Doctor's note

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Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

There’s no private medical info on the note DS brings. It’s a form letter.

It says “________ had an appointment with __________ on ___/___/___. Please excuse their absence. They can return to school on on ___/___/___ with _________ restrictions.”

Do you really think the attendance secretary in a huge MCPS school like Blair (or any MCPS school) has the time or inclination to Google who Dr. Granola is to find out if he shrinks tumors or he’s a shrink?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

You definitely have not been around MCPS if you think a doctor's note has private medical information.
Troll.

[Anonymous]

Most of our child's doctors have a form note but it does list their name and the name of their practice. Others may write it on a piece of paper from one of their notepads but again it has their name, and name of practice. so it would say

Larlo Larla
Behavioral Health Associates

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

There’s no private medical info on the note DS brings. It’s a form letter.

It says “________ had an appointment with __________ on ___/___/___. Please excuse their absence. They can return to school on on ___/___/___ with _________ restrictions.”

Do you really think the attendance secretary in a huge MCPS school like Blair (or any MCPS school) has the time or inclination to Google who Dr. Granola is to find out if he shrinks tumors or he’s a shrink?

Not worth taking the chance that it ends up in the hands of one of the perverts looking for the most vulnerable kids who no one will believe or one of the antisemites.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here- I told her I would send her the appointment reminder because I didn't have a note. It felt uncomfortable because the appointment was for a mental health professional

Oh hell no, they don't need to know what appointment it was. As PP above said, remind them of the rule. And so what if it's an unexcused absence? It doesn't matter.

+1 just let it be "unexcused." What are they going to do about it anyway?

Their policies are so unclear and they focus on the wrong things.

Exactly, what are they going to do about it? Unenroll your child?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

You definitely have not been around MCPS if you think a doctor's note has private medical information.
Troll.

The name of the doctor by itself is revealing and most of the doctor’s stationary has the name of the practice as well. It’s none of the attendance secretary’s or the school’s business. I know attendance secretary is a boring job but you don’t need to try to make up for that by being in the know about who’s had an abortion, who’s seeing a psychiatrist, and who’s getting gender-affirming care. Give it a rest and mind your own business.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

There’s no private medical info on the note DS brings. It’s a form letter.

It says “________ had an appointment with __________ on ___/___/___. Please excuse their absence. They can return to school on on ___/___/___ with _________ restrictions.”

Do you really think the attendance secretary in a huge MCPS school like Blair (or any MCPS school) has the time or inclination to Google who Dr. Granola is to find out if he shrinks tumors or he’s a shrink?

Not worth taking the chance that it ends up in the hands of one of the perverts looking for the most vulnerable kids who no one will believe or one of the antisemites.

Loosing up the tin foil hat.

[Anonymous]

It is really going overboard to require a doctor's note for a missed half day or even a day but if there are multiple absences like 3x a month I think it would be reasonable to ask for some kind of note even if it is just from the parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

There’s no private medical info on the note DS brings. It’s a form letter.

It says “________ had an appointment with __________ on ___/___/___. Please excuse their absence. They can return to school on on ___/___/___ with _________ restrictions.”

Do you really think the attendance secretary in a huge MCPS school like Blair (or any MCPS school) has the time or inclination to Google who Dr. Granola is to find out if he shrinks tumors or he’s a shrink?

Not worth taking the chance that it ends up in the hands of one of the perverts looking for the most vulnerable kids who no one will believe or one of the antisemites.

Loosing up the tin foil hat.

No tin foil needed. Just a clear-eyed assessment of the system’s integrity and safety in light of the repeated misconduct at senior levels and the repeated assertions that the system has no duty to protect students. MCPS is not to be trusted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the school puts the doctor’s name in Google it’s going to find out what the doctor’s specialty is. Don’t trust them with that information.

A PEDIATRICIAN!!! I think they have better things to do..

Fine if it’s a pediatrician. If it’s a specialist it reveals information and it’s a mental health specialist they will gossip about it.

I’m all for privacy but give the attendence secretary a little credit. She’s not going to gossip about a student’s therapy appointment. Also, this type of mindset is exactly why there is a stigma around mental health. Talking about mental health and normalizing caring for it is the best way to fight stigma and get more teens (and adults) into treatment. My child recognizes that he is not alone in his struggles. He has many friends who also see therapists and they discuss it with one another without shame or embarrassment. And these are all kids you would neber know struggle because they are honors/AP students, well behaved, and many are successful athletes.

I’ve been around MCPS too long to give the attendance secretary any credit or the benefit of the doubt. Don’t trust MCPS with your kids’ private medical information.

There’s no private medical info on the note DS brings. It’s a form letter.

It says “________ had an appointment with __________ on ___/___/___. Please excuse their absence. They can return to school on on ___/___/___ with _________ restrictions.”

Do you really think the attendance secretary in a huge MCPS school like Blair (or any MCPS school) has the time or inclination to Google who Dr. Granola is to find out if he shrinks tumors or he’s a shrink?

Not worth taking the chance that it ends up in the hands of one of the perverts looking for the most vulnerable kids who no one will believe or one of the antisemites.

Loosing up the tin foil hat.

No tin foil needed. Just a clear-eyed assessment of the system’s integrity and safety in light of the repeated misconduct at senior levels and the repeated assertions that the system has no duty to protect students. MCPS is not to be trusted.

As has been stated to you several times, no one cares if your kid is seeing a psychiatrist or mental health specialist in 2023. It's commonplace and hardly worthy of the kind of office gossip that you're frothing at the mouth about. Get a grip.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In a nasty battle with the school (long story) Brought child in from a doctor's appointment and the secretary hassled me about showing a doctor's note. My child is rarely absent and I don't remember ever being asked for one before. She said the system is cracking down on this. Was curious if other people have recently been asked for doctor's notes?

Sons coach asked for one earlier in the year for the first time.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here- I told her I would send her the appointment reminder because I didn't have a note. It felt uncomfortable because the appointment was for a mental health professional

Is this at a school that starts with B? She's notoriously unreasonable and she will refuse to excuse the appointment.

NP
If you’re talking about Blair that woman is over the top. She called to verify a note we sent to excuse my son 15 minutes early for an appointment. Fifteen minutes before the end of school! She’s like the attendance Gestapo.

She calls to verify all parent notes. I assume enough kids are forging notes to make her effort worthwhile…

That's not true. She only calls about suspicious ones.

Not true. My neighbor and I have the most strait laced rule following kids and we both get calls for just about every single note we send in! It’s a joke with us now. We call her Ms Fussypants.

[Anonymous]

Mcps is not a trustworthy institution. When they ask for a note say "OK I'll get one" and go back to your life. They will never actually do anything about it ans if they did you could probably sue them since there is no way they're handing out repercussions to everyone, if you know what I mean.

Just smile and tell them to eff off in hour head. I wouldn't give them any evidence of medical care I didn't want public

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here- I told her I would send her the appointment reminder because I didn't have a note. It felt uncomfortable because the appointment was for a mental health professional

Is this at a school that starts with B? She's notoriously unreasonable and she will refuse to excuse the appointment.

NP
If you’re talking about Blair that woman is over the top. She called to verify a note we sent to excuse my son 15 minutes early for an appointment. Fifteen minutes before the end of school! She’s like the attendance Gestapo.

She calls to verify all parent notes. I assume enough kids are forging notes to make her effort worthwhile…

That's not true. She only calls about suspicious ones.

Not true. My neighbor and I have the most strait laced rule following kids and we both get calls for just about every single note we send in! It’s a joke with us now. We call her Ms Fussypants.

We got a call only once out of 4 times and it was the third one so maybe it started looking suspicious when we hit the third but then after maybe confirming that we the parents exist and are taking DC to legit appointments we did not get a call for the 4th.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mcps is not a trustworthy institution. When they ask for a note say "OK I'll get one" and go back to your life. They will never actually do anything about it ans if they did you could probably sue them since there is no way they're handing out repercussions to everyone, if you know what I mean.

Just smile and tell them to eff off in hour head. I wouldn't give them any evidence of medical care I didn't want public

Sue them? lol