Jewish purity laws/marital sex laws

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

Go away. Don't you have a Kardashian to follow or a favorite disgraced mommy blogger livestreaming her bail hearing or something?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

Go away. Don't you have a Kardashian to follow or a favorite disgraced mommy blogger livestreaming her bail hearing or something?

No, and I think it’s really weird that women are so regulated and invaded in that way. I don’t like any celebrities or bloggers or influencers or whatever else you are blathering on about.

Do Jewish women just present themselves to their rabbi for monthly inspections?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

Menstruating or practicing Jewish sex rituals?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

This is a made up thing like a hole in the sheet.

Nope- it is not made up. Yes, Rabbis do check cloths to determine blood vs. whatever else, as a service.

Yep. Miriam Ezagui explains a lot in her TikTok videos.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

Menstruating or practicing Jewish sex rituals?

Controlling women regarding sex, reproduction, menstruation, conception, birth control, miscarriage, and abortion. You are aware of this, right? Again, this stems from fundamentalism, doesn't matter if it is a rabbi, a pastor, or your senator.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

Menstruating or practicing Jewish sex rituals?

Controlling women regarding sex, reproduction, menstruation, conception, birth control, miscarriage, and abortion. You are aware of this, right? Again, this stems from fundamentalism, doesn't matter if it is a rabbi, a pastor, or your senator.

Time for your meds, Marge.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

Menstruating or practicing Jewish sex rituals?

Controlling women regarding sex, reproduction, menstruation, conception, birth control, miscarriage, and abortion. You are aware of this, right? Again, this stems from fundamentalism, doesn't matter if it is a rabbi, a pastor, or your senator.

Pastors don’t do that. Nor do senators. It seems uniquely Jewish and oddly more controlling and invasive than how fundamentalist muslims treat their women and girls.

Do you read at all? Bless your heart.
Have you read anything about "wifely submission? " Evangelical Christianity. They most certainly control marriages and sex lives.

A right wing Supreme Ct has overturned Roe. Now local districts and states are preventing reproductive care, all abortions, even after the fetus has died, and they are now entertaining to restrict access to birth control . What planet have you just arrived from?
Conservative attacks on birth control could threaten access

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2024/06/05/birth-control-access-abortion-ban/



And if you think legislators aren't trying to control menses- read up, sunshine.
https://www.salon.com/2024/05/10/katie-britt-is-back-at-it-pushing-a-bill-to-launch-a-pregnancy-tracking-database/


Yes, what is happening now in government looks just like fundamentalist forms of religion. And no one should be shocked at what goes on in certain sects of religion, including Judaism. All religions have fundamentalist entities. We live in a secular culture so these things seem shocking, but they've always been around. Now fundamentalists are trying to move this into govt, and so far they've been successful.

[Anonymous]

No marital sex during quarreling ? That’s a way to stop overpopulation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

Menstruating or practicing Jewish sex rituals?

Controlling women regarding sex, reproduction, menstruation, conception, birth control, miscarriage, and abortion. You are aware of this, right? Again, this stems from fundamentalism, doesn't matter if it is a rabbi, a pastor, or your senator.

Pastors don’t do that. Nor do senators. It seems uniquely Jewish and oddly more controlling and invasive than how fundamentalist muslims treat their women and girls.

Do you read at all? Bless your heart.
Have you read anything about "wifely submission? " Evangelical Christianity. They most certainly control marriages and sex lives.

A right wing Supreme Ct has overturned Roe. Now local districts and states are preventing reproductive care, all abortions, even after the fetus has died, and they are now entertaining to restrict access to birth control . What planet have you just arrived from?
Conservative attacks on birth control could threaten access

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2024/06/05/birth-control-access-abortion-ban/



And if you think legislators aren't trying to control menses- read up, sunshine.
https://www.salon.com/2024/05/10/katie-britt-is-back-at-it-pushing-a-bill-to-launch-a-pregnancy-tracking-database/


Yes, what is happening now in government looks just like fundamentalist forms of religion. And no one should be shocked at what goes on in certain sects of religion, including Judaism. All religions have fundamentalist entities. We live in a secular culture so these things seem shocking, but they've always been around. Now fundamentalists are trying to move this into govt, and so far they've been successful.

Desperately trying to distract people with whataboutisms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

What make sense in particular?

I’m fine with a prohibition against sex while on the rag. Particular enough for you?

Why do you need a man, especially one that’s not your husband, to inspect your vaginal discharge and tell you when you’re done ragging? Can you not look at your own toilet paper or washcloth or tampon and see that it’s clear and not bloody? Why ask a man that’s not your husband? Do you have sex with him first and he approves you as safe for husband use?

+1 seriously that’s creepy.

What does a man know about menstruation and vaginal discharge? A male doctor who specializes in gynecology would. No other men menstruate. It seems excessively and deeply controlling and invasive.

And yet many legislators are doing just that today.

Menstruating or practicing Jewish sex rituals?

Controlling women regarding sex, reproduction, menstruation, conception, birth control, miscarriage, and abortion. You are aware of this, right? Again, this stems from fundamentalism, doesn't matter if it is a rabbi, a pastor, or your senator.

Pastors don’t do that. Nor do senators. It seems uniquely Jewish and oddly more controlling and invasive than how fundamentalist muslims treat their women and girls.

Do you read at all? Bless your heart.
Have you read anything about "wifely submission? " Evangelical Christianity. They most certainly control marriages and sex lives.

A right wing Supreme Ct has overturned Roe. Now local districts and states are preventing reproductive care, all abortions, even after the fetus has died, and they are now entertaining to restrict access to birth control . What planet have you just arrived from?
Conservative attacks on birth control could threaten access

https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2024/06/05/birth-control-access-abortion-ban/



And if you think legislators aren't trying to control menses- read up, sunshine.
https://www.salon.com/2024/05/10/katie-britt-is-back-at-it-pushing-a-bill-to-launch-a-pregnancy-tracking-database/


Yes, what is happening now in government looks just like fundamentalist forms of religion. And no one should be shocked at what goes on in certain sects of religion, including Judaism. All religions have fundamentalist entities. We live in a secular culture so these things seem shocking, but they've always been around. Now fundamentalists are trying to move this into govt, and so far they've been successful.

Desperately trying to distract people with whataboutisms.

Distract from what? Huh?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I follow them.

Are you otherwise very religious? Curious about your experience. Fiancé and I are not super observant but thinking about doing this bc it seems conducive to a healthy lasting sex life & relationship.

Pp here. Sorry, no one normal is posting about this on DCUM. And I'm normal. So I suggest the female partner join the Facebook group Jewish Women Talk About Anything and do a search.

People are allowed to post about almost anything on this site.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

This is a made up thing like a hole in the sheet.

Nope- it is not made up. Yes, Rabbis do check cloths to determine blood vs. whatever else, as a service.

Where?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I follow them.

Are you otherwise very religious? Curious about your experience. Fiancé and I are not super observant but thinking about doing this bc it seems conducive to a healthy lasting sex life & relationship.

Pp here. Sorry, no one normal is posting about this on DCUM. And I'm normal. So I suggest the female partner join the Facebook group Jewish Women Talk About Anything and do a search.

People are allowed to post about almost anything on this site.

Thank you for this criticial update 6months later

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone here who follows these rules around when you’re allowed to have sex??

How do they inspect?