Would you expect to be told about this as a wedding guest?

[Anonymous]

No.

[Anonymous]

No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d want to know. I want to know how they wipe down their counters, if cats are allowed on them, if they’ve washed their hands. People are gross.

Sometimes I wonder how germophobes get through the day. Were you also the same people yelling at those unmasked outside during covid?

Or the ones with "severe allergies"
If it is so bad you probably shouldn't trust food outside your home at all.

[Anonymous]

No way

[Anonymous]

Why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d want to know. I want to know how they wipe down their counters, if cats are allowed on them, if they’ve washed their hands. People are gross.

Sometimes I wonder how germophobes get through the day. Were you also the same people yelling at those unmasked outside during covid?

Or the ones with "severe allergies"
If it is so bad you probably shouldn't trust food outside your home at all.

Yup. We have a niece with Celiac, if she's not sure she doesn't eat it. Not that she would be eating cake, I'm just saying that she's very careful.

[Anonymous]

It’s so strange to me that people are panicked about food from peoples homes while there are massive recalls from large food production places that kill people all the time, and they’re not worried about out eating all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s so strange to me that people are panicked about food from peoples homes while there are massive recalls from large food production places that kill people all the time, and they’re not worried about out eating all the time.

These people are not rational.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d want to know. I want to know how they wipe down their counters, if cats are allowed on them, if they’ve washed their hands. People are gross.

The professional baker could have sneezed all over the cake. You never know.

[Anonymous]

I had a couple of bar and restaurant jobs during college:

1) McDonald's (cleaning after they closed, I lasted 4 days)--discovered that they are designed so if you are a customer you can't see the chocolate syrup that leaked all over the floor and got tracked everywhere.
2) Small independent restaurant. Health inspectors had a bunch of corrections. I was washing dishes while someone was varnishing a shelf directly above the sink (place did not have a machine) and one of the cooks was standing on half the grill cleaning the hood while the other cook was frying burgers on the other half.
3) Bar back in a hotel bar that was a major tourist spot. Pest control came in at the height of a Saturday night. We were frantically covering the glassware (behind the bar, people couldn't see us) and the margarita pitchers we were mixing while they sprayed for cockroaches (hotel was a few hundred years old and so were the cockroaches--while I worked there they discovered a cellar room nobody even knew existed).

[Anonymous]

What? No. Why would I be "entitled" to any such thing?

[Anonymous]

Gobble up Larla's cake.
Then next day she has posted photos of her cats sitting on counter next to cake. Licking frosting bowls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the cake was made by a home baker as opposed to an actual bakery? Is this something you feel entitled to know as a guest?

Just.dont.eat.it.

[Anonymous]

As a former wedding photographer twice I saw / knew the wedding cakes were home baked. But that is because in both cases they were a wedding gift from a guest and in both cases they were absolutely gorgeous (I knew because the couples wanted to make sure I got lots of photos).

[Anonymous]

No, I don't expect to know this.