Men, how often are you hit on by women here?

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Anonymous wrote:What does being hit on actually entail? Asking to get a drink sometimes? Or just a compliment?

Sometimes I get the feeling that the posters who say they're hit on constantly (or their spouse are) may just be misinterpreting.

I'm pretty oblivious but instances where my wife remarked about it were a female coworker giving me a nickname, one making a comment on a dress shirt, and DS reporting that I had talked to Larla's mom the "entire" party.

Sometimes though women see things that are not there. Women contradict themselves. On one hand they claim oh "we don't want your man", but on the other hand they see every wan as.wanting their man lol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What does being hit on actually entail? Asking to get a drink sometimes? Or just a compliment?

Sometimes I get the feeling that the posters who say they're hit on constantly (or their spouse are) may just be misinterpreting.

I'm pretty oblivious but instances where my wife remarked about it were a female coworker giving me a nickname, one making a comment on a dress shirt, and DS reporting that I had talked to Larla's mom the "entire" party.

Sometimes though women see things that are not there. Women contradict themselves. On one hand they claim oh "we don't want your man", but on the other hand they see every wan as.wanting their man lol.

Oops ... Every woman as wanting their man

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

Oh wow I don't think I'd be comfortable with that. Do you get hit on as much and how's his reaction?

I get hit on because I have an hour glass figure with huge boobs. DH doesn’t get jealous. He is confident and knows he does not have anything to worry about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

Oh wow I don't think I'd be comfortable with that. Do you get hit on as much and how's his reaction?

I get hit on because I have an hour glass figure with huge boobs. DH doesn’t get jealous. He is confident and knows he does not have anything to worry about.

How does your booty look in leggings?

[Anonymous]

DH is a former D1 swimming athlete and is also a lead guitarist in a band. He is 6'2 tall and very handsome. He gets hit on all the time by women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

Oh wow I don't think I'd be comfortable with that. Do you get hit on as much and how's his reaction?

I get hit on because I have an hour glass figure with huge boobs. DH doesn’t get jealous. He is confident and knows he does not have anything to worry about.

I love you and you’re huge b00bs. How huge are they…?

[Anonymous]

Never verbally. I've recently rededicated myself to the gym, lost 30 pounds and gained a fair amount of muscle. I'm naturally large framed so it sits well on me.

All I've noticed is lingering sideways glances while walking by which never used to happen, but never anything verbal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH is a former D1 swimming athlete and is also a lead guitarist in a band. He is 6'2 tall and very handsome. He gets hit on all the time by women.

You hit the jackpot--well done. Hopefully he's kind, funny, and talented in other ways too!. #swoon

[Anonymous]

My DH is also a 6’3” guy in a band who is very extroverted and works in sales. He’s good with kids and is athletic. So he gets hit on some.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What does being hit on actually entail? Asking to get a drink sometimes? Or just a compliment?

Sometimes I get the feeling that the posters who say they're hit on constantly (or their spouse are) may just be misinterpreting.

I'm pretty oblivious but instances where my wife remarked about it were a female coworker giving me a nickname, one making a comment on a dress shirt, and DS reporting that I had talked to Larla's mom the "entire" party.

I comment on things like men’s dress shirts. It’s harmless and a nice thing to say. I’m not flirting.

[Anonymous]

Happened to me once...I just pretended to be clueless enough not to take the hints she was dropping.

[Anonymous]

DCUM at it again.
All of you thinking you're getting "hit on"...

... just reframe your thinking. Short of an overtly sexual compliment or a direct invitation to spend more time together, you cannot know the intentions of the other person!

There is a spectrum of interest here that you're entirely ignoring with your insistence of "getting hit on". You know this, in your heart of hearts, I hope. If someone is attentive to you or your spouse, because you look good that day in your outfit, or have something entertaining to say, it doesn't mean they are intentionally flirting, or wish to do anything extra with you than they're currently doing.

Going by the criteria of some posters here, it would mean I get hit on constantly and that I sometimes hit on other people!!! Except that this isn't true. Do people prefer to talk to other people that seem approachable, are good-looking and/or can sustain an intelligent conversation? Of course! We all do! But that's mostly unconscious and doesn't qualify for "hitting on" someone.

Some posters are just so full of themselves.

[Anonymous]

Man on the short side here who only gets hit on when winning money at the casino blackjack table

[Anonymous]

His British accent gets him some attention, smiles and flirty jokes. To which he then responds w a fake texas drawl. But once the dad jokes start they move on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

Oh wow I don't think I'd be comfortable with that. Do you get hit on as much and how's his reaction?

I get hit on because I have an hour glass figure with huge boobs. DH doesn’t get jealous. He is confident and knows he does not have anything to worry about.

How does your booty look in leggings?

I am more of skirts and dresses woman but it looks good in almost anything.