If you cheated how did you get caught?

[Anonymous]

See post subject.

[Anonymous]

oWs texts accidentally went to my wife's iPad.

[Anonymous]

after years of suspicion and lying he butt dialed her when we were together.

[Anonymous]

AP wasn't deleting my texts and his wife investigated his phone. I miss him. I know, I'm a miserable, sick, evil, rotten human being. But, I'm also just a flawed human, and I miss him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:oWs texts accidentally went to my wife's iPad.

Aye. That had to be a rough day. (Well deserved though.)

[Anonymous]

He had his suspicions for a long time. I went from always asking for sex to not wanting it. I had a video on my YouTube channel of me " interviewing him".
He turned the camera on me and I was naked under a blanket. My xh was suspicious of me and found my youtube channel.The week before I told my xh I didn't want him. I had been living alone and told him i was a live in nanny. When my boyfriend came over i told him the parents were working late. I finally told him everything when he confronted me about the video. I was tired of lying. I no longer wanted him but I liked the idea of him giving me 1/3 of his check to get my hair done every month ( he was broke had no money). I told him he couldnt be mad he cheated twice and tried to move another woman in my house. Telling me it was the right thing to do under our religion because she lived in a house with no electricity and it was cold in Detroit. He went off on my in front of my mother because i said no. I hated him. The thought of him touching me made my stomach turn. I still hate him. Part of me enjoyed telling him. He had cheated on me twice ( I suspect a 3rd woman) he deserved it. I hope he rots in hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He had his suspicions for a long time. I went from always asking for sex to not wanting it. I had a video on my YouTube channel of me " interviewing him".
He turned the camera on me and I was naked under a blanket. My xh was suspicious of me and found my youtube channel.The week before I told my xh I didn't want him. I had been living alone and told him i was a live in nanny. When my boyfriend came over i told him the parents were working late. I finally told him everything when he confronted me about the video. I was tired of lying. I no longer wanted him but I liked the idea of him giving me 1/3 of his check to get my hair done every month ( he was broke had no money). I told him he couldnt be mad he cheated twice and tried to move another woman in my house. Telling me it was the right thing to do under our religion because she lived in a house with no electricity and it was cold in Detroit. He went off on my in front of my mother because i said no. I hated him. The thought of him touching me made my stomach turn. I still hate him. Part of me enjoyed telling him. He had cheated on me twice ( I suspect a 3rd woman) he deserved it. I hope he rots in hell.

Sorry, your post is completely unreadable and I hope you get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:AP wasn't deleting my texts and his wife investigated his phone. I miss him. I know, I'm a miserable, sick, evil, rotten human being. But, I'm also just a flawed human, and I miss him.

How long has it been over?

[Anonymous]

My DH got suspicious when he noticed my best lingerie missing for a business trip. Two days later he saw an incriminating email. I was in a terrible place internally. My life was so dark and my marriage was so lonely and lifeless. I have so much guilt and shame. My DH has stayed with me and kept our family together and I will always be grateful for that. We are in a better place now. Not great but better and working on it every day. I learned so much

[Anonymous]

My AP went a little bunny boiler and his wife found out. Sucked because I was trying to cut things off and encourage him to focus on his marriage. As soon as he told me she knew I came clean to my husband. We're separated now and divorcing but honestly my marriage was dead a long time ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH got suspicious when he noticed my best lingerie missing for a business trip. Two days later he saw an incriminating email. I was in a terrible place internally. My life was so dark and my marriage was so lonely and lifeless. I have so much guilt and shame. My DH has stayed with me and kept our family together and I will always be grateful for that. We are in a better place now. Not great but better and working on it every day. I learned so much

I think that people say this to make themselves feel less guilty about what they did. It's kinda like a coping mechanism.

[Anonymous]

He got caughit because he kept a portrait my friend drew of us in his briefcase smh.his soon to be ex-wife was already suspicious. Probably bexcuse he was never home. Anyways she went through his credit card bills and saw expensive dinners. She then got his cell phone bill saw that he had been talking to me 2 hrs a day.
She called me, told me she had hpv and it only flared up when they didn't use condoms.

She's probably reading this.
*waves*

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Ugh phone typos.

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His doctor retired and sent a copy of his medical records to the house, which I then opened after it had been laying on the hall table unopened for a long time.

Imagine my surprise when I saw that he had been tested for STDs after using a prostitute on a business trip.

I began to watch so much more closely - mileage on the car, email when he left it open, computer history, credit card usage, cell phone bills, parking tickets, ATM withdrawal amounts and locations, pocket litter, hidden items in the closet. You'd be surprised at the thousand ways you will give yourself away.

He was shocked when I finally confronted him. Never in a million years did he imagine he'd get caught, let alone caught by so many details It was shattering to his self-image to finally been seen by someone for loser he really was.

[Anonymous]

My friend found out when she looked through her husbands phone and found a pic of a piece of toast he was eating. He had deleted everything else but when she saw the toast she knew. Not only did she know he was having an affair but she knew he was in deep. You don't send pics of your breakfast to just anyone, you send it to someone you love that you miss, that you wish you were eating with right then and there.