This a sign that I’m too old for her/she’s too young for me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 40 and she’s 31. She has her own place and is very smart (we work in the same niche industry actually). We had a great first date and plan on seeing each other next weekend. We haven’t really spoken that much in between dates, just a few texts here and there. Well today she texted me and said that she was waiting for her flight and wanted to know if I wanted to “play a game”. The game was 21 questions.

Maybe I’m over thinking here but asking to play 21 questions via text? That’s a bit juvenile don’t you think?

I think it's far less juvenile than trashing your date on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 40, OP, and I think this would be fun. But the fact that you don’t means you likely don’t define fun in the same way. That’s ok, just probably time to move on.

IT actually sounds like OP just isn't that into her, if he was he'd be cool with whatever way she wanted to connect with him. But he's doing the typical immature thing of blaming the other person.

This is my read too. If you had a good first date and were excited about the person, you'd just be glad they reached out and were thinking about you. If you're dissecting the manner of contact then you're just not that thrilled to hear from her. And deciding the contact was "juvenile" is a sign OP is nervous about dating a younger person in general and looking for reasons it's a bad idea.

Move on before you spend any more time, OP. If you're not happy to hear from someone you're dating this early in the relationship, it's not going to get better.

Yes, OP is just not that into her. I personally think it's a little childish of her to suggest that game (I'm 35 F) but it's def not a reason to reconsider the relationship unless you were already somewhat turned off and now you have something tangible to point to.

How is it childish?