H is becoming obsessed with aliens and it’s freaking me out

[Anonymous]

As someone who's fallen a bit into the rabbit hole of UFOs, mainly as a result of some very lucid dreams-actually had by many- I can understand your husband's fascination.

It's called ontological shock. He's actually ahead of the curve. It is clear that our government and governments around the world are launching what's called "soft disclosure". Having a larger part of the population mentally prepared for such a revelation it actually useful if you think about it.

Many humans are having "experiences" like I've had that seem to draw us into researching. It's an undeniable pull and unfortunately stronger for some. I'm completely normal, well traveled and educated citizen, and many in my circle would be shocked at my beliefs around this topic. It's truly fascinating and literally other worldly. There is nothing more life changing at a meta level than knowing we're not the only ones and all the possible ramifications of it.

As far as your fears, is this truly the only topic he cares about? Is he incapable of discussing anything else? Is he unable to work, engage in social activities without discussing it? If so, then yes, it may be a problem. Otherwise, it's something that's shaken him to his core and he's trying to process it.

Rather than trying to convince him otherwise, have you acknowledged his views, even if they currently aren't your own? Doing this and putting a limit on discussing it may be reasonable. He wants to be heard, not dismissed on this topic and it sounds like you're dismissing him.

FWIW, I imagine you if you start to seriously look at the topic, you too will likely become more interested. Virginia alone is a hotbed of activity - Google Langley Dec 2024 UAPs. They had to move the Raptors that protect DC from UAPs that swarmed the base. This event has been kept on the down low for obvious reasons. Read about the Va Beach Navy pilots 2017. We have the most advanced tech in the world with China at a close second. Russia is possible but less likely these days. It doesn't appear that this is tech from any of us.

[Anonymous]

The problem isn't the belief.
The problem is his outburst of anger that ip doesn't believe.
The problem is wanting to do something. What does that mean. Does it mean writing a letter, joining a march?.

A new unique hobby or interest is fine but when it starts to change your personality makes you aggressive or think you can overthrow the government it's crossed into the unhealthy and probably indicates some sort of health crisis