DH complains that I ask him to do too many things

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[Post New]02/14/2016 18:37
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Anonymous
Tonight DH told me he feels I ask him to do 16+ things "every day" and "within 10 minutes" when he gets home.

This has a me a bit upset. This is a man who refused to eat left overs. Wants only very specific meals. Hot when he comes home (which of course is different times depending on traffic.) Wants blow jobs 2-4X a week. Wants specific sexual favors. Wants me to dress up. Have I mentioned that I do all these things? I ask him to take out the trash because I hate the smell and I admit that I hate being cold. I ask him to do things like "please put your beer bottles in the trash" and "please don't leave dirty dishes in the sink after I go to bed (and have finished cleaning up kitchen.)"

I am really put out that his description of me is that I'm demanding, when I truly feel he's the demanding one!!!
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:40
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Anonymous
So stop doing the things he is demanding unless you want to do them.
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:40
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Anonymous
Stop doing what he asks of you- problem solved!
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:43
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Anonymous
When he asks for those things, tell him the same damn thing. "You ask for me to do too many things." I'm sure he won't get it, though.
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:44
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Anonymous
I quit those BJs years ago. And I quit being sexy. You want a hooker go buy one.
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:45
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I quit those BJs years ago. And I quit being sexy. You want a hooker go buy one.


+1
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:52
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Anonymous
Tell him no... I have to do X, y and z as I cannot ask you to do them.
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:55
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Anonymous
You know, posts like these make me agree with the OP of the "why do women put up with men" post. Why, OP, why do you put up with this shit from him? Is it because he makes lots of money? He's great in bad? Why why why?
[Post New]02/14/2016 18:55
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Anonymous wrote:You know, posts like these make me agree with the OP of the "why do women put up with men" post. Why, OP, why do you put up with this shit from him? Is it because he makes lots of money? He's great in bad? Why why why?


+1
[Post New]02/14/2016 19:01
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Anonymous
2-4 BJs a week? In lieu of intercourse? Damn, he is selfish and lazy.
[Post New]02/14/2016 19:05
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Anonymous
Sounds like you have always catered to him.
[Post New]02/14/2016 20:24
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Anonymous
Sound like he's a selfish pig. He will change if he wants to. Otherwise, blame his mom for coddling him 18+ years.
[Post New]02/14/2016 20:25
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Sound like he's a selfish pig. He will change if he wants to. Otherwise, blame his mom for coddling him 18+ years.


Blame him for being a selfish pig.
[Post New]02/14/2016 20:30
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Anonymous
When he wants a BJ: Sorry honey, the trash needs to be taken out and I know how you hate for me to ask you to do it!
Special meal? Sorry babe, I was busy taking out empty beer bottles and didn't have time to get dinner together!
Dressing up like a naughty schoolgirl? Ooooh, I would, but I don't want to get my plaid skirt dirty while I clean up the kitchen a second time.

Seriously, try saying "no" once in a while
[Post New]02/14/2016 20:43
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:When he wants a BJ: Sorry honey, the trash needs to be taken out and I know how you hate for me to ask you to do it!
Special meal? Sorry babe, I was busy taking out empty beer bottles and didn't have time to get dinner together!
Dressing up like a naughty schoolgirl? Ooooh, I would, but I don't want to get my plaid skirt dirty while I clean up the kitchen a second time.

Seriously, try saying "no" once in a while


Yep.
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