Artem Chigvintsev (Nikki Bella’s husband) charged with domestic violence

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

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Anonymous wrote:So based on the 911 call, was he trying to set her up as the violent one?

Probably. Luckily the cops saw through it.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

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Anonymous wrote:I guess she won’t be divorcing Artem and will just put up with him. Sad.

I guess society will continue to blame survivors and the choices they make focusing on them and their reactions rather than hold domestic abusers accountable. Sad.

It has to start with her holding him accountable which she is clearly not doing.

You have no idea what she’s doing or done. But it’s interesting that your reaction to this is to focus on her and not his violence.

Someone bailed him out. I wonder who? And yes, I want to see if she gets away from this as$hole. He isn’t going to leave. Not sure how that is the “wrong” reaction.

So you are assuming Nikki bailed him out?

Who else might spend $25,000 on him?

You know you can bail yourself out right? He’s not poor, he can afford the bail. If for some reason he needed a co-signed the obvious choice would be his brother.

How is that obvious when many of us don’t know if he has a brother? How do you specifically know he has a brother? And what makes you think his brother over his wife would bail him out? Very odd.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

But your stance all along has been since I keep saying she should leave him, that makes me victim blaming. Now you’re agreeing that they are actually two “separate” issues. Interesting.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

Great! Well maybe now everyone can see clearly what I mean.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

Great! Well maybe now everyone can see clearly what I mean.

Maybe you’ll understand why some people wish the initial and remaining focus be on his violence for which he was arrested, and not her response to that violence and whether she “holds him accountable.”

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

Great! Well maybe now everyone can see clearly what I mean.

Maybe you’ll understand why some people wish the initial and remaining focus be on his violence for which he was arrested, and not her response to that violence and whether she “holds him accountable.”

Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. It is not your place to tell me or anyone else how to respond to this particular situation. I will comment on her response to the situation if I want to. That doesn’t mean I blame her for any of this. I’m the OP of this thread. I won’t accept you continuing to tell me I’m “blaming the victim” after I’ve clearly explained myself and when you’ve even admitted that her leaving him and blaming the victim are two separate issues. Ask yourself why are so quick to ascribe negative intentions to my posts on an entertainment board after I’ve explained myself? You need help.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

Great! Well maybe now everyone can see clearly what I mean.

Maybe you’ll understand why some people wish the initial and remaining focus be on his violence for which he was arrested, and not her response to that violence and whether she “holds him accountable.”

Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. It is not your place to tell me or anyone else how to respond to this particular situation. I will comment on her response to the situation if I want to. That doesn’t mean I blame her for any of this. I’m the OP of this thread. I won’t accept you continuing to tell me I’m “blaming the victim” after I’ve clearly explained myself and when you’ve even admitted that her leaving him and blaming the victim are two separate issues. Ask yourself why are so quick to ascribe negative intentions to my posts on an entertainment board after I’ve explained myself? You need help.

You need to calm down. You’re getting so worked up. You need to remain more accepting of other viewpoints when you post threads.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

Great! Well maybe now everyone can see clearly what I mean.

Maybe you’ll understand why some people wish the initial and remaining focus be on his violence for which he was arrested, and not her response to that violence and whether she “holds him accountable.”

Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. It is not your place to tell me or anyone else how to respond to this particular situation. I will comment on her response to the situation if I want to. That doesn’t mean I blame her for any of this. I’m the OP of this thread. I won’t accept you continuing to tell me I’m “blaming the victim” after I’ve clearly explained myself and when you’ve even admitted that her leaving him and blaming the victim are two separate issues. Ask yourself why are so quick to ascribe negative intentions to my posts on an entertainment board after I’ve explained myself? You need help.

You need to calm down. You’re getting so worked up. You need to remain more accepting of other viewpoints when you post threads.

To have someone continually tell me I’m blaming a DV victim (when I’m clearly not) and say it’s “sickening” is odd. I’m going to have to assume you’re a troll at this point. Good day.

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Anonymous wrote:I see no post of mine where I said it was her fault she was abused. You are absolutely batsh*t. I can’t figure out why you’re hell bent on continuing that narrative that I am blaming Nikki. I said she should leave the guy. I hope she does and I hope they both get help. Multiple posters aren’t calling me out - it’s simply you.

I will continue to stand by my opinion.

Absolutely multiple posts. I did. And haven’t posted in a while. Deal with it. You were wrong. And continue to be, when you say it’s not that deep. It is actually. It’s complicated, nuanced and deep.

You need help. Nikki should leave Artem. I am curious who bailed him out too.

Whether she should leave him is a separate issue from the gross victim blaming. We all hope there’s no abuse to begin with, and that the relationship ends if there is. But to act like this isn’t a complicated issue is just stupid.

Once again you’ve misunderstood me. I didn’t say this situation with Nikki and Artem isn’t complicated. I meant that what I posted wasn’t complicated (or not that deep). I keep saying she should leave him and you keep saying I’m victim blaming. Me simply stating she should leave him isn’t complicated. My intentions are clear. You have been reading way too much into my statements on a message board.

And once again you are responding to multiple people.

Great! Well maybe now everyone can see clearly what I mean.

Maybe you’ll understand why some people wish the initial and remaining focus be on his violence for which he was arrested, and not her response to that violence and whether she “holds him accountable.”

Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. It is not your place to tell me or anyone else how to respond to this particular situation. I will comment on her response to the situation if I want to. That doesn’t mean I blame her for any of this. I’m the OP of this thread. I won’t accept you continuing to tell me I’m “blaming the victim” after I’ve clearly explained myself and when you’ve even admitted that her leaving him and blaming the victim are two separate issues. Ask yourself why are so quick to ascribe negative intentions to my posts on an entertainment board after I’ve explained myself? You need help.

You need to calm down. You’re getting so worked up. You need to remain more accepting of other viewpoints when you post threads.

To have someone continually tell me I’m blaming a DV victim (when I’m clearly not) and say it’s “sickening” is odd. I’m going to have to assume you’re a troll at this point. Good day.

Again, you’re arguing with multiple people. Some PEOPLE are telling you that. I haven’t said anything was sickening but someone else might have. This cracks me up that you think you “own” a thread that you started with the incredibly thought-provoking, insightful, deep comment of “wow. Unbelievable.” Others actually want to discuss the complexity of domestic violence and you’re saying it’s just posts on an entertainment board. Good day indeed.

[Anonymous]

This should make the PP happy:
https://www.tmz.com/2024/09/03/nikki-bella-seeking-divorce-lawyer-artem-chigvintsev/

Not everyone who is a victim of DV has the resources and ability to fire into divorce action the same week they're attacked. Just sayin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This should make the PP happy:
https://www.tmz.com/2024/09/03/nikki-bella-seeking-divorce-lawyer-artem-chigvintsev/

Not everyone who is a victim of DV has the resources and ability to fire into divorce action the same week they're attacked. Just sayin.

Woo!!!! Go Nikki!!!! I am thrilled. I also had a hunch her twin sister would help her. They are extremely close and there’s no way her sister would let her put up that sh*t!