Everyone gives you suggestions and you swat them away. Or worse, you say "you must not have kids." Guess what, plenty of people who are at least as busy as you find time to workout. You could to, but you CHOOSE not to. Make a different choice or stop whining. |
I run on a treadmill from 5-6am or 9-10pm, depending on the day. 2-3 days per week I do a yoga class after work as well. |
There are a lot of assumptions and silly decisions in this thread. Like the assumption that anybody “full time employed” must have 8 hours of free time a day. Nonsense. People marathon train while being an associate at a big law firm in their first couple of years all the time. The other silly thing is this idea that you have to cede all your free time to your children, particularly when they are in high school and should be figuring their way on their own. They will need to do that eventually. Like you say. It’s all about choices. Everybody can find at least 45 minutes a day. It’s not magic. You just delete something else or expect somebody else to do something, lose some compensation, etc…. |
Mon (in office): Ride bike in the evening 8:30-10pm
Tues (in office): Run 3 miles in the am (work late so go in late) Wed (WFH): Ride midday Thurs (WFH): Run 3 miles midday Fri: rest Sat: Long ride in the morning Sun: Long run in the morning |
I work 7-3:30 most days, sometimes 8-4:30. my pickleball is in the evening not before work. |
Yes I have 2 kids. I’m confused why you think I have no kids. |
Most people are having dinner and spanning time with their family at 6pm |
Thanks, living in filth with a constant sink full of dirty dishes is your secret, now I understand. Not for me. |
Not everybody believes in god, and of course people "make time" ... it's a saying, as you well know. |
7am - wake and get kids to school
8am commute to work 830am - 5pm work 530 commute home and pickup kids aftercare 6pm start dinner 630 eat dinner 7pm activities for multiple kids or help younger kids with homework 830pm everyone home 9pm kids in bed, dishes cleanup, laundry 10pm gym 1130pm bed This is only schedule that works, but leaves me tired, and often cleaning up from day, chores etc spills past 9-10, and work can drag us both down, this is an optimist straight 8 hours, which is pretty rare in corp world. I make it about 3 times a week. |
You come off as a judgy B. Enjoy your stroke or heart attack at 55 because a spotless sink was more important than your health. |
Agreed, this person and others are not willing to sacrifice things that just don’t matter. Or they are making other choices. Nobody is saying abandon your kids on the side of the road, but this idea that you can’t find 45 minutes a couple of times a week is ludicrous. I have friends that alternate training for full distance triathlon with young children. Their kids are performing and functioning just fine. My wife isn’t into endurance sports, but does other things consistently. Our kids are also performing just fine, and might actually have the ability to navigate the world on their own some day, and may even find time to exercise. Crazy that idea. |
PP attacking with “special” comment started of the judgement, FYI |
triathlon widow is a thing, and I’m 100% your buddies are dumping the tasks on their wives, who probably has to bail on her career to keep life afloat. |
+1 Really important lesson, couldn’t agree more |