Are all men horndogs?

[Anonymous]

My husband came home for lunch for years and expected sex after lunch. I used to get stressed out just knowing he was coming home for that.

Fast forward to now, I am done. No mo sex. EVER. So he can now handle his own business.

[Anonymous]

No mines not but he might have low T it runs in his family.

[Anonymous]

yep, my husband would have sex every day. We are in our early 40s. I am not into it that often so he has to do his thing solo, we probably have sex two times a week and he has to take a pill.

[Anonymous]

My DH would do it every day and so would I, except what he doesn’t realize is he takes a really long time (I also take a long time when I am with him, but because of lack of attraction, but my ability to climax in ten minutes from PIV has slowed down). So it is a bit too much bc I don’t have 40 minutes a day plus cleanup to devote to sex.

[Anonymous]

Husband left the family because he couldn't get enough. I didn't understand it until now. Yes, men are horny

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

This post is actually written by a man!!

Haha no I’m totally a female. Let me talk to you about my curly hair routine, skin care, and rhobh addiction to prove it 😂

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband came home for lunch for years and expected sex after lunch. I used to get stressed out just knowing he was coming home for that.

Fast forward to now, I am done. No mo sex. EVER. So he can now handle his own business.

Are you ok with him getting it elsewhere?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband came home for lunch for years and expected sex after lunch. I used to get stressed out just knowing he was coming home for that.

Fast forward to now, I am done. No mo sex. EVER. So he can now handle his own business.

This is why men who care about sex should never ever get married. When my gf turns me down, I get a new gf.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband came home for lunch for years and expected sex after lunch. I used to get stressed out just knowing he was coming home for that.

Fast forward to now, I am done. No mo sex. EVER. So he can now handle his own business.

This is why men who care about sex should never ever get married. When my gf turns me down, I get a new gf.

+1

If you're not having regular sex with your husband and he's content, then he's getting it somewhere else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it really that hard to lay on your back and spread your legs for 10 minutes if it makes your husband (who you say you love) happy? You make it sound like it's some gigantic chore. I don't always want it when DH does, but I rarely deny him. It's just not that big a deal to let him bend me over.

My DH never went for this (even when we had infant twins ffs!)- makes him angrier at me than getting turned down altogether. Mine won’t accept quickies or “maintenance sex” whatsoever. So we have sex far less often than he’d like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it really that hard to lay on your back and spread your legs for 10 minutes if it makes your husband (who you say you love) happy? You make it sound like it's some gigantic chore. I don't always want it when DH does, but I rarely deny him. It's just not that big a deal to let him bend me over.

My DH never went for this (even when we had infant twins ffs!)- makes him angrier at me than getting turned down altogether. Mine won’t accept quickies or “maintenance sex” whatsoever. So we have sex far less often than he’d like.

Starfish sex you s the worst no guy wants that.

[Anonymous]

My husband would like it most days. I never think about sex at all. Maybe once a month I might think, “I suppose if I had to I could do it” but really sex is more of an annoying task to get done than anything. I am BUSY with work, children, eldercare, exercise and running a household. I have no time for rubbing up on somebody.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband came home for lunch for years and expected sex after lunch. I used to get stressed out just knowing he was coming home for that.

Fast forward to now, I am done. No mo sex. EVER. So he can now handle his own business.

This is why men who care about sex should never ever get married. When my gf turns me down, I get a new gf.

I don't think my wife ever turned me down back when she was my gf. Seeing somebody a few times a week is very different from living together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it really that hard to lay on your back and spread your legs for 10 minutes if it makes your husband (who you say you love) happy? You make it sound like it's some gigantic chore. I don't always want it when DH does, but I rarely deny him. It's just not that big a deal to let him bend me over.

Is it really that hard to stand up for yourself and say no if needed? It might, in all seriousness, be harder than doing what you suggest.