Are all men horndogs?

[Anonymous]

Happily married 40 year old woman here. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years, we have kids together and a great life. However, he literally wants to have sex every day and when we aren’t having sex I can tell he wants to or is thinking about it. Is this normal? Don’t get me wrong - I love him and all that, but with both of us working from home now for YEARS since the pandemic, I find it annoying. I wouldn’t have to deal with this if I was going into an office. There are so many things on my mind (big and small) and again, we have a good sex life, but are all guys like this? I’m starting to wonder if he needs a hobby or more stress in his life. His job is very low stress.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

Next question.

[Anonymous]

It’s normal and it’s also normal to not want it nearly as often. Just as with any other human characteristic, there’s a range.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Can he take up golf? He needs a hobby to get out of the house.

[Anonymous]

No, mine wasn’t at all.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure there is a massage place nearby.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Haha he does! I need the weather to warm up so he can leave again. 😂

Anonymous wrote:Can he take up golf? He needs a hobby to get out of the house.

[Anonymous]

That’s why I can’t remarry. I just can’t live with someone knowing that that is what they want 24/7. I hate the feeling of being together and knowing that is ALL they are thinking about. I feel like a piece of meat. I used to live sex. Marriage ruined it for me.

[Anonymous]

* love sex.

[Anonymous]

My husband wants to have sex every day, but he also thinks about other things. There are other things that matter to him.

[Anonymous]

My husband would be happy to have sex 1-2 times a week but I want it every day, multiple times if he can manage. It’s me, hi. I’m the horndog, it’s me.

[Anonymous]

Are all of us that way? No. Would I like to have daily sex? Absolutely. (44M)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Happily married 40 year old woman here. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years, we have kids together and a great life. However, he literally wants to have sex every day and when we aren’t having sex I can tell he wants to or is thinking about it. Is this normal? Don’t get me wrong - I love him and all that, but with both of us working from home now for YEARS since the pandemic, I find it annoying. I wouldn’t have to deal with this if I was going into an office. There are so many things on my mind (big and small) and again, we have a good sex life, but are all guys like this? I’m starting to wonder if he needs a hobby or more stress in his life. His job is very low stress.

I dunno, that sounds excessive. My husband isn't like that. I acknowledge there is a range and nothing inherently wrong with thinking about sex all the time, but I'd honestly hate it if my husband was like that. My husband does have a stressful job though.

[Anonymous]

Seems like it’s one extreme or the other - either they can’t stop thinking about it or they’re not interested at all.