Private School

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are living that close to the edge, you shouldn't be in private school to begin with. My sister's kids are all in private school and she can't afford to buy blinds for her new house.


this!

we have money set aside so that no matter what happens to us financially our kids won’t be impacted. It’s CRAZY to have your kids in a school that depends on your employment.


I mean, is it crazy to have bought a house based on employment? People make choices based on the most likely future scenario. You have no idea why her kids are in private

You need a house to live in, and it is presumed to be an appreciating asset. Private school is a luxury.


Nah, have you seen what the government is doing to the education system?!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The private school obsession of Americans lol. Your child will be okay in public school lol. They can get into a top 10 college don't worry. My twins went to Publix school and they are both at Stanford. Now of course you will agree all private schools are not created equal. That's true, ours wasn't the best. But I was my kids tutor and it worked out for us.



The point of private isn’t to get into Stanford. It’s just a better well rounded experience k-12.


No its to self segregate and not be with "those" people.

Some kids are better in private for the small classes and attention. Other kids are better off in public with more kids and opportnities.


The government thinks kids are better in white Christian schools. The publics are for the leftovers.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Any folks considering taking their kids out of private school in anticipation of layoffs?

No, not at all. This is a bad time for our kids to mingle with the lower class.
Also, public school will get worse after this administration gets rid of the department of education.



+1

Send you don't want to be part of the mass exodus from public to private. It will be very hard to get a spot.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are living that close to the edge, you shouldn't be in private school to begin with. My sister's kids are all in private school and she can't afford to buy blinds for her new house.

I would never fault any parent for being willing to make sacrifices for their child’s education.
I could assume that their job was stable and they banked on career advancement and future income. At the same time getting admitted to a private is not easy, so they are good parents and value the education their kids receive.

There are plenty more ways to criticize someone else’s parenting than talk about private school.


Screens
Sugar
Bed times
Food dyes
Organic food
Having a SAHP (or mom)
Outsourcing childcare
And much much more

....bus most importantly let's use it to judge women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The private school obsession of Americans lol. Your child will be okay in public school lol. They can get into a top 10 college don't worry. My twins went to Publix school and they are both at Stanford. Now of course you will agree all private schools are not created equal. That's true, ours wasn't the best. But I was my kids tutor and it worked out for us.



The easiest way to get into the Ivy is from a low performing rural school where you are tutored by your educated mother. You hardly invented that.

There are a lot of other factors including your own child’s happiness — I was in a rural high school and hated every minute of it.



The environment matters.

In private school DD was surrounded by kids who wanted to do well, wanted to get into good schools, had wordly and well educated parents.

In providing getting anything less than A was considered a failure.

In public DD is surrounded by kids who aim to get a 3 on AP exam and whose main focus is curling hair and dating and they are pressuring her into dating.

Ironically, the teachers in public are much better, but the spend the bulk of time on catering to the weak students.

So unless you lock your kid up in the room and tighter parent them, the will be the product of their environment.


Nope, you'd be creating a different environment for them to be a product of and that will come with a different set of challenges.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are living that close to the edge, you shouldn't be in private school to begin with. My sister's kids are all in private school and she can't afford to buy blinds for her new house.


this!

we have money set aside so that no matter what happens to us financially our kids won’t be impacted. It’s CRAZY to have your kids in a school that depends on your employment.


I mean, is it crazy to have bought a house based on employment? People make choices based on the most likely future scenario. You have no idea why her kids are in private

You need a house to live in, and it is presumed to be an appreciating asset. Private school is a luxury.


Nah, have you seen what the government is doing to the education system?!


The federal government actually has very little control over what is happening at the local level. If they stop the fed funds, there will be a scramble, but they are not the only player in the room by a long shot.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The private school obsession of Americans lol. Your child will be okay in public school lol. They can get into a top 10 college don't worry. My twins went to Publix school and they are both at Stanford. Now of course you will agree all private schools are not created equal. That's true, ours wasn't the best. But I was my kids tutor and it worked out for us.



The easiest way to get into the Ivy is from a low performing rural school where you are tutored by your educated mother. You hardly invented that.

There are a lot of other factors including your own child’s happiness — I was in a rural high school and hated every minute of it.



The environment matters.

In private school DD was surrounded by kids who wanted to do well, wanted to get into good schools, had wordly and well educated parents.

In providing getting anything less than A was considered a failure.

In public DD is surrounded by kids who aim to get a 3 on AP exam and whose main focus is curling hair and dating and they are pressuring her into dating.

Ironically, the teachers in public are much better, but the spend the bulk of time on catering to the weak students.

So unless you lock your kid up in the room and tighter parent them, the will be the product of their environment.


The cream rises to the top. Our HS is 40% Farms/Low income but the bright ambitious kids all congregate together and challenge themselves. They get mostly 5's on their numerous APs and send tons of kids to excellent colleges every year.

Private school might be a better choice if your child is lazy and unambitious and likely to fall in with the wrong crowd. But the smart, focuses kids do very well in public schools.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are living that close to the edge, you shouldn't be in private school to begin with. My sister's kids are all in private school and she can't afford to buy blinds for her new house.


this!

we have money set aside so that no matter what happens to us financially our kids won’t be impacted. It’s CRAZY to have your kids in a school that depends on your employment.


I mean, is it crazy to have bought a house based on employment? People make choices based on the most likely future scenario. You have no idea why her kids are in private

You need a house to live in, and it is presumed to be an appreciating asset. Private school is a luxury.


Nah, have you seen what the government is doing to the education system?!


The federal government actually has very little control over what is happening at the local level. If they stop the fed funds, there will be a scramble, but they are not the only player in the room by a long shot.


They’re not going to stop the fed funds for education. They want to block fund but ironically want more control over what is taught and are asking the Dept of Ed to do exactly that. They want red states to do as they please but control over the blue states. I think curriculum nationwide will change.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are living that close to the edge, you shouldn't be in private school to begin with. My sister's kids are all in private school and she can't afford to buy blinds for her new house.


this!

we have money set aside so that no matter what happens to us financially our kids won’t be impacted. It’s CRAZY to have your kids in a school that depends on your employment.


I mean, is it crazy to have bought a house based on employment? People make choices based on the most likely future scenario. You have no idea why her kids are in private

You need a house to live in, and it is presumed to be an appreciating asset. Private school is a luxury.


Nah, have you seen what the government is doing to the education system?!


I work for LCPS and the feds have very little control over what goes on in the classroom. It’s actually the community that makes the demands that bring up the standard. Parents in loudoun are a gigantic PITA, but they do advocate for their kids. This even varies school to school. The more savage the Karen the more resources their student population gets.

I personally have been very happy with public schools. My oldest is 2nd year UVA and had made the deans list every semester and came into college very very well prepared for the rigors.
Anonymous
I find American public schools to be very interesting. We migrated here from a very poor African country when I was in 8th grade. It was shocking how advanced my math and science skills were. And I attended a very crowded public school back in my country. I had already completed both sequences of algebra and geometry by the time I finished 7th grade in my country. So I was able to take pre-calc in 9th grade and I was considered advance at my high school.

Now I can understand why parents would want to send their kids to private school. Of course my school district could have been a bad one.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I find American public schools to be very interesting. We migrated here from a very poor African country when I was in 8th grade. It was shocking how advanced my math and science skills were. And I attended a very crowded public school back in my country. I had already completed both sequences of algebra and geometry by the time I finished 7th grade in my country. So I was able to take pre-calc in 9th grade and I was considered advance at my high school.

Now I can understand why parents would want to send their kids to private school. Of course my school district could have been a bad one.


i tried moving my kid to private during covid and they actually could not meet his math demands or his foreign language demands. we would have had to pay extra to get him college classes for German and Math. He went up to German 6 in high school and cslc1-3, and linear algebra. He’s at MIT now.
Anonymous
Don’t get me started. I’m from a former Soviet country.

My school was very austere - no smart boards, no colourful, fun materials, no playgrounds, no fancy equipment. Blackboard and chalk.

My education was far better than DC’s education in a well funded school. It’s not about money.

It’s about lack of education culture at home, teachers are crappy at teaching, parents not holding kids accountable and setting the bar low to the weakest kids.

No child left behind was started by Republicans. Now everyone is behind.

Trump loves the uneducated, he said. His favorite people.
Anonymous
Even posters here are illiterate - “illegal boarder”. We wrote essays starting from elementary school.

We analyzed art and wrote essays about paintings. We read classical literature and wrote essays about it starting middle school.

We didn’t have advanced math tracks, but my math classes were so good that I did a placement test fifteen years later at US university and scored high to get into CS program. In my kid’s 8th grade half students thought multiplication precedes division in order of operations.

We had blueprint drawing classes that required highest precision and skill. My DC’s school had to hold a special class in 10th grade to teach how to use a ruler and protractor - future Republicans, I’m sure.

All this was a poor and average Soviet school.

And to add, I did not see a single fight in school the entire time I was there.

In public school in America I’m paying outrageous amounts of money to tutors in almost all core subjects so that my kid will have an education close to what I received for free in a public school.
Anonymous
We are on a waiting list for a top DMV private. If enough people pull their kids out, will they admit us during the academic year, or do they typically wait until the next full year to accept off the wait list? Thank you!!
Anonymous
Private school is a luxury not a necessity.
post reply Forum Index » Money and Finances
Message Quick Reply
Go to: