Revealing clothing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH was not into it when we were younger, but we both look really good in our late 40s and I think he loves how great I look. I don't wear revealing clothes a lot, but in the right settings, he's all for it. Either because it makes him randy, or he enjoys the subtle attention I get from other men. It's fun sometimes to live a little.

Always wonder if men who love their wife wearing revealing clothes and getting attention from strangers also want them to sleep with a third or watch them with a third

No. My DH has no input on what I wear, whatsoever. He tells me his opinions on lots of things, as I do to him - but neither one of us is beholden to the other.

That said, when I periodically put on something revealing, he definitely gets turned on. I normally dress pretty well - but in a more classy/cute way. But I have a few things that are revealing that i wear on occasion, and he enjoys that. Like, at our big holiday party last year, I wore a bright red romper that was neither low cut nor tight, but looked amazing on me in heels - and it had a peephole between my breasts. I only decided to wear it last minute, needed a bra - and the only one that really worked was matching-color sexy french lace bra, that if you were standing from the right angle, you could see my pretty perfectly perky B-cup breasts and a hint of bra. It was hot. DH was into it, and he enjoyed seeing a few of our male friends give me extra attention that night. We had wonderful, exhausted sex at 2am after the party, in large part because of the peephole. DH is not a weirdo who wants to invite neighbors into the bedroom, but he also enjoys that his almost age 50 wife can command a room like that.... We don't get to live like that every day, so why not have fun sometimes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mucho thanks for all of you ladies wearing revealing clothing. You are doing God's work.

100% thank you!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you honestly believe that if a man wants his wife to wear revealing clothes in public, its any different than another man wanting his wife to wear conservative clothes in public? Imho its equally strange.

Conservative approach is usually rooted in religious or cultural values, opposite is just a weird ask.

I think it’s weird when men police what women wear. I DGAF about any religious or cultural background that made them misogynists.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m thin with very large natural breasts. I wear tanks or a fitted shirt and you can’t miss them. 🤷‍♂️

Same.

What’s your cup size?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What does revealing mean in this context?

+1 I wear a bikini top and board shirts to the pool, and loose/v-neck shirts and shorts, which are on the revealing side for my neighborhood (lots of people from more conservative religions) but I don’t think of them as super revealing (I’m very flat chested so no one’s getting a show from my shirts). My wife doesn’t care and I’ve only ever gotten catcalled/harassed when I was wearing long sleeved/high necked clothes, weirdly.

Are you a man or a woman?

Woman. OP never said the question was only about straight people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH was not into it when we were younger, but we both look really good in our late 40s and I think he loves how great I look. I don't wear revealing clothes a lot, but in the right settings, he's all for it. Either because it makes him randy, or he enjoys the subtle attention I get from other men. It's fun sometimes to live a little.

Always wonder if men who love their wife wearing revealing clothes and getting attention from strangers also want them to sleep with a third or watch them with a third

No. My DH has no input on what I wear, whatsoever. He tells me his opinions on lots of things, as I do to him - but neither one of us is beholden to the other.

That said, when I periodically put on something revealing, he definitely gets turned on. I normally dress pretty well - but in a more classy/cute way. But I have a few things that are revealing that i wear on occasion, and he enjoys that. Like, at our big holiday party last year, I wore a bright red romper that was neither low cut nor tight, but looked amazing on me in heels - and it had a peephole between my breasts. I only decided to wear it last minute, needed a bra - and the only one that really worked was matching-color sexy french lace bra, that if you were standing from the right angle, you could see my pretty perfectly perky B-cup breasts and a hint of bra. It was hot. DH was into it, and he enjoyed seeing a few of our male friends give me extra attention that night. We had wonderful, exhausted sex at 2am after the party, in large part because of the peephole. DH is not a weirdo who wants to invite neighbors into the bedroom, but he also enjoys that his almost age 50 wife can command a room like that.... We don't get to live like that every day, so why not have fun sometimes?

Get a life grandma.

[Anonymous]

The few times a year when I glam it up my outfit will be a bit revealing but far from trashy. I have a fairly low cut silver mini dress that when paired with high heels is about it for me. My husband is fine with it because he thinks I look pretty hot for a mother of three. I am amazed by how trashy some women look and they definitely don’t live in trailers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The few times a year when I glam it up my outfit will be a bit revealing but far from trashy. I have a fairly low cut silver mini dress that when paired with high heels is about it for me. My husband is fine with it because he thinks I look pretty hot for a mother of three. I am amazed by how trashy some women look and they definitely don’t live in trailers.

You're a trashy person just because you use trashy to describe clothing you don't like as a matter of personal preference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The few times a year when I glam it up my outfit will be a bit revealing but far from trashy. I have a fairly low cut silver mini dress that when paired with high heels is about it for me. My husband is fine with it because he thinks I look pretty hot for a mother of three. I am amazed by how trashy some women look and they definitely don’t live in trailers.

And you're even more trashy for calling people living in trailers trashy. You're just a gross person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Burkha and Bikini are two extremes, there is a whole spectrum in between.

There is a wide spectrum between bikinis. Tankini, boy short & sport top, full cut, high cut, low cut, cheeky, thong, g string, micro, mini micro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH was not into it when we were younger, but we both look really good in our late 40s and I think he loves how great I look. I don't wear revealing clothes a lot, but in the right settings, he's all for it. Either because it makes him randy, or he enjoys the subtle attention I get from other men. It's fun sometimes to live a little.

Always wonder if men who love their wife wearing revealing clothes and getting attention from strangers also want them to sleep with a third or watch them with a third

No. My DH has no input on what I wear, whatsoever. He tells me his opinions on lots of things, as I do to him - but neither one of us is beholden to the other.

That said, when I periodically put on something revealing, he definitely gets turned on. I normally dress pretty well - but in a more classy/cute way. But I have a few things that are revealing that i wear on occasion, and he enjoys that. Like, at our big holiday party last year, I wore a bright red romper that was neither low cut nor tight, but looked amazing on me in heels - and it had a peephole between my breasts. I only decided to wear it last minute, needed a bra - and the only one that really worked was matching-color sexy french lace bra, that if you were standing from the right angle, you could see my pretty perfectly perky B-cup breasts and a hint of bra. It was hot. DH was into it, and he enjoyed seeing a few of our male friends give me extra attention that night. We had wonderful, exhausted sex at 2am after the party, in large part because of the peephole. DH is not a weirdo who wants to invite neighbors into the bedroom, but he also enjoys that his almost age 50 wife can command a room like that.... We don't get to live like that every day, so why not have fun sometimes?

Did you write this post one-handed?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH was not into it when we were younger, but we both look really good in our late 40s and I think he loves how great I look. I don't wear revealing clothes a lot, but in the right settings, he's all for it. Either because it makes him randy, or he enjoys the subtle attention I get from other men. It's fun sometimes to live a little.

Always wonder if men who love their wife wearing revealing clothes and getting attention from strangers also want them to sleep with a third or watch them with a third

No. My DH has no input on what I wear, whatsoever. He tells me his opinions on lots of things, as I do to him - but neither one of us is beholden to the other.

That said, when I periodically put on something revealing, he definitely gets turned on. I normally dress pretty well - but in a more classy/cute way. But I have a few things that are revealing that i wear on occasion, and he enjoys that. Like, at our big holiday party last year, I wore a bright red romper that was neither low cut nor tight, but looked amazing on me in heels - and it had a peephole between my breasts. I only decided to wear it last minute, needed a bra - and the only one that really worked was matching-color sexy french lace bra, that if you were standing from the right angle, you could see my pretty perfectly perky B-cup breasts and a hint of bra. It was hot. DH was into it, and he enjoyed seeing a few of our male friends give me extra attention that night. We had wonderful, exhausted sex at 2am after the party, in large part because of the peephole. DH is not a weirdo who wants to invite neighbors into the bedroom, but he also enjoys that his almost age 50 wife can command a room like that.... We don't get to live like that every day, so why not have fun sometimes?

Therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why women need to wear revealing clothing in public but men survive fine without it? Would we be as open to men wearing revealing clothing in public? If they want to flaunt what they got, shouldn't we be more accepting to see male genitalia in public?

You see women's genitalia in public? Please do tell!!!

[Anonymous]

It used to bother me early in the relationship that when DW wears revealing outfits. Mostly because I felt insecure knowing how she attracted male attention.