ha ha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am curious how often are you hit on by woman in this area and when and how does it happen and how do you respond if you are seeing someone especially?

Be direct. “Are you flirting with me? The person who I am together with is (location). You actually look just like her! Would you like to see a photo? (if the person is presentable).

The person will go away

As an earlier poster who said he got hit on regularly i can say I’ve never been unsure of what to do… but I can’t imagine a single scenario where I would’ve tried making them look at a picture of my wife.

I’ll also add that it was worse when I was in my mid-20s - i had a job where I interacted with the public quite a bit and it was 2-3 times a week and a lot of the women were over 55. And some were quite crude. It was really shocking what some women said or how willing they’d be to touch me.

Occasionally get gay men, mostly when I’m riding my bike, one guy feigned enormous interest in my bicycle, which is vintage but average and un extraordinary and it took me a few days to realize his offer to “go for a ride anytime” with me was not about his love for 1990 cannondales.

[Anonymous]

At a minimum it was inappropriately flirtatious, though perhaps not a literal invitation to have sex immediately. Certainly inappropriate.

Her comment was stupid, and stupid people do stupid things. She might have been showing off for her friends, bored, or looking to rile things up. If she were going to give this guy an invitation to have sex, she would have done so privately.

Even someone as stupid as this bimbo knows that the women who watched her tell the guy he had pretty eyes told everyone they could what a trollop she was.

[Anonymous]

Women never flirt with me. I am fine with out
Recently left a bad marriage so I am good for awhile lol.

[Anonymous]

Women flirt with me all the time. And it's even worse when I am with my fiancee. I am 1/2 black/white. White, Black, Hispanic, Asian all are intrigued. Are you Italian? Are you Brazilian? What color are your eyes? I like your hair?

I'll say though women don't flirt with you in an overtly sexual way like we men do..in fact with women it's subtle and they never reveal their true intentions. I think 99% of the time they just want to engage. Women are social creatures. So if you are a guy and a woman is flirting with you sure enjoy the moment but don't start thinking like she wants you.

My fiancee rejected me 3 times before she agreed to go on a data with me. I picked the nerd in college that most guys overlooked and I think I hit the jackpot. I'm happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

NP +1. We are both very good looking and we are a biracial couple. Many people (who we meet in IRL for the first time) simply do not assume that we are together - 3 kids, 20+ years.