Is current partner your best ever sex partner?

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DH is by far and I know he would say the same about me.

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I was for DH and he was for me. But with waning passion, we are both pretty meh in bed now.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is a great cook. Let's just leave it there.

You're going to be happy for the rest of your life.

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Anonymous wrote:Given he’s only my #2 the odds are in his favor. I’m sure I missed out on some interesting sex but I’m never disappointed.

You missed out on committing more sin, which is a good thing

The first guy was such a disappointment that I wondered what’s the big deal. Then I met my now husband and while I was very much a newbie my attitude changed overnight.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.

One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.

Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.

Eight years is too long. You’re married?

Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.

Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.

Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.

My wife doesn’t like to receive but periodically she will give. I wish it was more often but if I pushed the issue it may never happen again and that’s a risk I don’t want to take.

Thats where I’m at. I know that it will never happen again. I try not to think about it and focus on the positive.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is a great cook. Let's just leave it there.

You're going to be happy for the rest of your life.

Only if he is having regular sex with his wife, otherwise there is no happiness without sex for a healthy man

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DH is not the best I’ve ever had. I also do not like to receive, but will happily give. I give him a bj when I don’t feel like having sex, which is pretty often these days.

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I cannot imagine how anyone would not like to receive or to give.

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Anonymous wrote:I dated a blonde former cheerleader from California. She did everything, with enthusiasm. Wow.

Tressie McMillan Cottom could write several essays with a subtextual analysis of this sentence.

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Absolutely. She is the best I've ever been with, and I've been with a lot.

It's b/c our relationship and communication is so amazing. We are both about 60, and she had a dbl mastectomy before meeting me. We don't look perfect, but we're perfect for each other.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely. She is the best I've ever been with, and I've been with a lot.

It's b/c our relationship and communication is so amazing. We are both about 60, and she had a dbl mastectomy before meeting me. We don't look perfect, but we're perfect for each other.

Said no guy EVER.

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot imagine how anyone would not like to receive or to give.

I didn’t like receiving initially for many reasons but once my husband found the right spot it almost made my eyes roll back. I like to give because it allows me to do two things at the same time - him and me.

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot imagine how anyone would not like to receive or to give.

I didn’t like receiving initially for many reasons but once my husband found the right spot it almost made my eyes roll back. I like to give because it allows me to do two things at the same time - him and me.

Ummm - how are you doing you while doing him? I'm confused.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes because I've learned to love myself.

This is the key! Absolutely crucial ingredient.

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Anonymous wrote:I cannot imagine how anyone would not like to receive or to give.

I didn’t like receiving initially for many reasons but once my husband found the right spot it almost made my eyes roll back. I like to give because it allows me to do two things at the same time - him and me.

Ummm - how are you doing you while doing him? I'm confused.

I have two hands.