Woman missing after reporting seeing a toddler on the highway

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Anonymous wrote:This thread is horrible. I'm presenting some facts to contrast the wild, unsubstantiated judgment.

So many of you think the police would immediately tell the public about an abduction. Wrong.

Here's a case in CA, where the police didn't believe Denise Huskins was abducted because she returned 48 hours with a suitcase. They thought it was a hoax because she "didn't act like a kidnapping victim." Well, the FBI got on the case and arrested a Harvard-trained lawyer who abducted Huskins and demanded less than $10K ransom. The nasty speculation and rumors forced them to move. The police didn't warn the public about a real threat. https://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-vallejo-police-hoax-denise-huskins-20160801-snap-story.html

It's dangerous at worst, laughable at best if you think the police, companies, the church, or even journalists will release timely information to protect the public or private constituencies. We know from the movie "Spotlight" that the Boston Globe sat on information that would alert the public that priests were molesting children, until they felt they had a "stronger" case. We know from #metoo that companies have routinely swept cases of rape and harassment under the rug. Heck, if you're over 10 years old, you will be lucky if your missing persons case is taken seriously or even investigated, so what makes you think they're out there in a rush to warn the public: https://www.usatoday.com/in-depth/news/investigations/2023/03/02/missing-children-kids-police-attention-depends-on-age-location/11219534002/

Red Roof Inn has been hit with lawsuits for aiding and abetting traffickers and profiting from it in many states. So, the hotel did or didn't do something based on its own interests. If you Google it you will read horrifying details and them turning a blind eye (i.e. proving my earlier point about companies not protecting the public or its guests).
GA: https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/more-dozen-victims-trafficked-metro-212310723.html
OH: https://abc6onyourside.com/news/local/red-roof-inn-staff-complicit-in-sex-trafficking-lawsuit-alleges-columbus-attorney-steven-babin-new-albany-based-company-central-ohio
WA (can't find this reported in news outlets): https://www.law360.com/real-estate-authority/commercial/articles/1678370/seattle-red-roof-inn-hit-with-sex-trafficking-survivor-suit
MD (actual arrests): https://www.cbsnews.com/baltimore/news/2-charged-with-human-trafficking-at-jessup-red-roof-inn/

Twitter reports 64,000 Black women remain missing. Here's an NPR report on how Black women disproportionately go missing. https://www.npr.org/2021/09/24/1040048967/missing-black-women-girls-left-out-media-ignored

No matter what happened to Carlee, publicizing all missing women (and children, per above) cases can greatly influence their outcome of being found and helping the police. We know that Black women are often ignored.

Yes, but how many of the specific cases you cite have video capture of the disappearance, as well as a police statement that they have pieced together every footstep the person made prior to that?

So different.

You have no idea. In the Huskins case they had an eye-witness--her boyfriend. It didn't seem to matter at all.

I think you misunderstand. Regardless, a camera and videotape is not the same as a person's account.

Grainy camera footage doesn't tell the entire story. You missed my post just upthread that might fill in some gaps for you:

One more about people thinking everyone would, no doubtedly!, see something on the side of a busy highway. In another inattentional blindness study, 83% of radiologists failed to spot an angry gorilla that had been placed on their slide. As mentioned in the article, these are people trained to detect inconsistencies.
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2013/02/...-gorilla-hiding-in-plain-sight

There was no kid.

You have no idea if there was a kid or not.

There was never a kid. She did this on her own. You being gullible doesn’t change that.

This. I really hope a lot of these posts are the true crime loons that descend and not DMV parents who should really have more sense.

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It’s pretty clear that police are not concerned. I don’t think that is a matter of opinion.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore. [/quote


If you go on social media you will see that there are so many professional people that have no decorum. Things aren’t what they use to be. I have been shocked and appalled at the accounts of doctors, lawyers, nurses, engineers etc

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore.

Yeah. Dipped out to teach cheating boyfriend a lesson, didn’t consider the horrible impact on her parents, didn’t think it was going to blow up like this in the media, had to slink back home. I’m sure whatever friend’s house she was at is just thrilled to be involved in a criminal investigation now.

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Anonymous wrote:She seems kind of, intense?

https://ibb.co/fSyxBrq

that is a very long run-on sentence and lots of racial epithets is this her manic phase?

It does not suggest someone who makes calm, measured decisions when upset.

Posting this kind of thing under her own name and leaving it up when she is in a nursing program strikes me as strange. She comes from a solid middle class family, but seems to have the potential for being erratic and very dramatic. Now the past few days. Everything has to be considered in context, including what LE is not saying and what video did not show. They did state that no one else on a heavily travelled road had reported seeing a child and no child or other car is in the video.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore.

If you go on social media you will see that there are so many professional people that have no decorum. Things aren’t what they use to be. I have been shocked and appalled at the accounts of doctors, lawyers, nurses, engineers etc

For Any other person the university would immediately rescind there enrollment for this language and racist speak, odd

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If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it?

Which ones? I agree on the posts making disparaging and aggressive remarks about another woman.
The posts of her in a bathing suit are fine. She's attractive and young and enjoying it. What is wrong with that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore. [/quote


If you go on social media you will see that there are so many professional people that have no decorum. Things aren’t what they use to be. I have been shocked and appalled at the accounts of doctors, lawyers, nurses, engineers etc

They are pinching their nipples on social media?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

NP here. not saying she deserved it but I have had a couple of stalkers. My mother had one too. It is a horrible experience. I would not put up photos of myself like this. I am very careful about what photos of my daughter get out on SM.

Aside from that, based on her FB rant and over-the-top self-adulation on IG, I'm going to say that she seems to have a mood or personality disorder. I'm not a psychologist. I fell am a good judge of character and I wouldn't willingly choose to be around her.

I do hope she's okay and that all turns out well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore.

If you go on social media you will see that there are so many professional people that have no decorum. Things aren’t what they use to be. I have been shocked and appalled at the accounts of doctors, lawyers, nurses, engineers etc

For Any other person the university would immediately rescind there enrollment for this language and racist speak, odd

Sorry, I don’t follow. What racist speak?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore.

Yeah. Dipped out to teach cheating boyfriend a lesson, didn’t consider the horrible impact on her parents, didn’t think it was going to blow up like this in the media, had to slink back home. I’m sure whatever friend’s house she was at is just thrilled to be involved in a criminal investigation now.

Yes. And I think when she returned home, the reason the family did not immediately inform the authorities is that they wanted to think through how to minimize potential criminal or civil consequences for her. (Which I would probably do too, in their shoes).

[Anonymous]

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If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it?

Which ones? I agree on the posts making disparaging and aggressive remarks about another woman.
The posts of her in a bathing suit are fine. She's attractive and young and enjoying it. What is wrong with that?

NP here. Nothing is *wrong* with it. That won't change the fact that certain people, mainly men, are visually-stimulated sexual predators. At the very least, you can be assured that she's made it into the web databases of men who excitedly geo-locate attractive women. Each woman has her own page with location details and and stockpile of her images. They also ask who has nudes of said women and trade them and add them to her profile. Happens 24/7.

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Anonymous wrote:

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it?

Which ones? I agree on the posts making disparaging and aggressive remarks about another woman.
The posts of her in a bathing suit are fine. She's attractive and young and enjoying it. What is wrong with that?

NP here. Nothing is *wrong* with it. That won't change the fact that certain people, mainly men, are visually-stimulated sexual predators. At the very least, you can be assured that she's made it into the web databases of men who excitedly geo-locate attractive women. Each woman has her own page with location details and and stockpile of her images. They also ask who has nudes of said women and trade them and add them to her profile. Happens 24/7.

I'm also a NP and while I agree with you, how would this fit in here? A stalker knew she'd be traveling on the interstate at that very moment, and happened to have a toddler with him, knowing that she - and only she, out of all the interstate travelers that evening - would pull over???

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Is it confirmed that it was a hoax? That’s such a relief.

I clicked the bathing suit picture and you biddies are so out of touch. It’s a little vulgar but hardly scandalous in 2023.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe her socials attracted the wrong kind of attention?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CSkR7xNJxnJ/

I am sorry but this post seems like victim shaming if she was in fact kidnapped or targeted. This is akin to “she was dressed like a prostitute, so she deserved it.”

If she was targeted maybe her posts drew attention, they were clearly attention seeking. It's not really what you would expect someone to post under their own name as they headed off to nursing school, is it? And then to go on and on in her IG post attacking another woman as a "stripper" when she posted very similar posts under her own name? It's odd. Her father is a bank exec.

I think a hoax of some sort or a substance induced hallucination then freak out, or her dipping out for a few days is more likely than kidnapping, ymmv. LE released a vid with no person or car near hers and no one is talking about a missing toddler at all anymore.

Yeah. Dipped out to teach cheating boyfriend a lesson, didn’t consider the horrible impact on her parents, didn’t think it was going to blow up like this in the media, had to slink back home. I’m sure whatever friend’s house she was at is just thrilled to be involved in a criminal investigation now.

As I said low intelligence high drama
What could go wrong