Jewish purity laws/marital sex laws

[Anonymous]

Anyone here who follows these rules around when you’re allowed to have sex??

[Anonymous]

Like red wings or no?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I follow them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I follow them.

Are you otherwise very religious? Curious about your experience. Fiancé and I are not super observant but thinking about doing this bc it seems conducive to a healthy lasting sex life & relationship.

[Anonymous]

Don't ask here if you are actually interested for anything other than lurid Netflix details to attract the crazies. Speak with your rabbi's wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I follow them.

Are you otherwise very religious? Curious about your experience. Fiancé and I are not super observant but thinking about doing this bc it seems conducive to a healthy lasting sex life & relationship.

Pp here. Sorry, no one normal is posting about this on DCUM. And I'm normal. So I suggest the female partner join the Facebook group Jewish Women Talk About Anything and do a search.

[Anonymous]

I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex? Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex? Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?

Really? you don'r know about orthodox Jewish practices? The baths? No sex during a period? woman must be clean as verified by sometimes a rabbi if there is a question, and so on? Sex on Fridays?

What are the sex laws in Orthodox Judaism?
A man may never force his wife to have sex. A couple may not have sexual relations while drunk or quarreling. Sex may never be used as a weapon against a spouse, either by depriving the spouse of sex or by compelling it. It is a serious offense to use sex (or lack thereof) to punish or manipulate a spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex? Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?

Really? you don'r know about orthodox Jewish practices? The baths? No sex during a period? woman must be clean as verified by sometimes a rabbi if there is a question, and so on? Sex on Fridays?

What are the sex laws in Orthodox Judaism?
A man may never force his wife to have sex. A couple may not have sexual relations while drunk or quarreling. Sex may never be used as a weapon against a spouse, either by depriving the spouse of sex or by compelling it. It is a serious offense to use sex (or lack thereof) to punish or manipulate a spouse.

For example: https://www.jewfaq.org/kosher_sex

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex? Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?

Really? you don'r know about orthodox Jewish practices? The baths? No sex during a period? woman must be clean as verified by sometimes a rabbi if there is a question, and so on? Sex on Fridays?

What are the sex laws in Orthodox Judaism?
A man may never force his wife to have sex. A couple may not have sexual relations while drunk or quarreling. Sex may never be used as a weapon against a spouse, either by depriving the spouse of sex or by compelling it. It is a serious offense to use sex (or lack thereof) to punish or manipulate a spouse.

No I did not know those things about Jewish people.

Those rules seem extreme, what is the reason for them?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex? Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?

Really? you don'r know about orthodox Jewish practices? The baths? No sex during a period? woman must be clean as verified by sometimes a rabbi if there is a question, and so on? Sex on Fridays?

What are the sex laws in Orthodox Judaism?
A man may never force his wife to have sex. A couple may not have sexual relations while drunk or quarreling. Sex may never be used as a weapon against a spouse, either by depriving the spouse of sex or by compelling it. It is a serious offense to use sex (or lack thereof) to punish or manipulate a spouse.

No I did not know those things about Jewish people.

Those rules seem extreme, what is the reason for them?

No one is going to be interested in having a serious discussion with you about this if you (a) call Jewish laws "extreme" or (b) seem to want to use them to make some broader point about "Jewish people." FWIW, most American Jews don't follow all of these laws, but I'd like to think "a man may never force his wife to have sex" and "sex may never be used as a weapon" should be rules that everyone would want to follow and wouldn't seem extreme.

[Anonymous]

With the exception of the rabbi checking the woman out to ensure cleanliness, the other “rules” make sense to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex? Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?

Really? you don'r know about orthodox Jewish practices? The baths? No sex during a period? woman must be clean as verified by sometimes a rabbi if there is a question, and so on? Sex on Fridays?

What are the sex laws in Orthodox Judaism?
A man may never force his wife to have sex. A couple may not have sexual relations while drunk or quarreling. Sex may never be used as a weapon against a spouse, either by depriving the spouse of sex or by compelling it. It is a serious offense to use sex (or lack thereof) to punish or manipulate a spouse.

No I did not know those things about Jewish people.

Those rules seem extreme, what is the reason for them?

The Torah.

[Anonymous]

Who wants to know?