Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 60 years old with a 50-year-old wife, and we got married when she was 24 years old. I would choose her 24-year-old over her 50-year-old version in attractiveness in a heartbeat. I am still very attractive to her because of what we've built over the years, but her current beauty is about 1/20th of what she was versus what she looked like when she was 24-year-old. I don't think I can have sex with another 50-year-old without that built-in equity. Therefore, the answer is a resounding NO...

Ugh. This is so depressing. Glad I’m not married to you!

your husband thinks the same
I think the same
99% of men think the same

WTF is wrong with you? this guy is still attracted to HIS 50+yr old wife because of the life they have built, i'm guessing add to that the love they have grown for each other, emotional connection and etc.

but he (and 99% of other guys) doesn't want to have sex with your 50+yr old saggy body compared to a 24 yr old

Well I want to have sex with Hugh Jackman but that has absolutely zero relevance to what the average 50 year old man can reasonably be expected to look like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course they do. My mom used to work in an old peoples’ home. The stories she’d tell alllllllllll the time of old people shagging like rabbits everywhere in the hallways, the community rooms, etc. was nuts. It’s like you had to walk around with buckets of cold water. If 88 year old men still get hard for great grannies, you can bet that many men still find 50, 60, and 70 year old women attractive.

This is very hard to believe with all the mobility issues they have. Walkers and canes everywhere! 50s, 60s ok but 70s and 80s?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course they do. My mom used to work in an old peoples’ home. The stories she’d tell alllllllllll the time of old people shagging like rabbits everywhere in the hallways, the community rooms, etc. was nuts. It’s like you had to walk around with buckets of cold water. If 88 year old men still get hard for great grannies, you can bet that many men still find 50, 60, and 70 year old women attractive.

This is very hard to believe with all the mobility issues they have. Walkers and canes everywhere! 50s, 60s ok but 70s and 80s?

STDs are rampant in senior communities including SNF

https://people.com/stds-rising-significantly-among-adults-age-55-and-older-8622539

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of course they do. My mom used to work in an old peoples’ home. The stories she’d tell alllllllllll the time of old people shagging like rabbits everywhere in the hallways, the community rooms, etc. was nuts. It’s like you had to walk around with buckets of cold water. If 88 year old men still get hard for great grannies, you can bet that many men still find 50, 60, and 70 year old women attractive.

This is very hard to believe with all the mobility issues they have. Walkers and canes everywhere! 50s, 60s ok but 70s and 80s?

You have NO clue. Old people bang like animals of left unsupervised. Not that hard to sit on a lap or do sideways sex in a bed or in a couch. They are like horny teenagers.

[Anonymous]

I mean I get it that time catches up with all of us, however, I don't understand these comments from majority of men. Most men above 50 are out of shape with beer bellies and horrible skin, I don't know where they are finding these women in 20s or 30s unless of course it's for their wallet. In that regard plenty of women are rich in their 50s and can find men in their 20s and 30s because of the size of their wallet.

Very few men in their 50s or 60s look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt and they are definitely not on DCUM, so GTFOH with telling women what age "you" prefer. To all the men in 50s and 60s, no 20 or 30 year olds are shagging your wrinkly a$$ because you are a stud, they are doing it because you can pay their bills and make their life easier. Yes, I can get a 30 yr old man to do the same because I am 50, attractive and I am loaded.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I mean I get it that time catches up with all of us, however, I don't understand these comments from majority of men. Most men above 50 are out of shape with beer bellies and horrible skin, I don't know where they are finding these women in 20s or 30s unless of course it's for their wallet. In that regard plenty of women are rich in their 50s and can find men in their 20s and 30s because of the size of their wallet.

Very few men in their 50s or 60s look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt and they are definitely not on DCUM, so GTFOH with telling women what age "you" prefer. To all the men in 50s and 60s, no 20 or 30 year olds are shagging your wrinkly a$$ because you are a stud, they are doing it because you can pay their bills and make their life easier. Yes, I can get a 30 yr old man to do the same because I am 50, attractive and I am loaded.

You are still old it's okay granny haha.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 60 years old with a 50-year-old wife, and we got married when she was 24 years old. I would choose her 24-year-old over her 50-year-old version in attractiveness in a heartbeat. I am still very attractive to her because of what we've built over the years, but her current beauty is about 1/20th of what she was versus what she looked like when she was 24-year-old. I don't think I can have sex with another 50-year-old without that built-in equity. Therefore, the answer is a resounding NO...

Ugh. This is so depressing. Glad I’m not married to you!

your husband thinks the same
I think the same
99% of men think the same

WTF is wrong with you? this guy is still attracted to HIS 50+yr old wife because of the life they have built, i'm guessing add to that the love they have grown for each other, emotional connection and etc.

but he (and 99% of other guys) doesn't want to have sex with your 50+yr old saggy body compared to a 24 yr old

Well I want to have sex with Hugh Jackman but that has absolutely zero relevance to what the average 50 year old man can reasonably be expected to look like.

I am the 60-year-old poster, and given a choice of my 50-year-old wife and a younger version of my wife at 24-year-old, it is a very easy choice. I would have sex with my 50-year-old wife because of the connections we had over the past 26 years, but definitely NOT with another 50-year-old woman that I hardly know. Sagging boobs and butt on someone who is in their 50s that I hardly know is not very attractive. Not to say that I am any better at the age of sixty. You get the point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean I get it that time catches up with all of us, however, I don't understand these comments from majority of men. Most men above 50 are out of shape with beer bellies and horrible skin, I don't know where they are finding these women in 20s or 30s unless of course it's for their wallet. In that regard plenty of women are rich in their 50s and can find men in their 20s and 30s because of the size of their wallet.

Very few men in their 50s or 60s look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt and they are definitely not on DCUM, so GTFOH with telling women what age "you" prefer. To all the men in 50s and 60s, no 20 or 30 year olds are shagging your wrinkly a$$ because you are a stud, they are doing it because you can pay their bills and make their life easier. Yes, I can get a 30 yr old man to do the same because I am 50, attractive and I am loaded.

You are still old it's okay granny haha.

And, so are you. We are even Mr. Saggy Ball$.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 60 years old with a 50-year-old wife, and we got married when she was 24 years old. I would choose her 24-year-old over her 50-year-old version in attractiveness in a heartbeat. I am still very attractive to her because of what we've built over the years, but her current beauty is about 1/20th of what she was versus what she looked like when she was 24-year-old. I don't think I can have sex with another 50-year-old without that built-in equity. Therefore, the answer is a resounding NO...

Ugh. This is so depressing. Glad I’m not married to you!

your husband thinks the same
I think the same
99% of men think the same

WTF is wrong with you? this guy is still attracted to HIS 50+yr old wife because of the life they have built, i'm guessing add to that the love they have grown for each other, emotional connection and etc.

but he (and 99% of other guys) doesn't want to have sex with your 50+yr old saggy body compared to a 24 yr old

Well I want to have sex with Hugh Jackman but that has absolutely zero relevance to what the average 50 year old man can reasonably be expected to look like.

I am the 60-year-old poster, and given a choice of my 50-year-old wife and a younger version of my wife at 24-year-old, it is a very easy choice. I would have sex with my 50-year-old wife because of the connections we had over the past 26 years, but definitely NOT with another 50-year-old woman that I hardly know. Sagging boobs and butt on someone who is in their 50s that I hardly know is not very attractive. Not to say that I am any better at the age of sixty. You get the point.

We understood you the first time. Would you like me to list out all the ways you are unattractively aging too?

[Anonymous]

I think women in their 20-30 only sleep wity these men for money. I’m 46 and tuned down plenty of 43-59 year old men. They were not ugly but just not in same shape as me. They all claimed to date twenties and thirties women but I was not minimally interested in these same guys! They all offered taking care of me in different forms. I have own money and don’t need a man to take care of me.

I can’t tolerate any fat when I’m thin myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 60 years old with a 50-year-old wife, and we got married when she was 24 years old. I would choose her 24-year-old over her 50-year-old version in attractiveness in a heartbeat. I am still very attractive to her because of what we've built over the years, but her current beauty is about 1/20th of what she was versus what she looked like when she was 24-year-old. I don't think I can have sex with another 50-year-old without that built-in equity. Therefore, the answer is a resounding NO...

Ugh. This is so depressing. Glad I’m not married to you!

your husband thinks the same
I think the same
99% of men think the same

WTF is wrong with you? this guy is still attracted to HIS 50+yr old wife because of the life they have built, i'm guessing add to that the love they have grown for each other, emotional connection and etc.

but he (and 99% of other guys) doesn't want to have sex with your 50+yr old saggy body compared to a 24 yr old

Well I want to have sex with Hugh Jackman but that has absolutely zero relevance to what the average 50 year old man can reasonably be expected to look like.

I am the 60-year-old poster, and given a choice of my 50-year-old wife and a younger version of my wife at 24-year-old, it is a very easy choice. I would have sex with my 50-year-old wife because of the connections we had over the past 26 years, but definitely NOT with another 50-year-old woman that I hardly know. Sagging boobs and butt on someone who is in their 50s that I hardly know is not very attractive. Not to say that I am any better at the age of sixty. You get the point.

We understood you the first time. Would you like me to list out all the ways you are unattractively aging too?

Ok children back to class now lol. We get it he probably has very long wrinkly balls dragging on the floor. Come on guys old people shouldn't be wasting their time talking about who has lost the most collagen lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think women in their 20-30 only sleep wity these men for money. I’m 46 and tuned down plenty of 43-59 year old men. They were not ugly but just not in same shape as me. They all claimed to date twenties and thirties women but I was not minimally interested in these same guys! They all offered taking care of me in different forms. I have own money and don’t need a man to take care of me.

I can’t tolerate any fat when I’m thin myself.

I definitely agree with you that a lot of men are just out of shape. I am 45 and in very good shape but that's because I have enjoyed fitness since I was 19.

Having said that maybe you don't see it as much but there a lot I mean a lot of women around your age in a very bad shape physically. Maybe there are women in shape compared to men when both are 40+ but we are not taking about a big gap here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The answer is no, nope, nada.

For mom the average 50yr old isn’t attractive compared to the average 20-30-40 something woman

Just not.

However this thread shows there are a few and very vocal exceptions to the rule.

I’m 50 male and don’t date over 41-42

Sure when I’m 65 I’ll expand my range to 55. Maybe. Or just call it a day

You are just misogynistic and judge based on age sticker on the apps. Men are terrible figuring a woman’s age. If they are attracted they will approach to get introduced. Men in their 40s always hit on me in real life - bars, social events etc. I’m mid 40s. They think I’m 37-38 and get shocked when I tell the actual number. I date within 3 years of my own age, and nobody so far refused to date me because of that. I meet men mostly in real life for that reason. The age “cut off” doesn’t affect me that way.

Meh. He's fine. Its understandable to play odds on the apps, he didnt say he would turn down JLo if they met out. I just look at it as not being able to use apps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think women in their 20-30 only sleep wity these men for money. I’m 46 and tuned down plenty of 43-59 year old men. They were not ugly but just not in same shape as me. They all claimed to date twenties and thirties women but I was not minimally interested in these same guys! They all offered taking care of me in different forms. I have own money and don’t need a man to take care of me.

I can’t tolerate any fat when I’m thin myself.

I definitely agree with you that a lot of men are just out of shape. I am 45 and in very good shape but that's because I have enjoyed fitness since I was 19.

Having said that maybe you don't see it as much but there a lot I mean a lot of women around your age in a very bad shape physically. Maybe there are women in shape compared to men when both are 40+ but we are not taking about a big gap here.

the people in this city are in bad shape generally. the difference btwn nyc and dc could not be bigger in this regard

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean I get it that time catches up with all of us, however, I don't understand these comments from majority of men. Most men above 50 are out of shape with beer bellies and horrible skin, I don't know where they are finding these women in 20s or 30s unless of course it's for their wallet. In that regard plenty of women are rich in their 50s and can find men in their 20s and 30s because of the size of their wallet.

Very few men in their 50s or 60s look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt and they are definitely not on DCUM, so GTFOH with telling women what age "you" prefer. To all the men in 50s and 60s, no 20 or 30 year olds are shagging your wrinkly a$$ because you are a stud, they are doing it because you can pay their bills and make their life easier. Yes, I can get a 30 yr old man to do the same because I am 50, attractive and I am loaded.

You are still old it's okay granny haha.

And, so are you. We are even Mr. Saggy Ball$.

Love this woman! Men love the “own” that they are spared a hard expiration, unlike us, who become repulsive, worthless hags at the stroke of menopause.

Men, no you are not spared unless you have money. And if you do have money? Well, the 20/30 something women you claim to so easily bed do not love you. It’s a transactional arrangement: she provides a tight young body in exchange for resources.

If a woman reaches her 50s and is loaded herself, well, she gets to opt out of the competition. Your opinion of her aged, saggy body is meaningless.

And yeah, the 20/30 something boy toys she can land are using her, but so are YOUR 20/30 something women. Remember that. You’re being used by the youngins’ too. So, same boat.