Is current partner your best ever sex partner?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:For guys, is it technique or looks/body that made it the best ever for you?

As I woman, for me it’s technique. Looks matter, but some of the best looking guys I’ve been with were also some of the worst in bed. Wondering if it’s the same or different for men.

I'm a guy and it's technique for me too...because once you get down to it there's a lot more going on than what your eyes can take in.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:For guys, is it technique or looks/body that made it the best ever for you?

As I woman, for me it’s technique. Looks matter, but some of the best looking guys I’ve been with were also some of the worst in bed. Wondering if it’s the same or different for men.

I'm a guy and it's technique for me too...because once you get down to it there's a lot more going on than what your eyes can take in.


There seems to be a lot of clueless guys.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.


Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.
Anonymous
No
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.


Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.


My wife doesn’t like to receive but periodically she will give. I wish it was more often but if I pushed the issue it may never happen again and that’s a risk I don’t want to take.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.


Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.


My wife doesn’t like to receive but periodically she will give. I wish it was more often but if I pushed the issue it may never happen again and that’s a risk I don’t want to take.


Wife here. Don’t want to give or receive. Find both absolutely disgusting. Happy to have frequent sex though.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.


Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.


My wife doesn’t like to receive but periodically she will give. I wish it was more often but if I pushed the issue it may never happen again and that’s a risk I don’t want to take.


Wife here. Don’t want to give or receive. Find both absolutely disgusting. Happy to have frequent sex though.


And I bet the nuns wouldn’t allow you to wear patent leathers! Boys looking up your skirt is a Catholic no no.
Anonymous
my best was a girlfriend in grad school. Amazing. Unfortunately my wife has been going through a lot of depression, etc. and it's been pretty sparse for the past few years. sigh.
Anonymous
Far and away yes! It took a number of years but he really figured me out.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.


Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.


My wife doesn’t like to receive but periodically she will give. I wish it was more often but if I pushed the issue it may never happen again and that’s a risk I don’t want to take.



I am an enthusiastic giver but a reluctant receiver. I think I am like many women and realize that, while pleasurable, oral takes work and concentration(on our part, to climax!) and it frequently takes too long and it is very easy to lose “your place” on the journey. We begin to worry about our partners getting tired, we know you are result driven and it is just heaps easier to pull you up and move on. I think my favorite has been short intervals of cunnilingus, moving on, and then coming back for more. I think more women would be amenable to receiving if it wasn’t all at once, with a distinct end purpose.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My wife definitey has the nicest body of anyone I’ve been with. A previous gf was close though and was pretty insane in bed. Also, I was in an LTR with someone who had a serious oral fixation and was a prodigy at giving head - like by the time she was done you couldn’t stand up or even speak. Lol.


One from the LTR sounds like a keeper.


Yeah, I’ve never experienced anything like it since. She was really into this soap opera and every day it would come on at the same
time. All she wanted to do was give head and watch her show. Lol. It was like an hour every day and during the commercials I’d be crosseyed. So crazy to think of when I haven’t even been able to get a bj in the last 8 years. Oh well, I’m thankful for what I do have.



Eight years is too long. You’re married?


Yeah, I’ve been married for 20. We have regular sessions she just isn’t interested in giving. I think I used up all my luck/karma on the previous person.


Tried asking her? You take care of her though? Doesn’t seem right if so.


Of course. I make sure she O’s every time (toys) but she doesn’t like receiving either - which is a bummer because its something I’m good at and enjoy doing.


My wife doesn’t like to receive but periodically she will give. I wish it was more often but if I pushed the issue it may never happen again and that’s a risk I don’t want to take.



I am an enthusiastic giver but a reluctant receiver. I think I am like many women and realize that, while pleasurable, oral takes work and concentration(on our part, to climax!) and it frequently takes too long and it is very easy to lose “your place” on the journey. We begin to worry about our partners getting tired, we know you are result driven and it is just heaps easier to pull you up and move on. I think my favorite has been short intervals of cunnilingus, moving on, and then coming back for more. I think more women would be amenable to receiving if it wasn’t all at once, with a distinct end purpose.


Don’t know if this applies to most guys, but don’t worry about us getting tired. We want to please you, that’s why the real end purpose. I can keep it up at whatever intensity or time she needs. But DW is a pretty good receiver (not a giver disappointingly).
Anonymous
The best sex I ever had was with my ex wife, because I loved her the most. But she wasn't that great in bed.

After my divorce I had sex with a woman who could play me like a Stradivarius. She also was very responsive herself. She also was a fantastic athlete with a great body. Unfortunately I didn't love her.
post reply Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Message Quick Reply
Go to: