Would you drop this competitive mom friend?

[Anonymous]

I have a super competitive friend like that. The part that bothers me isn't the competition, but the jealousy when she doesn't feel like she "won." I refuse to participate in comparing grades and so on, but the time my son's LL team beat hers at the finals was rough.... So let her win the little competition, who cares - there will come a time when even if you aren't trying, your child will outshine hers in some obvious way, and then you'll see if she is happy for you or the reverse.