Wife is initiating more lately

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:and seems to look forward to sex.

I'm VERY thankful and have made sure that I've thanked her and given her postive feedback.

I even got a bj during the debate Sunday night (sorry if thats too explicit for this forum)! Elections must turn her on because the last one was about 4 years ago!

Anyway, I'm really excited about the changes and its certainly having a positive effect on our relationship.

How old is your wife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Enjoy it and quite analyzing everything to death!

Agree! OP-stop reading this thread while you can. The cheating accusations will be 10 pages deep soon.

OP here: I'm not over analyzing - I'm just very thankful.

And to the poster who suggested flowers earlier - YES, I need to do that at the very least.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:and seems to look forward to sex.

I'm VERY thankful and have made sure that I've thanked her and given her postive feedback.

I even got a bj during the debate Sunday night (sorry if thats too explicit for this forum)! Elections must turn her on because the last one was about 4 years ago!

Anyway, I'm really excited about the changes and its certainly having a positive effect on our relationship.

How old is your wife?

She's 43.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

Hmm, I didn't think cheating until you posted this honestly but now I kind of do. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
How old is your wife?

She's 43.

We did have some posts a while back about women whose sex drives suddenly increased in their 40s.

Long as she doesn't go off the rails - and some of them do - enjoy it while it lasts!

[Anonymous]

WOW, I had to check to make sure I didn't post this - because my wife is suddenly initiating sex all the time after years of being a total asexual. She is 43 as well. I have spent years in desperation trying to get our sex life going and nothing, nothing worked.

I am pretty sure it's because she has a massive crush on a man. He is a SAHD, live in the neighborhood, our kids are the same age. They get together all the time, after school. He is attractive, objectively speaking. And she talks about him. A lot.

I am a bit suspicious, but to be perfectly honest, I am extremely happy with the new found sexual connection. I don't really care how this came about. Is that strange? It's awesome to be having energetic sex again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

Hmm, I didn't think cheating until you posted this honestly but now I kind of do. Sorry.

Not to derail, but can you tell me in non-explicit terms how you addressed this issue. Askingforafriend

[Anonymous]

HAs she been working out or dieting more the past few months and feeling good about her new body? I toned up in the last year and have been all over DH. I like how I look and feel sexier and want to show off. I sometimes send DH flirty texts and pics too. (45 DW)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

Hmm, I didn't think cheating until you posted this honestly but now I kind of do. Sorry.

Not to derail, but can you tell me in non-explicit terms how you addressed this issue. Askingforafriend

Tried for years to figure it out myself without much luck. It didn't help that my wife is very athletic and attractive. Finally talked to a doc about it who prescribed a med. The med worked great.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

Hmm, I didn't think cheating until you posted this honestly but now I kind of do. Sorry.

Not to derail, but can you tell me in non-explicit terms how you addressed this issue. Askingforafriend

Tried for years to figure it out myself without much luck. It didn't help that my wife is very athletic and attractive. Finally talked to a doc about it who prescribed a med. The med worked great.

What is the med? Any side effects?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

Hmm, I didn't think cheating until you posted this honestly but now I kind of do. Sorry.

Not to derail, but can you tell me in non-explicit terms how you addressed this issue. Askingforafriend

Tried for years to figure it out myself without much luck. It didn't help that my wife is very athletic and attractive. Finally talked to a doc about it who prescribed a med. The med worked great.

What is the med? Any side effects?

NP. Does your friend want to know?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

She seems to be wanting about the same stuff. The bj wan't expected but other than that she's doing hot things to turn me on such as straddling/grinding me in her underwear and telling me she can't wait to ____ me later. Also, shes flirting with me over text occasionally. Its been a lot of fun.

I'm not really doing anything different although I've pretty consistently:
-talked to her every day
- helped around the house daily
- do almost all kids homework and cub scouts, etc
- make a solid living and am fiscally responsible
- stay very fit and dress nice
- had some issues with pe which I addressed a few years ago. (She can pretty much rely on good sex and an O)

Hmm, I didn't think cheating until you posted this honestly but now I kind of do. Sorry.

Not to derail, but can you tell me in non-explicit terms how you addressed this issue. Askingforafriend

Tried for years to figure it out myself without much luck. It didn't help that my wife is very athletic and attractive. Finally talked to a doc about it who prescribed a med. The med worked great.

What is the med? Any side effects?

NP. Does your friend want to know?

Of course!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:HAs she been working out or dieting more the past few months and feeling good about her new body? I toned up in the last year and have been all over DH. I like how I look and feel sexier and want to show off. I sometimes send DH flirty texts and pics too. (45 DW)

She's always been fit. Congrats on your success! It sounds like both you and the DH are benefitting!

[Anonymous]

My wife too. She's obsessed w politics and I think the trump behavior has made her worried that all men are dogs (including me) and I might be looking around if not satisfied.