Actually I’m a 38yr old underweight OBGYN with a specialty in menopause management. However you must know better than I. I only see 15 patients a day and have years and years of education under my belt. You have everyone figured out. |
This is where theory bumps up against actuality. No one is fat because they eat too many apples. |
I'm the PP above who lost that weight after menopause and fwiw I barely ate fruit those two years, except the occasional banana because I love them so. I was/am veg and proteins and low-ish carb. |
OP, come back and tell us how it's going! I would like to lose 4lbs by the end of May (I've been losing slowly since January - down 13lbs - but I want to try to hit my goal weight before an event memorial day weekend).
I've been doing IF and tracking calories really vigilantly during the week but I've been letting myself get off-track on weekends with restaurant meals and alcohol. So, I'm going to try to get my weekend indulgences under control. Unfortunately I have a lot of social events on the calendar this month so it's going to be a challenge. Anyone have good strategies for not over-eating or over-drinking at social events? |
Sounds great as a theory, but that only holds true in my buckets of mangos example. Nobody has a problem if they are eating blueberries or strawberries or apples. All these mental gymnastics are for the purpose of avoiding the reality that people who are carrying too much weight are currently and have been eating too much for way too long. |
I’m down another 3lb to 156, so steadily losing. Someone here or in another thread I read suggested dropping cardio and honestly, when I did that the weight dropped! They were right, I wasn’t as hungry. I’m still doing organic “cardio” like evening walks, taking stairs, or bike rides with kids. |
Interesting. I am a cardio queen, maybe I need to try this strategy |
Yes I’m seeing a weight loss Dr. My SW was 203 and I’m at 189 as of this morning 8 weeks later so 14lbs in 8 weeks. Im also 5’9”. I have been told explicitly each time I see the weight loss dr to not do cardio as it will super charge my hunger. It really really sucks that it’s so so hard to balance calorie intake with hard cardio. Right now I’m getting in about 13k steps a day, that’s all I do in terms of cardio. |
I know I suggested that on a thread recently so I’m happy if it helped someone!! I was a total cardio junkie for YEARS - like 22 years! I loved the metrics, pushing myself so hard that I could barely move afterwards, the heart pumping music, endorphins, all of it. I finally realized that while it is very good for your heart and mind, it can sometimes be detrimental for your weight goals. I dialed it back significantly while focusing on weight lifting and 35 pounds just dropped off gradually. My muscles now have shape that I can see! Anyways, congrats OP on working towards your goal. You are doing great! |
Assuming this is in the evening...make sure you are fully hydrated and have already met your water goal for the day (I aim for half my weight in water & unsweetened tea). Then I "pre-game" with a protein shake (Fairlife brand, either 26 or 42g protein). Together this helps me have a semi full feeling before I get to the event. I limit alcohol to 2 drinks max. Though lately I'm perfectly happy sipping one for the duration. |