How to not be pissy with DH

Anonymous
Picked up lunch and bottled water for DS's field trip tomorrow. Sent DH a text that said "lunchables and water for field trip tomorrow. Do not eat. Repeat: DO NOT EAT LUNCHABLES OR DRINK WATER." He texts back "ok". Guess who drank the goddamn water?? Both bottles?? Doesn't even apologize. Just sits there staring at me when I tell him to check his text messages. I am having such a hard time not letting this annoy me! Help!
Anonymous
WTF?
Anonymous
And why do you need to refrain from being pissy?
Anonymous
Spend less time being pissy, and more time looking up exactly how bad Lunchables are for your kid.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:And why do you need to refrain from being pissy?


I guess because it's the nice thing to do. I have trouble letting stuff go.
Anonymous
Ummm its water. Just fill the bottles back up. How can this actually be an issue?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Spend less time being pissy, and more time looking up exactly how bad Lunchables are for your kid.

Not OP, but spend less time being a dick.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Spend less time being pissy, and more time looking up exactly how bad Lunchables are for your kid.

Not OP, but spend less time being a dick.


+1. The fact that you have to tell DH these things and he disregards you would make me crazy - sounds like something DH would do and then accuse me of being a b**** when I give him crap about it.
Anonymous
Your husband is an idiot. I'd be mad, too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ummm its water. Just fill the bottles back up. How can this actually be an issue?


OP here. I totally get that. But this scenario happens constantly (him just not listening) and it gets on my nerves! I want to be that guy where shit rolls off my back but clearly I'm not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Spend less time being pissy, and more time looking up exactly how bad Lunchables are for your kid.

Not OP, but spend less time being a dick.


+1. The fact that you have to tell DH these things and he disregards you would make me crazy - sounds like something DH would do and then accuse me of being a b**** when I give him crap about it.


He didn't call me a bitch today, but when I asked for an apology I got the "I'm sorry, ok?" Said in the tone of "fuck you and quit bothering me."
Anonymous
My DH does this shit all the time and it makes me nuts. Turns out he has ADHD. I can be a little more sympathetic to it now, but not much because he refuses to take meds or get therapy.
Anonymous
That would drive me insane. I'd probably send him to the store for more water bottles. Natural consequences and all that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Picked up lunch and bottled water for DS's field trip tomorrow. Sent DH a text that said "lunchables and water for field trip tomorrow. Do not eat. Repeat: DO NOT EAT LUNCHABLES OR DRINK WATER." He texts back "ok". Guess who drank the goddamn water?? Both bottles?? Doesn't even apologize. Just sits there staring at me when I tell him to check his text messages. I am having such a hard time not letting this annoy me! Help!


So much wrong with this post.

1) Lunchables. Dafuq?
2) You only bought two bottles of water? Dafuq?
3) This pissed you off. Dafuq?

You trollin' hun?
Anonymous
My fifth grader would be mortally embarrassed if you sent lunchables to school. You do understand that kids mock each other for that, right?
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