How often do you have an orgasm during sex?

[Anonymous]

Every time - multiple times. I faked it with my pre-husband boyfriend, but learned my lesson. You need to let them know what feels good and how to get there... I don't think we've had sex where I've only O'd just once- it's phenomenal. Fun fun. But from what I've read on this site, we're abnormal to begin with. We have sex almost daily - and it lasts longer than 15 minutes!

[Anonymous]

Every time, but my DH knows that I can't do it without help unless I'm on top, so he makes sure I have one (or on rare occasion I'll do it myself).

[Anonymous]

I'm so envious...sounds like most of you are able to orgasm through intercourse. I've NEVER been able to, not once...I'm just not stimulated that way (though I do enjoy sex). I can only orgasm through manual stimulation (hand, sometimes oral).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so envious...sounds like most of you are able to orgasm through intercourse. I've NEVER been able to, not once...I'm just not stimulated that way (though I do enjoy sex). I can only orgasm through manual stimulation (hand, sometimes oral).

me too. i'm so jealous.

[Anonymous]

Always. Otherwise, I figure why bother? We have been way slowed down lately though, due to newborn and breastfeeding and exhaustion. But normally, always O, always when I am on top.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm so envious...sounds like most of you are able to orgasm through intercourse. I've NEVER been able to, not once...I'm just not stimulated that way (though I do enjoy sex). I can only orgasm through manual stimulation (hand, sometimes oral).

me too. i'm so jealous.

Trial and error with unselfish boyfriends. That's how I finally got there. Also, some men think it's hot for a woman to take control of the situation to make herself happy...I know my husband does! If I'm warmed up and ready to go, it takes about 5 minutes of me on top to orgasm. Then he can finish up and we're both happy!

[Anonymous]

We have sex everyday. I always O first with oral or vibrator (when I use vibrator he is inside of me) then I O again (sometimes twice) during sex. Never skips a beat...we do it usually anywhere between 30 mins to an hour. Has to do with the fact that he is very visually stimulating, large, and we practiced a lot since we first started dating I seriously would die without him in my life-and I would be a sexual nothing if he was gone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have sex everyday. I always O first with oral or vibrator (when I use vibrator he is inside of me) then I O again (sometimes twice) during sex. Never skips a beat...we do it usually anywhere between 30 mins to an hour. Has to do with the fact that he is very visually stimulating, large, and we practiced a lot since we first started dating I seriously would die without him in my life-and I would be a sexual nothing if he was gone.

That's sweet. Completely outside of my own experience... but very sweet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Every single time. Even if I'm not in the mood to start with. Can't imagine not.

OP here. I think I COULD have one nearly every single time, but sometimes I am just too tired...it takes a while sometimes. I feel bad for faking it but think I'm sort of trapped into it for the rest of my life!!

FWIW, I have sex with my husband 5-6 times a week.

That's amazing. I can't handle that many times a month.
What is "takes a while" - how long"? I take so friggin long I give up half the time.

Hmmm....maybe 20-25 minutes? Sometimes I am just TOO TIRED!! I still like it...I just don't need to go 25 minutes for an orgasm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the same as the PP above (though often it's longer than 1/2 an hour). Guys will never learn either if they're not taught or if faking it lets them off the hook. Sex actually can be something both people can like when you both put effort into it (and yes, that means you telling husband what to do or using your own hand/implements during sex!)

It's not that my husband doesn't know what to do .... he does. Sometimes I just don't have the energy or stamina to keep at it long enough to have one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so envious...sounds like most of you are able to orgasm through intercourse. I've NEVER been able to, not once...I'm just not stimulated that way (though I do enjoy sex). I can only orgasm through manual stimulation (hand, sometimes oral).

What about from intercourse + manual? That's what works for me (every time).

[Anonymous]

Every time, usually manual. If I'm not done, he's not done! And I don't orgasm during intercourse, either. It's a separate event, usually after him.

[Anonymous]

If I'm in the mood for sex I always O during intercourse. If I'm just having sex to be nice to my husband or to foster intimacy (although I'm not feeling particularly sexual) then generally I don't. So about 80% yes, 20% no.

[Anonymous]

Every single time. If I'm not too tired and he's got the energy to keep going, I orgasm 3-4 times during sex. On a tired mommy day, only once. We have sex 3-4 times per week.

Before my husband, I was very hit or miss. Wasn't even that into sex. With him, it's a whole different world, and that has not changed over time.

I'm lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm so envious...sounds like most of you are able to orgasm through intercourse. I've NEVER been able to, not once...I'm just not stimulated that way (though I do enjoy sex). I can only orgasm through manual stimulation (hand, sometimes oral).

Are you a Lesbian?