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Curious...REALLY, how often do you have an orgasm during sex?
I have one 30-50 percent of the time...and I have to fake it the other times, otherwise hubby won't finish. He pretty much can't have one unless I do (or he thinks I have). |
| Every single time. Even if I'm not in the mood to start with. Can't imagine not. |
| PP - I am impressed. I would say for me, it is about 25 percent of the time - and that is being generous. |
| Only when I'm having sex with myself. |
OP here. I think I COULD have one nearly every single time, but sometimes I am just too tired...it takes a while sometimes. I feel bad for faking it but think I'm sort of trapped into it for the rest of my life!! FWIW, I have sex with my husband 5-6 times a week. |
| Every time! |
| I've been faking it with DH for over 22 years. He's too stupid to figure it out. |
| Don't fake!!! Its lets the guy off the hook. How's he supposed to figure out how to please you if he thinks he's doing it right? You're only shortchanging yourself. |
| Every time - though often some hand stimulation at same time as having sex is required |
That's amazing. I can't handle that many times a month. What is "takes a while" - how long"? I take so friggin long I give up half the time. |
| Primarily with vibrator (which is instant). Oral does nothing for me. I need manual (hand) or sex. Even then I hardly ever have an O w/husband but cant be bothered being honest so i lie. |
| I have one every time...but how often do we have sex? Like twice a month. He wishes it were 5-6 times a week, but I just don't feel like a sexual being anymore. |
| Maybe 10% of the time. Not sure why it works sometimes, just the right amount of mood, lube and position, I guess. |
| every single time, always before my husband. it just takes a couple minutes. |
| I'm the same as the PP above (though often it's longer than 1/2 an hour). Guys will never learn either if they're not taught or if faking it lets them off the hook. Sex actually can be something both people can like when you both put effort into it (and yes, that means you telling husband what to do or using your own hand/implements during sex!) |