This a sign that I’m too old for her/she’s too young for me?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Not an age thing. You're too rigid.



This. I'm your age, and this sounds like a fun way to pass the time at the airport and to get to know someone. You should be flattered she's thinking of you instead you're on DCUM posting silly questions. I understand why you are single at 40.
Anonymous
21 questions via text sounds annoying, though I don't know if it's necessarily juvenile.

The age gap isn't really an issue.
Anonymous
She's not too young but you sound like the oldest man in the world.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She is just trying to have fun. Lighten up. Also, this is not a huge age gap.

-from a 44-year-old divorced woman

P.S. if her questions include serious things like do you want kids and that sort of thing, that is a good thing actually...better to know you want the same things and not waste time. I actually think she has a super smart approach to try to get to know you better before you waste each other's time


NP, I think the issue is it’s via text. Isn’t that kind of silly?


No, it is not silly. It cuts through BS.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She's not too young but you sound like the oldest man in the world.


Aye, grandpapi.
Anonymous
Dude at what age is playing a game too young? I mean it’s not candy land or something. It’s word-based and convenient via text. You sound like a weirdo.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You’re boring.

Find a woman your own age to watch Masterpiece Theatre with on the couch on Friday nights.


Surely there will be a Downton Abbey binge-fest soon! Remember to not drink too much camomile tea - it makes you sleepy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:21 questions via text sounds annoying, though I don't know if it's necessarily juvenile.

The age gap isn't really an issue.


I think so too. Woman.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:21 questions via text sounds annoying, though I don't know if it's necessarily juvenile.

The age gap isn't really an issue.


I think so too. Woman.



Her's you soul mate OP
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's not too young but you sound like the oldest man in the world.


Aye, grandpapi.



Not old. Just someone who takes themselves a bit too seriously.
Anonymous
In my day there were just 20 questions.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:21 questions via text sounds annoying, though I don't know if it's necessarily juvenile.

The age gap isn't really an issue.


How is it annoying? Unless you have an aversion to texting?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:In my day there were just 20 questions.

This is a drinking game
Anonymous
A woman wants to interact with you. She is actively seeking your attention. And you're resisting it and questioning it? WTF is wrong with you, man?
Anonymous
She sounds very light-hearted + mostly fun OP. ✨

For you to be taken aback showcases that you may be a tad mentally rigid (no offense!)

Try to lighten up, stop taking things too seriously & be more open-minded.

However this may be a warning sign that you and her may not be a suitable match overall.
Only time will tell.

Wishing you two the best.
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