No, but I don’t appreciate my DC being falsely accused as being a racist/bigot. This is slander and you wouldn’t like it if it were happening to your child. I am aware that Americans are American citizens, however the American jews I have associated with consider Israel their homeland. |
The American jews I know consider Israel equal to the US. They believe that they belong to both. I am not disagreeing with them, just stating a fact. |
I live in a town that’s around 33% Jewish American, we have orthodox, hasidic, conservative, the whole spectrum here. It appears that any nonjew who broaches the topic of Isreal is immediately shut down or branded an antisemite for saying something deemed offensive. |
Something offensive such as what? What specifically have you said about Israel that’s gotten you shut down? You’re being incredibly vague here. If you have specific examples, provide them. |
Also, do you live in like Monsey New York or something? That’s an incredibly high Jewish population lol. Jews make up 2% of the US population overall. |
It was a conversation regarding why a child was being branded an antisemite. The very socially connected Jewish American parents of the offended child stated that the child was scared and felt threatened due to the offending nonjewish child stating something along the lines of Israel was killing people and he felt bad. I wasn’t present for this child conversation. The jewish American parents basically ignore me and will only speak with DH. Per DH the parent of offended child supported that he felt threatened and he felt that branding my DC an antisemite was the right thing to do essentially. |
I can echo this experience and I'm sure so many others can do the same |
Yes up that way |
You still have not provided all the details of this “false accusation” - and then generalizing whatever happened between children to come to conclusions about antisemitism is obviously problematic. Especially when you seem to have absolutely zero instinct or understanding about what is actually antisemitic (such as — assuming all American Jews are also Israeli). I’m also curious about what exactly your supposed Jewish friends told you. My guess is you are misunderstanding. |
Sure “it appears” that way. Ok! |
What exactly does an American born Jew have to do to acquire permanent residency in Israel? |
“Something along the lines …” sure. My guess is that you were offensive to the parents and that is why they only talk to your DH. Also the parents are Jewish - not sure why you need to keep saying “Jewish American.” Anyway, it’s possible whatever your child said got exaggerated but it is a good chance for you to explain to him why he needs to be careful about generalizing. |
Is branding a child as being a racist/bigot/antisemite ever acceptable? No adults were present for this conversation but ultimately the Jewish American parents supported their DC branding my DC antisemite because they felt threatened due to a conversation between children about the middle east. I am not an antisemite and neither is my DC. This family rarely will even engage with me at all, how would they even know what my thoughts were? |
Yes so many others are controlled by Jews! It seems to me that any place where Jews are more than a tiny minority people start believing that they are being controlled by Jews. A relative of mine sends his kids to a New York rich suburban school and told me openly he believes that Jews dominate and control the school. When I pointed out that the actual numbers show Jews a minority there he still would not back down. I think what really makes you mad is that in an area with a sizable fraction of Jews you cannot just say whatever you want about it. |
who “branded” your child anything? You sound extremely defensive. Even if this once incident is true, it says nothing about the overall discussion. All we know is that the Jewish child felt offended. The way schools deal with that stuff could be an entirely different thread. |