What does your nursing toddler call your boobs?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:IMO, it just seems overkill to nurse your child past a certain age... I'll be liberal and say 18 months. After that it's just... ick. It's like you've given yourself over to your child body and soul forever and ever. Don't you want your body back? Not to mention the mineral depletion going on in your bod. It seems selfless to the extreme and psychologically not good for the kid (talk about instant gratification!).


It's not instant gratification...it's a meal for christ's sake. Is having a glass of milk, instant gratification? Do you not let your child eat when hungry? Its also not forever and ever...its a few years. Some people like it...hell, I can eat some donuts now and then and don't gain weight because of it. That is in NO WAY why I do it, but I'm just saying. Not everyone looks at it as not having their body or extreme "selflessness."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:IMO, it just seems overkill to nurse your child past a certain age... I'll be liberal and say 18 months. After that it's just... ick. It's like you've given yourself over to your child body and soul forever and ever. Don't you want your body back? Not to mention the mineral depletion going on in your bod. It seems selfless to the extreme and psychologically not good for the kid (talk about instant gratification!).


would you please share the research you've read to come to this conclusion?
Anonymous
will someone please explain me why a child having a meal is GROSS?
Anonymous
IMO, it just seems overkill to nurse your child past a certain age... I'll be liberal and say 18 months. After that it's just... ick.


so why is OK for kids to wear a diaper until they are four, but not appropriate to nurse past the age of 18 months? It's like the people who demand that pacifiers be disposed of by the time a child is one year old, but who would let a child have another lovey without blinking an eye.

Anonymous
A good friend BF'd her child till she was 3 and her husband practically pried them apart. DD is 20 now, a pre med student at an ivy league school. She has lots of friends, she's an athlete, and an editor of the school paper.

She called her mother's breasts "Nursie nursies."

Back off ladies. Who cares?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A good friend BF'd her child till she was 3 and her husband practically pried them apart. DD is 20 now, a pre med student at an ivy league school. She has lots of friends, she's an athlete, and an editor of the school paper.

She called her mother's breasts "Nursie nursies."

Back off ladies. Who cares?




At least the daughter will be a doctor and not a "nursie."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I always say *Want nurse?* but thanks to DH the 2 y/o cries for *Tittay*.

NOW THIS if freaking dysfunctional.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I always say *Want nurse?* but thanks to DH the 2 y/o cries for *Tittay*.

NOW THIS if freaking dysfunctional.


I'm the PP you're quoting.... and why is that? Not that it would be any of your business, but I'm not whipping them out on demand to feed him. He only nurses 1x a day, right before bed. When he's hungry or thirsty any other time he says *I eat*. Do I wish my husband hadn't been teasing me and taught him a fun new word? Sure. But its not like I have to worry about him saying it in the middle of the grocery store. And if he did, so what? He's 2.
Anonymous
When the child is a toddler it's not a MEAL anymore. And yes it's gross.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I always say *Want nurse?* but thanks to DH the 2 y/o cries for *Tittay*.

NOW THIS if freaking dysfunctional.


I'm the PP you're quoting.... and why is that? Not that it would be any of your business, but I'm not whipping them out on demand to feed him. He only nurses 1x a day, right before bed. When he's hungry or thirsty any other time he says *I eat*. Do I wish my husband hadn't been teasing me and taught him a fun new word? Sure. But its not like I have to worry about him saying it in the middle of the grocery store. And if he did, so what? He's 2.

I don't care where or how you feed him. I think it's demeaning that your DH taught your son to refer to your breasts that way. Plus, you DO have to worry about him asking for your "Tittays" as you push the cart through Target. You really do. Worse, what if he points to some other woman's chest and says "Tittay!" Do you think that person won't care?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:When the child is a toddler it's not a MEAL anymore. And yes it's gross.


not a meal? i thought they still got milk out of the boobs at that age...
Anonymous
A question for women who BF toddlers: What does DH think about it? Does he want your boobs back? Does HE... for lack of a better word... "use" your tits too?

A poster here indicated she breast fed up to 33 months... isn't that tiresome?
Anonymous
I find the question revolting. In general, I feel the lactivists on this forum are seriously unbalanced and completely wacko, uand this thread seems like the newest proof of it.

w.e.a.n. before your child speaks words.

p.s. I also recommend not quoting WHO guidelines, or living according to them, unless you live in a country with WHO field offices.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I always say *Want nurse?* but thanks to DH the 2 y/o cries for *Tittay*.

NOW THIS if freaking dysfunctional.


I'm the PP you're quoting.... and why is that? Not that it would be any of your business, but I'm not whipping them out on demand to feed him. He only nurses 1x a day, right before bed. When he's hungry or thirsty any other time he says *I eat*. Do I wish my husband hadn't been teasing me and taught him a fun new word? Sure. But its not like I have to worry about him saying it in the middle of the grocery store. And if he did, so what? He's 2.

I don't care where or how you feed him. I think it's demeaning that your DH taught your son to refer to your breasts that way. Plus, you DO have to worry about him asking for your "Tittays" as you push the cart through Target. You really do. Worse, what if he points to some other woman's chest and says "Tittay!" Do you think that person won't care?


It's hard to believe that anyone would think that "titty" is a fun new word for a two-year-old. I wonder how long before her husband teaches his son the c-word to describe women?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I find the question revolting. In general, I feel the lactivists on this forum are seriously unbalanced and completely wacko, uand this thread seems like the newest proof of it.

w.e.a.n. before your child speaks words.

p.s. I also recommend not quoting WHO guidelines, or living according to them, unless you live in a country with WHO field offices.


what's so bad about nursing a child that can speak? please explain.
and human beings with dollar bills in their pockets are as mortal as us down here in places where WHO has field offices. don't you know that? why is ok for us villagers BF our children until they're older and not for the lady who wears formals to work in an office?
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