Because everyone is trying to justify their decisions and paying so much money. I read these posts sometimes and think that person must be wrong because they made a different choice than me and I know much more than that anonymous person obviously. Then I stop and remember that everyone has to make the right choice for their kid and family. I wish the US system was different, I wish more lower income kids could be seen and it wasn't so pay to play, I wish Clubs weren't just trying to make a buck (in every league) by selling parents that their club and league are the best and only way. But it's not so I come on sites like this to gather information and do what's best in our situation. I like hearing peoples experiences but I do wish so many people didn't spend so much time trying to convince us all that their experience is the best and only one. That's awesome a camp worked out for your son! |
No, but I don't judge if someone else did. Who's to say what is "worth" paying for? It's a personal decision. I choose to drive a $35k car but other people who make the same income drive one double that price. Is it worth it? Not for me but it is for them. A family vacation to a beach we can drive to might be $5000, but a family trip to the beach somewhere further might be $15,000. Things are worth what the person writing the check is willing to pay. It's not a scam. |
DP. That’s all fair, but I think it is also fair to ask the question as to why someone is paying what they are paying for something. They don’t owe an explanation and are entitled to do as they will, but it’s a fair discussion on an anonymous message board…and sadly, there are people here paying up for Boys ECNL and talking about scouts on sidelines and ROI, when most here know that is misguided. |
I don’t ask or care why my neighbor drives a BMW. I don’t feel the need to “correct” misguided people. I’d rather have lots of misguided people out there living in their dream world because it gives me the advantage. |
Very, very few. The people in here calling it a "scam" are the ones who have no experience/connection with youth sports. Their kids are in band and Model UN, which is fine. But they are not here for an honest, educated discussion. They just want to troll you for being "scammed" so they can feel morally superior. |
No my ROI is that my kid is happy. My kid's ROI is probably that he may get seen by more scouts than at EDP. |
Biases? I'm just stating facts. Local MLS Next Teams: DC, Baltimore Armour, Bethesda, Alexandria, SYC, and Achilles (but I think they folded or something). ECNL Teams in VA: Arlington, Loudoun, VA Union, Brave, VDA In my son's age group, over the past 2 years, my son's team tied and lost by 1 to DC, they are 2 wins, 1 loss vs Armour, 1 win 1 loss vs Bethesda, 1 win vs Alexandria, 1 loss vs SYC, and never played Achilles. In general, lost by 1 to Delco, beat Wake twice, and that's all I can think off of the top of my head. I feel like that's pretty competitive. And I said that MLS Next attracts far more colleges than ECNL. I agree that when it comes to recruiting and placement, MLS Next is above ECNL. |
| PP here re: camps, the model there is to send out hundreds if not thousands of invites to kids across a wide region. It is awesome that your kid caught a coaches eye! That's certainly not the norm when an undifferentiated mass of players shows up anywhere. |
My kid got an invites a year after she quit the sport and she only topped out at USYS. She couldn't play at the college level in a million years, but she still got them. Camps are a funding source for underfunded programs as much as they are a vehicle for recruiting |
Yes, they are always willing to take money from the parents of kids who have no realistic chance. For two main reasons: 1.) Soccer is not a revenue-generating sport in terms of ticket sales, advertising, etc. The money has to come from somewhere. 2.) We don't need even further class structures within youth soccer. Most camps have a fairly uniform disclaimer at the bottom of their camp info that says limited only by age and number of participants. Basically it's the Equal Opportunity Employer equivalent within the legal realm of either USYS, NCAA, or whatever governing body applies. It's on the parents to be honest what they are attending the camp to try to achieve: the experience, the development, the exposure, or the money dump. |
When playing against local clubs, DCU Academy isn't fielding the strongest 11 on the pitch to win. It's a training practice friendly. |
Are you the Spin-Doctor that politicians go to after a 'video surfaces'?
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My son was thinking about going D1 after 6 years of ECNL, but decided it would be more rewarding to join a frat, do keg stands and streak on the campus lawn/quad/green. As long as junior is happy! |
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Parents be "scamming" themselves.
Most wearing blinders to see what they want to see (granted, many are being mislead and misinformed by people in positions who know better) |
It's socioeconomic. If you're wealthy and Hispanic/POC, you're good to go. If you occupy the lower echelons, you'll be shut out. And yes, there are a ton of Hispanic families with enough money to slug it out in ECNL. But many majority Hispanic clubs were formed to be affordable options for families who can't pay the hefty fees charged by bigger clubs. So ECNL does discriminate against lower socioeconomic groups, which tend to be POC |