PP, kids today know that t-20 is a lottery, where the cost of the ticket is high grades, high test scores, and lots of APs. This is how it is. You've got to pay to play. You seem to want a "more balanced experience" that has the same rewards, and that is not how it works. |
If you are OP, that's an entirely different subject than you posted originally. The original premise was that kids at HB have an unfair advantage and don't have to take as many AP classes as others for their schedules to be considered of highest rigor. That statement is false. (If you're not OP, then my comment doesn't pertain to you. I happen to agree that the arms race is ridiculous and too much pressure. I just don't want anyone to think that kids at HB aren't experiencing the very same things that kids at other high schools are. They just have fewer options. That's the only difference.) |
There are no rewards for 90% of kids if we are talking about a group of schools that have 6-10% admit rates. Where do kids get the idea that they want to “buy a ticket” to this lottery? Crazy parents like OP, for starters, who fret about their child’s college admissions chances to the point that they raise concern about differences in how counselors rate course rigor among the various schools within the same system. |
Oh boy, you really don't get it do you? Colleges don't give a hoot about the weighted GPA that each school sends to them. They look at the grades a student received in the rigor of classes. So yes, a B+ in a regular but just as intense as "intensified" class is going to look worse than a B+ in an "intensified" class. |
lol, you read one book and think you know it all about college admissions. Get back to us after your kid actually goes through it. |
HB parent here. Yes we are aware, we are just responding to the delusional poster who thinks HB kids have an advantage by having fewer classes available to then. That's not a thing. |
This is clearly written by someone who doesn't know the AP courseload that actual HB students are taking. I actually think there is more pressure to take APs at HB because it's either AP or regular. There is nothing in between. |
Speak for yourself. I took FIVE classes in college. |
This is my experience having one child HB, and one child at Washington and liberty. Washington and liberty is definitely more of a pressure cooker. My son picks up things quickly and is doing well at Washington and liberty but he definitely is stressed out and has a lot of homework. My daughter tries very hard but it’s not as academically gifted. She is at HB I can tell you she doesn’t have the level of homework that my son does. In addition, she has a free period every day that all HB students get and so she has an opportunity to do homework during that period. I’m not saying one is better than the other and I think for each of my kids are in the right school. |
+1 from another HB parent. Same pressure. If anyone thinks HB kids are a bunch of low-key slackers, think again. My HB senior took 9 AP classes, and many kids took even more. I know of one student who took SIX AP classes at one time. |
Is your son taking IB or AP, or a combo? I definitely think students who are doing the full IB diploma are under a lot of stress. Also, are your son and daughter taking different classes? You say your daughter is not as academically gifted, does that mean she's not taking advanced classes, or not as many as your son? I could see that being a huge difference in stress level. I do agree that in general HB is a bit more laid back. It's just the culture of the school - they have more whole school activities and fun events during the school day because they are smaller and can do that. But there are still kids at HB taking a high academic load and they are certainly stressed out - perhaps more due to pressure on themselves vs. pressure from the school. |
Or pressure from the parents. We were at BTSN and the Calc BC teacher was talking about all these amazing techniques he uses to help the kids understand and apply the mathematical concepts and there were parents who only wanted to know if the class would cover all the material for the AP exam, they could not have cared less about the kids being interested in math, only whether their kids would be able to get a 5. |
That’s pretty myopic. Thinking your experience applying to what a dozen schools is more valuable than a deeply researched and referenced book by a respected author? |
Um, that's not true. I tested out of the English requirement and I never took calculus. My first college semester (and every semester) was 5 classes or more. First semester included an easy elective in place of the English class, beginning a new language (Russian), Russian literature, physiology, and psychology. Least # credit hours in any semester was 16. (I happen to have my transcript out, therefore I can confirm I took 16 - 18 credit hours every semester for 8 semesters) |
This person isn't talking to anyone. They just have a beef about HB. |