Are mean kids happy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was a mean girl all the way through high school and was very happy. I am smart and organized and outgoing, and felt like I knew better than all my friends so bossed them around, and gave them a hard time when they went against me. It wasn't until college and meeting a new friend who I found out was popular because she was so nice to everyone that I learned there was a different way. Learned a lot from her and changed my approach to relationships. I was a very happy kid, and am a happy adult, though as an adult maybe more at peace in my soul because I'm kinder than I used to be.

. Your soul is at peace. Is your health good too?

Lol, yes, I'm thriving.

Peace in your soul. Ha! How about a little remorse. You still sound full of yourself.

People like you S U C K. You never get what you truly deserve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was a mean girl all the way through high school and was very happy. I am smart and organized and outgoing, and felt like I knew better than all my friends so bossed them around, and gave them a hard time when they went against me. It wasn't until college and meeting a new friend who I found out was popular because she was so nice to everyone that I learned there was a different way. Learned a lot from her and changed my approach to relationships. I was a very happy kid, and am a happy adult, though as an adult maybe more at peace in my soul because I'm kinder than I used to be.

. Your soul is at peace. Is your health good too?

Lol, yes, I'm thriving.

Peace in your soul. Ha! How about a little remorse. You still sound full of yourself.

People like you S U C K. You never get what you truly deserve.

Op here. I don't think she sucks. She realized she was mean and found a different path and chose kindness. I admire that. A lot of people in life don't get what the deserve, unfortunately.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was a mean girl all the way through high school and was very happy. I am smart and organized and outgoing, and felt like I knew better than all my friends so bossed them around, and gave them a hard time when they went against me. It wasn't until college and meeting a new friend who I found out was popular because she was so nice to everyone that I learned there was a different way. Learned a lot from her and changed my approach to relationships. I was a very happy kid, and am a happy adult, though as an adult maybe more at peace in my soul because I'm kinder than I used to be.

. Your soul is at peace. Is your health good too?

Lol, yes, I'm thriving.

Peace in your soul. Ha! How about a little remorse. You still sound full of yourself.

People like you S U C K. You never get what you truly deserve.

Op here. I don't think she sucks. She realized she was mean and found a different path and chose kindness. I admire that. A lot of people in life don't get what the deserve, unfortunately.

Sometimes it takes a generation or two for karma to work.

[Anonymous]

I haven't read the past 5 pages but No, mean people generally are not happy.

I know (without a doubt) that when I'm the nicest when I'm the happiest/content. When I'm feeling bad about myself I have to check myself from picking on other people (my husband, kids, friends, etc).

[Anonymous]

Some mean kids are unhappy but plenty are happy as can be. And they grow up to be happy adults. You may think they must be unhappy because of the way they behave. There must be some trauma, some insecurity. But no, some kids are mean and enjoy being mean. They might - might - regret it later but that doesn’t mean they aren’t perfectly happy with their sense of power now.

And there is no karma. Very few people, good or bad, get what they deserve.