Are all men horndogs?

[Anonymous]

My DH was like this but then so was I. Right now my BF can only manage once per 24h, which is fine with me, unless it has been a while, then I can get him to go at night and again in the morning.

[Anonymous]

DH couldn’t keep his hands off me when we first met. We’re at 3 times every other week. Both our sex drives have diminished over time.

[Anonymous]

Yes. My mid 40s husband is. He wants it daily. I’d prefer once per week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:40 yo female here. I wish I had someone to have s** with everyday. The men I’ve been dating seem to have a low libido in their mid 40s.

Apparently you wish for something else more, because that's not hard to find.

[Anonymous]

My husband was like this for the first 27 years. He had hobbies, exercised a lot AND had a stressful job but his sex drive was consistently HIGH. I have a good sex drive so we had sex 5x a week but it was also exhausting LOL We’ve just entered a new stage where his drive is decreasing (he’s late 50s) and it makes me sad…

[Anonymous]

Just bend over and be done with it..,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

+1

We don’t have sex every day, but we try to have sex every day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband was like this for the first 27 years. He had hobbies, exercised a lot AND had a stressful job but his sex drive was consistently HIGH. I have a good sex drive so we had sex 5x a week but it was also exhausting LOL We’ve just entered a new stage where his drive is decreasing (he’s late 50s) and it makes me sad…

We have sex about 5x a week, and it IS exhausting. It also takes kind of a lot of time. Between kids and work and like basic hygiene, I probably only have 2-3 hours of free time every day.
Spending 30-45 minutes of it having sex is kind of a lot. There are other things I like to do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

Do they still have brick and mortar stores for adult toys?
Is this from the 80’.

[Anonymous]

I wish my BF was more of a horndog! Because of kid schedules and work schedules we only see each other 3 times every 2 weeks. We used to have sex 6 or more times in two weeks - now it's maybe 3-4. Ideally I'd like night sex and morning sex every time we hang out. And he's younger than me, too. Damnit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband would be happy to have sex 1-2 times a week but I want it every day, multiple times if he can manage. It’s me, hi. I’m the horndog, it’s me.

That was me and then he stopped wanting sex at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trade ya. Mine has no interest.

Same here. He’s never showed consistent interest. It’s killed me emotionally. Slow painful death. Would rather be in your shoes.

[Anonymous]

49 year old married male here with two kids under 11. I need sex everyday but don't expect my wife (40) to be solely responsible for my needs, so I take care of myself every other day and on the days in between we have sex. It works well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

Do they still have brick and mortar stores for adult toys?
Is this from the 80’.

In our town they do. Adam and Eve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Married 15 years, also 40 with 4 school aged kids. My husband wants it every day but I lean into it and kind of like it. I’m so appreciative he’s taken good care of himself and is so good in bed! I’m so spoiled by him in this way.

I try to do my part by making sure to have lingerie he likes and having fun surprises for him sometimes like a suprise overnight in a hotel or buying a sex toy at the adult toy store and having him go to pick it up on his way home 😂 I want him to know I appreciate him.
I would rather be like this than a crabby old man who never wants it!

Do they still have brick and mortar stores for adult toys?
Is this from the 80’.

Yes also target Walgreens, CVS, most higher lingerie stores, etc.