36 year old Indian woman on dating apps

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t you want an Indian man?

No Indian man from a decent family is going to date op seriously.

Why? Because she is divorced? Most Indian-American guys do not care about that. If she does not have kids, is good natured, comes from a good family, attractive and in a well paying job, most Indian-American single men of the same age will not care.

eligible Indian-American guys from good families 100% will care. You are crazy if you don’t think so. Yeah it’s 2022, but some things haven’t changed much.

She’s aged out and has baggage. But that is ok, she’s pretty open minded so she’s not limiting herself.

I would suggest she move out west to the Bay Area or Seattle.

The west? Are you crazy? Too much competition with people half her age. Tons of Asians (SEA and Indian) to choose from there. She is better off here or in a location where she may stand out.

Yeah, SF or Seattle would be an even worse dating market for the OP. There are so many young, successful women there, especially Asian.

The sheer overwhelming deluge of men though makes that irrelevant

The gender ratio out west is hyper skewed in favor of women

Maybe, but women on the west coast are generally more attractive than those here. I am Asian and from that area - I'm considered slightly above average there but very beautiful in DC.

Yeah and west coast Asians tend to be successful, too, in addition to being better looking. Like they’re good looking and work at a FAANG.

what? That all depends on what area you work in.

I worked for a FAANG, and I'm an Asian female. Most of the Asian female software engineers are not good looking. Where do you guys get this stuff?

I am from Silicon Valley and worked in a non technical role (not engineering) and a lot of my colleagues were good looking and Asian.

"non technical". For the most part, female SWE there aren't good looking. I have worked with many. I'm Asian female. But maybe because I'm female (and Asian) my definition of "good looking Asian woman" is different to a man's.

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Anonymous wrote:I always thought it was Asian women that had the better responses on apps.

This. I thought the highest response rate was Asian women, particularly if good looking, employed, no kids.

That is typically applied to East Asian women, moreso than South Asian.

Yes, East Asian women, not South Asian women. The model looking beautiful South Asian women are taken. The not so attractive or not attractive enough with high standards women are the ones who are often left behind. Even though would get snatched up but OP is divorced and passed childbearing age.

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t you want an Indian man?

No Indian man from a decent family is going to date op seriously.

Why? Because she is divorced? Most Indian-American guys do not care about that. If she does not have kids, is good natured, comes from a good family, attractive and in a well paying job, most Indian-American single men of the same age will not care.

eligible Indian-American guys from good families 100% will care. You are crazy if you don’t think so. Yeah it’s 2022, but some things haven’t changed much.

She’s aged out and has baggage. But that is ok, she’s pretty open minded so she’s not limiting herself.

I would suggest she move out west to the Bay Area or Seattle.

The west? Are you crazy? Too much competition with people half her age. Tons of Asians (SEA and Indian) to choose from there. She is better off here or in a location where she may stand out.

Yeah, SF or Seattle would be an even worse dating market for the OP. There are so many young, successful women there, especially Asian.

The sheer overwhelming deluge of men though makes that irrelevant

The gender ratio out west is hyper skewed in favor of women

Maybe, but women on the west coast are generally more attractive than those here. I am Asian and from that area - I'm considered slightly above average there but very beautiful in DC.

True , you have a good point

dc is Hollywood for ugly people and West coast Asians are prettier.

BUt…I think for Indians tho, the westcoast vs eastcoast skew doesn’t really exist as it does for East or se Asians

I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t you want an Indian man?

No Indian man from a decent family is going to date op seriously.

Why? Because she is divorced? Most Indian-American guys do not care about that. If she does not have kids, is good natured, comes from a good family, attractive and in a well paying job, most Indian-American single men of the same age will not care.

eligible Indian-American guys from good families 100% will care. You are crazy if you don’t think so. Yeah it’s 2022, but some things haven’t changed much.

She’s aged out and has baggage. But that is ok, she’s pretty open minded so she’s not limiting herself.

I would suggest she move out west to the Bay Area or Seattle.

The west? Are you crazy? Too much competition with people half her age. Tons of Asians (SEA and Indian) to choose from there. She is better off here or in a location where she may stand out.

Yeah, SF or Seattle would be an even worse dating market for the OP. There are so many young, successful women there, especially Asian.

The sheer overwhelming deluge of men though makes that irrelevant

The gender ratio out west is hyper skewed in favor of women

Maybe, but women on the west coast are generally more attractive than those here. I am Asian and from that area - I'm considered slightly above average there but very beautiful in DC.

True , you have a good point

dc is Hollywood for ugly people and West coast Asians are prettier.

BUt…I think for Indians tho, the westcoast vs eastcoast skew doesn’t really exist as it does for East or se Asians

I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

That's likely true for all races . I feel like putting a lot of effort into appearance is actually looked down upon in DC. I'm always dazzled by my NYC colleagues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t you want an Indian man?

No Indian man from a decent family is going to date op seriously.

Why? Because she is divorced? Most Indian-American guys do not care about that. If she does not have kids, is good natured, comes from a good family, attractive and in a well paying job, most Indian-American single men of the same age will not care.

eligible Indian-American guys from good families 100% will care. You are crazy if you don’t think so. Yeah it’s 2022, but some things haven’t changed much.

She’s aged out and has baggage. But that is ok, she’s pretty open minded so she’s not limiting herself.

I would suggest she move out west to the Bay Area or Seattle.

The west? Are you crazy? Too much competition with people half her age. Tons of Asians (SEA and Indian) to choose from there. She is better off here or in a location where she may stand out.

Yeah, SF or Seattle would be an even worse dating market for the OP. There are so many young, successful women there, especially Asian.

The sheer overwhelming deluge of men though makes that irrelevant

The gender ratio out west is hyper skewed in favor of women

Maybe, but women on the west coast are generally more attractive than those here. I am Asian and from that area - I'm considered slightly above average there but very beautiful in DC.

True , you have a good point

dc is Hollywood for ugly people and West coast Asians are prettier.

BUt…I think for Indians tho, the westcoast vs eastcoast skew doesn’t really exist as it does for East or se Asians

I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

That's likely true for all races . I feel like putting a lot of effort into appearance is actually looked down upon in DC. I'm always dazzled by my NYC colleagues.

Im a remote employee of a Los Angeles and NYC based company which keeps me on my toes any time I have to go in or go to a conference

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I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

I am from Dallas. People here are less attractive than in Dallas (or Houston, Austin, or San Antonio.) Also true for all races.

I used to work on Wall Street. Dallas >>>> NYC as far as attractive people by a long shot.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh it’s the Indian woman obsessed with being “preppy” who claims she could pass for white…

She posts here ALL. THE. TIME.

There are people who think being ethnically ambiguous passes for white.
White folks never get confused about who is white.

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I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

I am from Dallas. People here are less attractive than in Dallas (or Houston, Austin, or San Antonio.) Also true for all races.

I used to work on Wall Street. Dallas >>>> NYC as far as attractive people by a long shot.

Equities in Dallas!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t you want an Indian man?

No Indian man from a decent family is going to date op seriously.

Why? Because she is divorced? Most Indian-American guys do not care about that. If she does not have kids, is good natured, comes from a good family, attractive and in a well paying job, most Indian-American single men of the same age will not care.

eligible Indian-American guys from good families 100% will care. You are crazy if you don’t think so. Yeah it’s 2022, but some things haven’t changed much.

She’s aged out and has baggage. But that is ok, she’s pretty open minded so she’s not limiting herself.

I would suggest she move out west to the Bay Area or Seattle.

The west? Are you crazy? Too much competition with people half her age. Tons of Asians (SEA and Indian) to choose from there. She is better off here or in a location where she may stand out.

Yeah, SF or Seattle would be an even worse dating market for the OP. There are so many young, successful women there, especially Asian.

The sheer overwhelming deluge of men though makes that irrelevant

The gender ratio out west is hyper skewed in favor of women

Maybe, but women on the west coast are generally more attractive than those here. I am Asian and from that area - I'm considered slightly above average there but very beautiful in DC.

True , you have a good point

dc is Hollywood for ugly people and West coast Asians are prettier.

BUt…I think for Indians tho, the westcoast vs eastcoast skew doesn’t really exist as it does for East or se Asians

I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

Nyc is on the east coast dummy

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OP, you are doing something wrong in your profile. I was married at 27 to an Indian guy (I’m Indian) and got divorced at 31. I met a range of ppl online and met my now husband online who is white.

Are your pictures fun? Is your profile interesting? Something is off.

[Anonymous]

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I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

I am from Dallas. People here are less attractive than in Dallas (or Houston, Austin, or San Antonio.) Also true for all races.

I used to work on Wall Street. Dallas >>>> NYC as far as attractive people by a long shot.

Equities in Dallas!

This area attracts smart people, not necessarily hot.

[Anonymous]

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I’m from NYC. The Asians here in the DMV are far less attractive than in NYC. This is for all races, not just Asians.

I am from Dallas. People here are less attractive than in Dallas (or Houston, Austin, or San Antonio.) Also true for all races.

I used to work on Wall Street. Dallas >>>> NYC as far as attractive people by a long shot.

Yes, people from Dallas are more attractive in a trashy kind of way. But if that’s what your into…

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Anonymous wrote:Oh it’s the Indian woman obsessed with being “preppy” who claims she could pass for white…

She posts here ALL. THE. TIME.

There are people who think being ethnically ambiguous passes for white.
White folks never get confused about who is white.

That's not true. Also, technically Indians are white.

Signed, White Guy

[Anonymous]

OP is a troll. Jeff outed her/him here.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/150/1102380.page

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Very low right swipes. The only men who appear to want to date me are working class and low quality. Why? Do white women have better odds on dating apps?

I am slender and am told I am attractive.

So many people have given up on the apps that there's just not many good options on there. It is not you.

Also, it might help to play with the algorithm--paid membership, switch your photos around, edit the text, change your distance or location, so you pop up back to the top.

I am a WF and I have dated Bengali and Indian men I met on the apps, so people are willing to do so. It was in 2020 though, when the apps were better populated.