Netherlands General Election today

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2023 - Netherlands in top ten for safest countries in the world for women - see link further north.

The website you cited is very random and the information does not inspire trust.
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Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.



Yes, and that is why the Netherlands, Italy, Poland and France will be gone from the pro migration EU in 5 years.

If immigrants don’t assimilate they must be expelled. There is not going to be a great socialist kumbaya.


You can be anti immigrant and socialist. Most European right wing parties would fall under this rubric. They are fine with socialism, they just want to limit it to their own citizens. If labor wasnt gutted in this country, we’d probably have similar strains on the left and right


Hungary is a good example of this. https://dnyuz.com/2023/11/12/hungary-pm-rips-western-european-immigration-policies-says-he-doesnt-want-mini-gazas-in-budapest/

Another random link.
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Anonymous wrote:
2023 - Netherlands in top ten for safest countries in the world for women - see link further north.

The website you cited is very random and the information does not inspire trust.



I did not find the link random and have used this web site in the past. However, it is good to scrutinize how credible online info is.

That web sites compilation of the top 9 safest countries for women is a comprehensive report based on data sourced from the Women, Peace, and Security (WPS) Index, jointly developed by the Georgetown Institute for Women, Peace and Security and the Peace Research Institute Oslo.

The WPS Index assesses the status of women's inclusion, access to justice, and overall security across a spectrum of 170 countries.

This assessment is structured encompassing a total of 11 distinct indicators:
Education

Financial inclusion

Employment

Cellphone use

Parliamentary representation

Absence of legal discrimination (aggregate score)

Son bias (male/female ratio at birth)

Discriminatory norms (% of men)

Intimate partner violence

Community safety (%)

Organized violence


Further, the list is corroborated by other data.


What is the Netherlands ranked in gender equality?

The Netherlands cracks the top five countries for women in 2023 after having been ranked No. 8 in 2022. Women made up about 41% of the Dutch parliament last year, up significantly from 31% in 2019 just three years prior.
https://www.usnews.com › news › b...
Best Countries for Women | U.S. News


Progress in gender equality

With 77.3 out of 100 points, the Netherlands ranks 3rd in the EU on the Gender Equality Index. Its score is 8.7 points above the EU's score. Since 2010, the Netherlands' score has increased by 3.3 points, but its ranking has remained the same.
https://eige.europa.eu › country
Netherlands | 2022 | Gender Equality Index
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
2023 - Netherlands in top ten for safest countries in the world for women - see link further north.

The website you cited is very random and the information does not inspire trust.



I did not find the link random and have used this web site in the past. However, it is good to scrutinize how credible online info is.

That web sites compilation of the top 9 safest countries for women is a comprehensive report based on data sourced from the Women, Peace, and Security (WPS) Index, jointly developed by the Georgetown Institute for Women, Peace and Security and the Peace Research Institute Oslo.

The WPS Index assesses the status of women's inclusion, access to justice, and overall security across a spectrum of 170 countries.

This assessment is structured encompassing a total of 11 distinct indicators:
Education

Financial inclusion

Employment

Cellphone use

Parliamentary representation

Absence of legal discrimination (aggregate score)

Son bias (male/female ratio at birth)

Discriminatory norms (% of men)

Intimate partner violence

Community safety (%)

Organized violence


Further, the list is corroborated by other data.


What is the Netherlands ranked in gender equality?

The Netherlands cracks the top five countries for women in 2023 after having been ranked No. 8 in 2022. Women made up about 41% of the Dutch parliament last year, up significantly from 31% in 2019 just three years prior.
https://www.usnews.com › news › b...
Best Countries for Women | U.S. News


Progress in gender equality

With 77.3 out of 100 points, the Netherlands ranks 3rd in the EU on the Gender Equality Index. Its score is 8.7 points above the EU's score. Since 2010, the Netherlands' score has increased by 3.3 points, but its ranking has remained the same.
https://eige.europa.eu › country
Netherlands | 2022 | Gender Equality Index

If not for a small typo, I'd swear this post were written by ChatGPT.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
2023 - Netherlands in top ten for safest countries in the world for women - see link further north.

The website you cited is very random and the information does not inspire trust.



I did not find the link random and have used this web site in the past. However, it is good to scrutinize how credible online info is.

That web sites compilation of the top 9 safest countries for women is a comprehensive report based on data sourced from the Women, Peace, and Security (WPS) Index, jointly developed by the Georgetown Institute for Women, Peace and Security and the Peace Research Institute Oslo.

The WPS Index assesses the status of women's inclusion, access to justice, and overall security across a spectrum of 170 countries.

This assessment is structured encompassing a total of 11 distinct indicators:
Education

Financial inclusion

Employment

Cellphone use

Parliamentary representation

Absence of legal discrimination (aggregate score)

Son bias (male/female ratio at birth)

Discriminatory norms (% of men)

Intimate partner violence

Community safety (%)

Organized violence


Further, the list is corroborated by other data.


What is the Netherlands ranked in gender equality?

The Netherlands cracks the top five countries for women in 2023 after having been ranked No. 8 in 2022. Women made up about 41% of the Dutch parliament last year, up significantly from 31% in 2019 just three years prior.
https://www.usnews.com › news › b...
Best Countries for Women | U.S. News


Progress in gender equality

With 77.3 out of 100 points, the Netherlands ranks 3rd in the EU on the Gender Equality Index. Its score is 8.7 points above the EU's score. Since 2010, the Netherlands' score has increased by 3.3 points, but its ranking has remained the same.
https://eige.europa.eu › country
Netherlands | 2022 | Gender Equality Index


^^^^

Our experiences are in line with data above.

We have quite a few female relatives in the Netherlands and they all feel safe there.

We visit regularly and have never had problems with immigrant men harassing females in the group. Such problems may exist to some extent but I don’t think this issue keeps Dutch women awake at night.

People seem more concerned about lack of affordable housing and rapid hikes in cost of living/ basic commodities.
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Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't agree with some of the analysis here. I live in the Netherlands now, and did 30 years ago. Was first here on a scholarship at the University of Amsterdam to research the rise in right wing movements in Western Europe and most of my work was around assimilation of 1960s and 1970s immigrants into France, Germany and Netherlands. It's not true that Syrians and Afghans aren't assimilating now, and the Dutch have amazing taal schools to get immigrant children up to speed on Dutch to join regular Dutch basis schools (primary) and other options for children over 12. There are many hardworking well integrated Syrians here. More people where I live now (Maastricht) are complaining of Moroccan youth being disruptive around the center and link increasing crime to new laws forbidding foreigners from going into coffee shops thereby creating a black market with aggressive sellers.

The housing crisis is THE biggest deal for most and it's easy to point the finger at immigrants for some.

Not all Dutch are as tolerant as the stereotypes. And Geert Wilders has more in common with some of the fundamentalist Muslims that he wants to deport. His platform is just as anti-LGBTQ and black and white in approach. It would be wrong to simply link his support as tied to those who see Muslims as a threat to Dutch tolerance. The cities with the largest Muslim populations did not vote for his party, notably Amsterdam.

Just wanted to add some nuance to some of the generalizations I'm reading here.


I really wonder if you are a man. I have a female friend who has lived in different cities in the Netherlands and is now in Amsterdam. She says the amount of catcalling is so out of control when you walk down so many street and 99% of the men who are making incredibly rude sexual comments and then making threatening comments and spitting when they are ignored or rejected are immigrants from North Africa or the Middle East or other parts of Africa. She says ask any female if they have gone to cities in the Netherlands and been harassed and they will say yes. It is so out of control.

So while she is liberal and believes there are many positive things that immigrants bring and do jobs Dutch often don't want to do, she is really mad that women are constantly harassed. She has been to Latin America, so I asked is it like being in Latin America, and she said absolutely not. It might be whistling and some comments but nothing at the level that is going on in the Netherlands now. She said so many women are just so sick and tired of it and are going to vote for someone who might bring some hope that it can stop.


DP. This is exactly the behavior we encountered in Sweden, France, and Italy. There is a very clear LACK of assimilation going on and extremely toxic treatment of women. I can see why these countries would want to stop immigration from certain countries.


The Erosion of Women's rights in many areas is frightening and so many people are in absolute denial because they don't want to be called a racist or prejudiced against any religion. To really understand what is happening a Somali born immigrant who lived in the Netherlands for years and became a politician Ayaan Hirsi Ali wrote a book called Prey: Immigration, Islam, and the Erosion of Women’s Rights. It examines the sharp rise in the number of sexual assaults in Western Europe that coincides with the sharp rise in illegal immigration from Muslim-majority countries. She contended that Dutch and other European laws are overly accommodating toward immigrants, enabling the formation of fundamentalist Muslim enclaves whose practices ultimately posed a threat to the women.

She explains that Governments are not collecting any type of statistic on who is committing sexual assaults or not allowing women to freely gather in spaces such as park in cities that are now predominantly fundamentalist Muslim because if they collect data points such as immigration status or skin color, or religion or nationality that they're going to empower the far-right groups.


THIS ^^. I've read her book; she is brilliant. But of course, she's called an "Islamaphobe" for pointing out truths about Muslim immigrants who refuse to assimilate. Of all people who should be able to speak out about this, a Somali-born woman who was genitally mutilated as a child should be at the top of the list.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.


Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?
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Anonymous wrote:I don't agree with some of the analysis here. I live in the Netherlands now, and did 30 years ago. Was first here on a scholarship at the University of Amsterdam to research the rise in right wing movements in Western Europe and most of my work was around assimilation of 1960s and 1970s immigrants into France, Germany and Netherlands. It's not true that Syrians and Afghans aren't assimilating now, and the Dutch have amazing taal schools to get immigrant children up to speed on Dutch to join regular Dutch basis schools (primary) and other options for children over 12. There are many hardworking well integrated Syrians here. More people where I live now (Maastricht) are complaining of Moroccan youth being disruptive around the center and link increasing crime to new laws forbidding foreigners from going into coffee shops thereby creating a black market with aggressive sellers.

The housing crisis is THE biggest deal for most and it's easy to point the finger at immigrants for some.

Not all Dutch are as tolerant as the stereotypes. And Geert Wilders has more in common with some of the fundamentalist Muslims that he wants to deport. His platform is just as anti-LGBTQ and black and white in approach. It would be wrong to simply link his support as tied to those who see Muslims as a threat to Dutch tolerance. The cities with the largest Muslim populations did not vote for his party, notably Amsterdam.

Just wanted to add some nuance to some of the generalizations I'm reading here.


I really wonder if you are a man. I have a female friend who has lived in different cities in the Netherlands and is now in Amsterdam. She says the amount of catcalling is so out of control when you walk down so many street and 99% of the men who are making incredibly rude sexual comments and then making threatening comments and spitting when they are ignored or rejected are immigrants from North Africa or the Middle East or other parts of Africa. She says ask any female if they have gone to cities in the Netherlands and been harassed and they will say yes. It is so out of control.

So while she is liberal and believes there are many positive things that immigrants bring and do jobs Dutch often don't want to do, she is really mad that women are constantly harassed. She has been to Latin America, so I asked is it like being in Latin America, and she said absolutely not. It might be whistling and some comments but nothing at the level that is going on in the Netherlands now. She said so many women are just so sick and tired of it and are going to vote for someone who might bring some hope that it can stop.


DP. This is exactly the behavior we encountered in Sweden, France, and Italy. There is a very clear LACK of assimilation going on and extremely toxic treatment of women. I can see why these countries would want to stop immigration from certain countries.


The Erosion of Women's rights in many areas is frightening and so many people are in absolute denial because they don't want to be called a racist or prejudiced against any religion. To really understand what is happening a Somali born immigrant who lived in the Netherlands for years and became a politician Ayaan Hirsi Ali wrote a book called Prey: Immigration, Islam, and the Erosion of Women’s Rights. It examines the sharp rise in the number of sexual assaults in Western Europe that coincides with the sharp rise in illegal immigration from Muslim-majority countries. She contended that Dutch and other European laws are overly accommodating toward immigrants, enabling the formation of fundamentalist Muslim enclaves whose practices ultimately posed a threat to the women.

She explains that Governments are not collecting any type of statistic on who is committing sexual assaults or not allowing women to freely gather in spaces such as park in cities that are now predominantly fundamentalist Muslim because if they collect data points such as immigration status or skin color, or religion or nationality that they're going to empower the far-right groups.


THIS ^^. I've read her book; she is brilliant. But of course, she's called an "Islamaphobe" for pointing out truths about Muslim immigrants who refuse to assimilate. Of all people who should be able to speak out about this, a Somali-born woman who was genitally mutilated as a child should be at the top of the list.


Essentially it is all fundamentalist religious groups that erode women's (and LGBT) rights. European cities would also change having a group of the same fundamentalist Christians as the Duggars, or any other religion that doesn't believe in women's rights and rights for LGBT people. As Europe is becoming more and more secular having large groups of fundamentalist move in and start urban enclaves is really, really bad for women.
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Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.


Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?



Oh please stop with the hyperbole.

The vast majority of the Dutch probably fall under your definition of LWNJ. They are committed to universal health care, tolerant social policies, legalization of recreational weed and prostitution and democracy.

Yes there are cultural tensions between some Immigrants and Dutch but there are also many success stories. I have relatives who taught Dutch to Muslim immigrants and they are doing well in Dutch society now .

The US and eventually all other western countries will transition to majority non white pretty soon. The biggest risk for civil unrest and wars is not partial not full democracy and organizing politics around race/ religion and ethnic identity rather than political ideas.

We have to find more intelligent ways to adapt your democracies to changing demographics rather than pander to hysterical fears.

That said, I do think that immigrants should be required to learn the local languages and customs as part of legal residence and citizenship requirements.


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Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.


Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?


PP here, thank you. At the time that I met with those ladies, there were discussions of having refugee camps in Jordon or a neutral area of Syria. I was against this at the time, I thought they should be able to come to the West where it is safe. I asked them their opinion of this option, and they said they would have preferred it. This made me really reevaluate my beliefs. I realized it was kind of narcissistic to think that they would love the west so much better. And it was kind of degrading to their culture that I thought that it was so disposable in their lives. I know people consider these views Islamophobic. But I came by them by having actual conversations with middle eastern immigrants and listening to what they really want. We are doing them no favors by "rescuing" them from the nations they love, where their families live, etc. They leave behind aging parents and entire communities. These communities are not disposable in their lives.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.


Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?


PP here, thank you. At the time that I met with those ladies, there were discussions of having refugee camps in Jordon or a neutral area of Syria. I was against this at the time, I thought they should be able to come to the West where it is safe. I asked them their opinion of this option, and they said they would have preferred it. This made me really reevaluate my beliefs. I realized it was kind of narcissistic to think that they would love the west so much better. And it was kind of degrading to their culture that I thought that it was so disposable in their lives. I know people consider these views Islamophobic. But I came by them by having actual conversations with middle eastern immigrants and listening to what they really want. We are doing them no favors by "rescuing" them from the nations they love, where their families live, etc. They leave behind aging parents and entire communities. These communities are not disposable in their lives.


First I must say you sound like a very nice and genuine person.

However, don’t you think your empirical sample size is way too small for the broad conclusions reached?

Also many Afghan and Syrian refugees have no home to go back to thanks to civil wars in those countries.

I do believe immigrants should be required to learn local languages and customs but reality is complicated.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing like hate for foreigners to bring people together in politics.


I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.


Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?


PP here, thank you. At the time that I met with those ladies, there were discussions of having refugee camps in Jordon or a neutral area of Syria. I was against this at the time, I thought they should be able to come to the West where it is safe. I asked them their opinion of this option, and they said they would have preferred it. This made me really reevaluate my beliefs. I realized it was kind of narcissistic to think that they would love the west so much better. And it was kind of degrading to their culture that I thought that it was so disposable in their lives. I know people consider these views Islamophobic. But I came by them by having actual conversations with middle eastern immigrants and listening to what they really want. We are doing them no favors by "rescuing" them from the nations they love, where their families live, etc. They leave behind aging parents and entire communities. These communities are not disposable in their lives.


First I must say you sound like a very nice and genuine person.

However, don’t you think your empirical sample size is way too small for the broad conclusions reached?

Also many Afghan and Syrian refugees have no home to go back to thanks to civil wars in those countries.

I do believe immigrants should be required to learn local languages and customs but reality is complicated.



It is too small to apply broadly, but being told directly by an actual Syrian immigrant that my "humanitarian" approach was anything but was a huge eye opener for me. And it led me to my current place of understanding simply sending the refugees to the west isn't actually a viable solution.

Part of the reason they can't stay in their countries or regions is that it's been a third rail topic to suggest that the right approach is to find safe areas in pan-arabia vs sending them all to the west. This idea was dismissed as categorically Islamophobic and got no serious consideration as an alternative to simply sending them all to the West. This was a mistake, and recognizing it as a mistake might lead to better solutions going forward. We could have used diplomacy to work with these nations to provide safe areas for the refugees, and we didn't. Look at Palestine-- same issue, same origin, horrific outcomes. At some point, we need to have enough humility to ask ourselves why we are so sure this is the right thing for these populations, when they are telling us otherwise.
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Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?

The ME countries do not want a drain on their societies. This trumps even the cultural affinity.
Imagine a sibling who falls on hard times. The family bails them out once, twice, but the money is squandered and drama never ends. Relatives want to take them in temporarily, but it's clear that they will never leave, never get a job and never stop mooching. Family loves and is sorry for the sibling, but keeps their distance because their help is useless if the person cannot help him/herself.
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I was surrounded in Rotterdam by a group of youths and almost got robbed. It was the same sort of folks who lived in the Bans Lieu in France. Basically, I’m sorry it’s not woke or politically correct to admit it, but the majority of problems are attributed to culture clash between migrants who are angry and refuse to assimilate. Even like 3rd generation. This isn’t “deprived youths in the poor areas” as the main pooblem. It’s simply a refusal or a disdain to adopt the liberal views of their host country. I get why Geert won. I’m sorry it’s so hard for people to just say it plainly. People need to fcking assimilate or stop migrating to western countries from places with backwards values.


NP. I posted this on a different thread a whole ago and it got deleted, but I'll try again. I was pretty pro-immigration at the start of the Syria conflict, and while in Germany to visit family, I met with some recent immigrant women from Afghanistan and Syria to provide charity and have tea. I was absolutely floored by what they said to me and it really changed my views. They said they hated Germany, didn't want their kids to grow up in the culture, wish they didn't have to be there. I asked why they came to Germany and in short, it was a safe place for their kids and they were able to get a spot. The Syrian lady seemed dismayed that her daughter was taking so well to Germany, playing sport, taking science and math classes, etc. I asked if they had tried to integrate and they said no because of language barriers and practical challenges (child care, etc). They said no one had ever visited them but the social worker, I was the first person to just ask to meet them. And the social worker was really tone deaf, she tried to make fun of them to me by saying one had told her that she would stay with her husband if he took another wife. This is not a good situation, anyone who is looking at Europe with clear eyes sees a tinderbox. I mean, look at Sweden right now, it's a violent mess.


Thank you. You are absolutely right. Be prepared for the resident LWNJs to call you an "Islamaphobe" and/or racist. Many of these immigrants HATE the western countries they've been allowed to move to, and will never, ever assimilate to western culture. So why aren't more middle eastern countries stepping up and taking them in? Why move to a country you hate?


This sentiment exists in the US as well. My job puts me in contact with a lot of young adults who are first- or second-generation immigrants from Middle Eastern countries, mostly Iran and Afghanistan. When gender identity and sexual orientation came up in a discussion, one of them expressed clear disapproval of LGBTQ rights and said something like "this is why a lot of young people [referring to fellow Muslims] don't want to raise their kids in the West". Maybe some of these young adults will move (back) to predominantly Muslim countries. I am sure some of them want to assimilate and have kids who see themselves as American, but we are fooling ourselves if we think that there are not some who have complete disdain for our values and culture.
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