The previous systems both had lots of high stats and ms magnet kids not getting in to school of choice too. It felt random to a lot of parents/kids then too. It is not a new thing. I agree with another PP about prepping for the tests. In my kid's year, many Potomac area kids took a special course from A++ prepping for the HS test. I can also see PP's point about recs. I have always liked that element of the application, but I also have girls who likely benefited. I don't know the answer, but I do know that the magnets in that system lacked students who didn't get enrichment. I really think our efforts would better spent advocating for more magnet seats/programs rather than claiming current admits are somehow lesser. |
Yet many parents on this board claim they did edit or proofread their child's essay. You are clearly white and you don't get it how hard it can be for children of immigrant parents who don't know how to work the system for you. I recognize your other smug posts. |
My kids record of all As is entirely on him. Absolutely nothing I have done has assisted. He is 100 percent responsible for completing his home work and for keeping track of when it’s due. I also don’t take him to activities or prep him for tests. He got in to everywhere he applied. |
Different poster and I completely get your point but also wonder if this is the case why are most of the kids who got in to Blair from immigrant families and not white? |
| So much wrong with your post. Not white does not equal immigrant. |
It pains me to read your posts. You are clearly deeply involved in your child's schooling. You've posted in every thread I've been scanning. Every single one in great detail about the application process and your opinions. Own it. You're very involved. Your child is lucky. Why do you like to pretend you're not? |
I don't think anyone has this statistic so I'm not sure it's even true but the families I know with immigrant parents, many of whom are white and Russian or from Europe, tend to have their kids apply at a higher rate than non-immigrant families due to how the schooling works where they grew up and their not being as familiar and confident with the American schooling and college process. The confident white educated parents don't apply as much in my area because they know their child will be successful no matter where they are in school. |
Nothing in my post said that not white equaled immigrant. What it said was that many families who were immigrant and not white got in. |
No I haven’t. I think there are multiple people whose kids got in to multiple places. Someone was posting their kid got in to 7. Mine only got in to 3. I haven’t posted about it before. |
I think this is true, though I see this among non-white immigrant families (mostly highly educated btw) too. |
Your posts use the same language as the posters who talk in great detail about their child getting in everywhere but it's not you. I believe you. Hope you can recognize the sarcasm. |
The poster who provided great detail about how they approached the essay and then was slammed for it? Not me, but I found that post interesting. |
DP. You are hinting at south and east Asian families. Many of those families are educated, prioritize education and enrich their kids with classes. So, thise kids are getting an advantage. |
Lets be honest....life is full of disappointment - they may as well learn to deal with it now...try explaining to your child that life isn't always fair and there won't always be an clear explanation why they didn't get selected, etc... |
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Just curious did any parent leave their kids application entirely up to their child? No parent input at all not even reading the short and long answer stuff? I figured if DC has to go to the school and do the work then well he should do that all by himself.
Kind of made the ones DC did not get into maybe bother him but not me. Life full of acceptance and rejection in sometimes not equal parts. High school is tiny time slice of your life. These days the notion of "fair" is very interesting. |