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So the whole premise has been the problems started decades ago and was on the brink. Now it’s “something happened just this year” that caused the school to shut down? |
Yes. Both can be true. |
| And both can be false. And we’ll never know since no transparency exists |
I agree. Given the timing and financial context, it appears the school may have faced an unexpected call on its loan. |
Unexpected? By who? 🤣 |
THIS IS THE CRUX OF THE ISSUE. And how anyone can send their child back there because of this, I don't get. |
Leadership and the BOT will have to give the best speech ever with real answers presented on Monday. I'm about to sign a contract for another school, but they are allowing me to wait until Tuesday morning. |
Are you a current parent? |
You will be called a troll for implying something about others. But I for one am not comfortable doing that and will go to a different school next year. People are very trusting and that’s a big part of why the school has successfully hidden problems for so long. Fundamentally nothing has changed. Promises, often just reactionary information flows. Answers that are vague and fluff (as I read them). So fool me once…. I wish the school well. Maybe if their stranger with a blank check bails them out for a couple of years things will recover. But I can’t be part of that grand experiment. It’s just a school. There are plenty others for my kid. |
And as we know the BOT has been so truthful … |
I knew it!! You were going to be called a troll!! 🤣 |
I for one, don’t plan to be swayed by any speech even if it’s the best in history. Besides I knew a guy who gave amazing speeches, about possums, Dorothy and Beyoncé. So I’ve got no time for speeches. But cold hard facts and numbers, presented with provable documentation. I’ll listen to that. |
Yes, real answers and transparency. I'm not going to be swayed by toxic positivity. I'm not holding my breath though. I'm only entertaining Monday because my kid is sad and wants what they had earlier this semester. |
I’m using this whole fiasco to teach my kid the basics of ethics. How do you treat people? How should people treat you? What might be legal yet not ethical? How do you recognize red flags that someone is not telling the truth? Why should we expect better from our employers or our peers? And I have allayed fears by pointing out another school can be a great place and the people that matter (real friends) will never stop being so just because we’re going to a new school. It’s an opportunity to make new friends and keep the old ones. That has worked for us cause my kid is happy to move on. |
If I wanted to call this person a troll I would. I asked a question that as of yet has not been answered. I am continually alarmed at the lack of intellect by parents (and seemingly parents whose children go to the same school as my own) to be able to distinguish the difference between this: "And how can anyone send their child back there because of this, I don't get it" AND this: "I can't in good conscience send my child back there because of this." This is not *just* a matter of semantics and pronouns. Words have meaning and intent behind them. I find the language on here both from those who are seemingly staying and those who are leaving or have already left to be covertly judgemental and inflammatory. And again, I'm alarmed at the lack of intellect to see the difference. Whether you're responding by calling people trolls or accusing folks of toxic positivity or complaining that people are too negative/pessimistic or want the school to fail - you're all (both sides) guilty of the language you're using and that kind of covertly judgemental and inflammatory language is doing nothing to solve problems. And it does nothing for those of us who are here because we actually want to hear a variety of personal perspectives about how their families are thinking about SSFS and what their personal experience has been. |