Wife is initiating more lately

[Anonymous]

and seems to look forward to sex.

I'm VERY thankful and have made sure that I've thanked her and given her postive feedback.

I even got a bj during the debate Sunday night (sorry if thats too explicit for this forum)! Elections must turn her on because the last one was about 4 years ago!

Anyway, I'm really excited about the changes and its certainly having a positive effect on our relationship.

[Anonymous]

She's cheating on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She's cheating on you.

Yes, I think she is too. She is missing the other, so for now, or while she is with you, you get the benefits...but she is thinking of other

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She's cheating on you.

No she's not. My first wife cheated on me and I know the signs. She's a great wife.

[Anonymous]

No, I don't think she's cheating. I think she's trying something to see what happens. Unless she LOVES sex, I would expect the frequency to taper off again at some point, but hopefully come to rest in a better place.

Are you guys Jewish? Maybe it was a New Year's resolution!

[Anonymous]

Hormone changes for the best? Is she in her late 30's early 40's???

I don't think she is cheating OP. Enjoy yourself and make sure you do something nice for her. Come home with flowers or something.

[Anonymous]

My wife was the same way when she wanted another child.... after that well.... sometimes you have to just take matters into your own hand and live with it.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she has been reading DCUM? I am kind of new here and it opened my eyes how my DH probably felt about our sex life and I made a point to be more attentive to him, initate more etc..

[Anonymous]

Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

[Anonymous]

Enjoy it and quite analyzing everything to death!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Enjoy it and quite analyzing everything to death!

Agree! OP-stop reading this thread while you can. The cheating accusations will be 10 pages deep soon.

[Anonymous]

Is there anything that DOESN'T get the DCUM harpies to suggest cheating? No sex? Spouse is cheating. More sex than usual? Spouse is cheating. Jesus Christ.

[Anonymous]

Hormones, ovulation.

I hit something that made me get going with DH for a few really good months.

No basis for it except biological, and positive loop. I've never cheated, nor will I ever! Love my DH. (8 years, 2 kids in)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she has been reading DCUM? I am kind of new here and it opened my eyes how my DH probably felt about our sex life and I made a point to be more attentive to him, initate more etc..

You're new here....just wait and you will see that how a DH feels is his fault and how a DW feels is also DH's fault. You'll figure out how sorry and sad people on this forum are. Get out while you can!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She's cheating on you.

No she's not. My first wife cheated on me and I know the signs. She's a great wife.

If you know the signs of infidelity as you say you do, you'd know that one of them is a renewed/increased interest in sex, as the cheater uses the accessible spouse as an outlet for his/her increased desire. Hopefully this isn't your situation but never say never.