Trap baby

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I started dating after my divorce, I didn't tell all my partners I had a vasectomy. I dated 3 different women who I swear were trying to get pregnant by me. It's such a common thing and I've warned my son about 100 times. When a woman wants to get pregnant, she does. BC doesn't fail in nearly the numbers claimed by women.

If men don't want kids, they need to take responsibility. Some women may try to "baby trap" but other times contraception pills just fail, especially if you are sick or have stomach issues. Take more responsibility guys and you won't have this problem.

I'm from a military area, and one of my cousins baby trapped a guy for Tricare.

Sounds like PP did take responsibility as he says he had a vasectomy.

[Anonymous]

My best friend trapped her husband with baby #1. Had another kid. During vivid (after 12 years) they were on the brink of divorce so she trapped him with. #3. Two years later all seems good- so far. The trap in total has lasted 14 years but he husband is a rageaholic so hardly seems worth trapping imo.

[Anonymous]

*during covid

[Anonymous]

I thought this was a post about music...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was a post about music...

You're thinking of the VON Trapps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My best friend trapped her husband with baby #1. Had another kid. During vivid (after 12 years) they were on the brink of divorce so she trapped him with. #3. Two years later all seems good- so far. The trap in total has lasted 14 years but he husband is a rageaholic so hardly seems worth trapping imo.

This is idiotic. If one is on the brink of divorce, they don't get pregnant. They barely speak with each other, forget about PIV.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was a post about music...

You're thinking of the VON Trapps.

Nope. Trap music. Fetty Wap

[Anonymous]

yes, one. ended in divorce 8 years later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I started dating after my divorce, I didn't tell all my partners I had a vasectomy. I dated 3 different women who I swear were trying to get pregnant by me. It's such a common thing and I've warned my son about 100 times. When a woman wants to get pregnant, she does. BC doesn't fail in nearly the numbers claimed by women.

How did you know?

(And no, I’m not trying to baby trap a man. I’m done having kids and my shop is closed for business).

They wanted me to finish in them when I knew they weren't on BC saying, oh it's OK, nothing to worry about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I started dating after my divorce, I didn't tell all my partners I had a vasectomy. I dated 3 different women who I swear were trying to get pregnant by me. It's such a common thing and I've warned my son about 100 times. When a woman wants to get pregnant, she does. BC doesn't fail in nearly the numbers claimed by women.

If men don't want kids, they need to take responsibility. Some women may try to "baby trap" but other times contraception pills just fail, especially if you are sick or have stomach issues. Take more responsibility guys and you won't have this problem.

I'm from a military area, and one of my cousins baby trapped a guy for Tricare.

Yes, they do. That's why I've warned my son. Unless he takes control, she Will get pregnant. A young man is foolish to leave BC to the woman. I was foolish, learned the hard way as have many of my friends. If only a man could get a 100% reversable vasectomy at age 15 or so then turn it back on when he and his partner wanted kids.

I disagree about BC pills. They rarely fail when taken as prescribed. The issues where they don't work, like with anti biotic are well known. They always fail when a woman want them to fail

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My best friend trapped her husband with baby #1. Had another kid. During vivid (after 12 years) they were on the brink of divorce so she trapped him with. #3. Two years later all seems good- so far. The trap in total has lasted 14 years but he husband is a rageaholic so hardly seems worth trapping imo.

This is idiotic. If one is on the brink of divorce, they don't get pregnant. They barely speak with each other, forget about PIV.

On the brink of a divorce where the woman doesn't want to lose him or have to go back to work is a very likely time to trap a man into a baby he didn't want. She will have no problem with PIV sex long enough to conceive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:An affair partner or girlfriend getting pregnant on purpose to get him to commit.

In a bad marriage to try to turn it around or prevent the constant “when are you going to work” for a SAHM whose kids are now in school and doesn’t want to work.

I'm a working mom of a one-and-done so this is not about myself, but I've heard this argument about SAHMs before and don't get it. What's the difference between "has another baby because she loves being a mom and wants to do it again" and "doesn't want to go to a paid job"? They are two sides of the same coin. Some women really love being home with their kids longterm. I think that's great for them if they can work it out with their partner and financially. Having another baby in that situation isn't a "trap". It's pursuing what you want.

This is just such a derogatory and cynical way to talk about women and motherhood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was a post about music...

You're thinking of the VON Trapps.

Nope. Trap music. Fetty Wap

I love the culture clash in these two posts ha ha!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My best friend trapped her husband with baby #1. Had another kid. During vivid (after 12 years) they were on the brink of divorce so she trapped him with. #3. Two years later all seems good- so far. The trap in total has lasted 14 years but he husband is a rageaholic so hardly seems worth trapping imo.

This is idiotic. If one is on the brink of divorce, they don't get pregnant. They barely speak with each other, forget about PIV.

On the brink of a divorce where the woman doesn't want to lose him or have to go back to work is a very likely time to trap a man into a baby he didn't want. She will have no problem with PIV sex long enough to conceive.

1) if I man wants a divorce, he should not sleep with the soon to be ex-wife.
2) if a man doesn't want a divorce but he's not ready to be a father, he should wear a condom.

It's that simple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:An affair partner or girlfriend getting pregnant on purpose to get him to commit.

In a bad marriage to try to turn it around or prevent the constant “when are you going to work” for a SAHM whose kids are now in school and doesn’t want to work.

I'm a working mom of a one-and-done so this is not about myself, but I've heard this argument about SAHMs before and don't get it. What's the difference between "has another baby because she loves being a mom and wants to do it again" and "doesn't want to go to a paid job"? They are two sides of the same coin. Some women really love being home with their kids longterm. I think that's great for them if they can work it out with their partner and financially. Having another baby in that situation isn't a "trap". It's pursuing what you want.

This is just such a derogatory and cynical way to talk about women and motherhood.

That’s fine if both parties have agreed to have unprotected sex. It’s not fine if the woman goes off BC without her partner’s knowledge. That’s when it’s a trap.