What were your parents' rules for you after you graduated college?

[Anonymous]

e.g. What was your curfew?

[Anonymous]

Uh, none?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Uh, none?

Lucky.

[Anonymous]

Rules??! Lol! There were no rules! I got a job and shared a group house!

[Anonymous]

Sorry, I should have been more clear. This question is aimed at the people whose college was paid for by their parents, not those people who paid their own way through.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, I should have been more clear. This question is aimed at the people whose college was paid for by their parents, not those people who paid their own way through.

Parents paid for mine. I still did what I wanted, because by the time I graduated college I was an adult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, I should have been more clear. This question is aimed at the people whose college was paid for by their parents, not those people who paid their own way through.

Parents paid for mine. I still did what I wanted, because by the time I graduated college I was an adult.

Well, most people become adults their freshman or sophomore years of college, and even when they're done, they usually still have to listen to Mommy and Daddy because of the bad economy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, I should have been more clear. This question is aimed at the people whose college was paid for by their parents, not those people who paid their own way through.

Op, you don't get to control your adult child just because you,paid for college

[Anonymous]

I had a rule before I graduated: I had to major in something I could be employed in. So I had to minor in philosophy. Best advice I ever got!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry, I should have been more clear. This question is aimed at the people whose college was paid for by their parents, not those people who paid their own way through.

Op, you don't get to control your adult child just because you,paid for college

I don't have children. Yeah, I'd imagine most parents are generous enough allow their 22-23 year kids leeway.

[Anonymous]

I never lived with my parents again after I left for college. After college graduation? I had a job and an apt. Are you asking for people who still lived at home?

[Anonymous]

Lol we pay full price OOS and daughter (has two more years) and we don't try to tell her what to do. We give guidance, emotional support, and money but decisions are hers to make. She can always come home but I don't think she will need to.

[Anonymous]

My parents paid for me to go to private college and grad school and never had any rules for me. My life is my own. Pay for your kids college bc you want to, not bc you think you can tell them how to run their lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My parents paid for me to go to private college and grad school and never had any rules for me. My life is my own. Pay for your kids college bc you want to, not bc you think you can tell them how to run their lives.

Clearly different cultural values. But don't come back crying that your parents do not help out after your children are born. It's a two way street.

[Anonymous]

If your adult child lives with you in your home, perhaps -- perhaps -- you should be able to set a curfew or house rules. Otherwise, the mere fact that you paid for college is meaningless. Your child is an adult and independent of you.