What parts of your life/lifestyle are unapproved by DCUM standards?

[Anonymous]

I proudly took my husband’s last name. I love being addressed formally as Mr. And Mrs. Husband first and last name.

I absolutely am my own person and have my identity but I am proud to have taken his name and our children has his name.

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Don’t like males with long hair
Women should have long hair no shorter than 3 inches

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t like males with long hair
Women should have long hair no shorter than 3 inches

That’s not really about your life though. That’s just judging other people. DCUM loves that.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m addicted to Oreo cakesters. I don’t even like Oreos. It’s like I can taste the cakiness and all the chemicals that I know are causing the addiction, but I like them. I don’t live in DCUM land, but I do live in the SF Bay Area. I’m practically a pariah because of my addiction to cakesters amongst the healthy eaters. There was a naked homeless guy yelling outside the office the other day and I said that I bet he’d chill and be happy if I gave him some cakesters. Everyone was like, I can’t believe you’re joking about his plight or your addiction. True story-hand on the Bible level truth-he took a dump on the sidewalk 10 minutes later. I was like, “see? He had tummy troubles. Cakesters might have helped him go with less discomfort.” I said that because they’ve changed my digestive system. My tummy makes noises it didn’t before. I’m pretty sure we’re using more toilet paper in our house and I’m pretty sure the reason is me. And cakesters. And I’m pretty sure DCUM won’t approve of any of that lifestyle choice.

I’ve bought all of them at every Safeway, Target, and Walgreens (the only stores I’ve seen them in locally). I did a Target delivery order at work the other day and I was beside myself when I saw they had cakesters available. The shopper called to say they were out of stock and to see if I wanted them to substitute anything else. I said no thanks because regular Oreos are a different texture and he said he totally understood and lamented how hard it is to find cakesters. At first I was happy to find a kindred spirit, then I felt really irritated because he’s been eating my cakesters! I ordered all the ones I could find for under $7/box on Amazon. I’ve had to resort to having to order them from target online.

Otherwise I’m a healthy eater. Normal weight, no excesses. I eat at nice restaurants. I do hello fresh and eat salads and all that BS. Cakesters though. They’re like heroin.

For once DCUM has left me speechless.

Cakesters lady here. First, you’re welcome. I enjoy being part of new experiences for people, so that was great for me too. Second, I’m really curious which part of the bolded got you there. Was it that there was a naked guy yelling who then pooped on the sidewalk, that my coworkers thought I was nutty for making jokes, or that I was speculating on the effects of my favorite treat on naked homeless dude?

Last weekend my stomach was making some scary noises but I had run out of cakesters and was detoxing. DH commented on the noise and I said I thought it was a withdrawal symptom. He said A) that’s not true and B) whether that’s true or not, I definitely have a cakester problem.

To the PP who said they’re off to buy cakesters now, don’t do it! I’m not even sure they taste good anymore. But if you do buy some, grab some quilted northern triple ply while you’re there. You’ll thank me later.

It was definitely the naked guy pooping on the sidewalk. And that you interacted with him. A naked weirdo would have me creeped out! But I love your honesty about your cakester addiction! We all have our vices.

To be clear, I didn’t approach the naked guy who yelled and pooped on the sidewalk. I was just telling my coworker that cakesters might have lifted his spirits so he might not be so angry and not yell as much while he prepared to poop on the sidewalk 😂 It’s probably best I didn’t give him any, because those things are like crack and homeless people already have enough issues aside from addiction, so I don’t want to make their lives worse by introducing a new vice.

Whew! I misread and thought you an approached a naked stranger to offer processed sugar to help his bowel movements. I’m glad you clarified

Same. I thought you gave him a cakester to help his poop come out. I'm glad he pooped. Hope it was a big pile. You should have offered him a box of tissues from your office for his butt. There's so many naked poopers in DC.

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Anonymous wrote:I love edibles.

Me too

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Anonymous wrote:My husband and I are bisexual, and enjoy a MMF and FFM play dates. We enjoy cannabis as much as we enjoy red wines and bourbons. We partake as we find cannabis only enhances our already great sex life. We are on PreP, and practice safe sex.

We enjoy to spend our weekends and vacations at nudist resorts locally and abroad. We enjoy our hot tub, pool, sailboat, Winnebago motor coach and Jeep Wrangler. We enjoy to share these “toys” with our friends.

The best part of this is we’re your neighbors, and you’d never know us to be any different than your coworkers or smiling faces in the grocery store. We are professionals with high level careers, we don’t flaunt our lifestyle choices or push our opinions on anyone. We put on our underwear (when we choose to wear some) one leg at a time. We pay our taxes and treat others with respect.

Do you have kids

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Anonymous wrote:I’m addicted to Oreo cakesters. I don’t even like Oreos. It’s like I can taste the cakiness and all the chemicals that I know are causing the addiction, but I like them. I don’t live in DCUM land, but I do live in the SF Bay Area. I’m practically a pariah because of my addiction to cakesters amongst the healthy eaters. There was a naked homeless guy yelling outside the office the other day and I said that I bet he’d chill and be happy if I gave him some cakesters. Everyone was like, I can’t believe you’re joking about his plight or your addiction. True story-hand on the Bible level truth-he took a dump on the sidewalk 10 minutes later. I was like, “see? He had tummy troubles. Cakesters might have helped him go with less discomfort.” I said that because they’ve changed my digestive system. My tummy makes noises it didn’t before. I’m pretty sure we’re using more toilet paper in our house and I’m pretty sure the reason is me. And cakesters. And I’m pretty sure DCUM won’t approve of any of that lifestyle choice.

I’ve bought all of them at every Safeway, Target, and Walgreens (the only stores I’ve seen them in locally). I did a Target delivery order at work the other day and I was beside myself when I saw they had cakesters available. The shopper called to say they were out of stock and to see if I wanted them to substitute anything else. I said no thanks because regular Oreos are a different texture and he said he totally understood and lamented how hard it is to find cakesters. At first I was happy to find a kindred spirit, then I felt really irritated because he’s been eating my cakesters! I ordered all the ones I could find for under $7/box on Amazon. I’ve had to resort to having to order them from target online.

Otherwise I’m a healthy eater. Normal weight, no excesses. I eat at nice restaurants. I do hello fresh and eat salads and all that BS. Cakesters though. They’re like heroin.

For once DCUM has left me speechless.

Cakesters lady here. First, you’re welcome. I enjoy being part of new experiences for people, so that was great for me too. Second, I’m really curious which part of the bolded got you there. Was it that there was a naked guy yelling who then pooped on the sidewalk, that my coworkers thought I was nutty for making jokes, or that I was speculating on the effects of my favorite treat on naked homeless dude?

Last weekend my stomach was making some scary noises but I had run out of cakesters and was detoxing. DH commented on the noise and I said I thought it was a withdrawal symptom. He said A) that’s not true and B) whether that’s true or not, I definitely have a cakester problem.

To the PP who said they’re off to buy cakesters now, don’t do it! I’m not even sure they taste good anymore. But if you do buy some, grab some quilted northern triple ply while you’re there. You’ll thank me later.

It was definitely the naked guy pooping on the sidewalk. And that you interacted with him. A naked weirdo would have me creeped out! But I love your honesty about your cakester addiction! We all have our vices.

To be clear, I didn’t approach the naked guy who yelled and pooped on the sidewalk. I was just telling my coworker that cakesters might have lifted his spirits so he might not be so angry and not yell as much while he prepared to poop on the sidewalk 😂 It’s probably best I didn’t give him any, because those things are like crack and homeless people already have enough issues aside from addiction, so I don’t want to make their lives worse by introducing a new vice.

Whew! I misread and thought you an approached a naked stranger to offer processed sugar to help his bowel movements. I’m glad you clarified

Same. I thought you gave him a cakester to help his poop come out. I'm glad he pooped. Hope it was a big pile. You should have offered him a box of tissues from your office for his butt. There's so many naked poopers in DC.

That’s actually how we found out he pooped and wasn’t just naked for fun. I noticed that he had sprouted some tissue like tail feathers and asked if those had always been there. They hadn’t. The meaning sort of washed over us, as we watched him gather up his clothes and cross the street to get dressed. I didn’t see the poop, don’t know who cleaned it up. Fortunately he did that at the other end of the block so I didn’t have to walk by it, but some of they guys walk that direction and said it was as bad as any of us imagined. Fortunately I have aphantasia, so I can’t even picture it if I tried.

Believing I have aphantasia is another thing a lot of people on dcum disapprove of. It seems there’s a group that thinks it’s not real and people with aphantasia just don’t understand how mental images work. And to that I say, of course I don’t because I don’t have mental images, because aphantasia.

[Anonymous]

MJ consumption

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Anonymous wrote:I had two kids before 20 and didn't marry their dad until I was 30.

Having two kids before 20

Grade: F

[Anonymous]

I bought my kid her first BOB when she was snooping and took mine.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m addicted to Oreo cakesters. I don’t even like Oreos. It’s like I can taste the cakiness and all the chemicals that I know are causing the addiction, but I like them. I don’t live in DCUM land, but I do live in the SF Bay Area. I’m practically a pariah because of my addiction to cakesters amongst the healthy eaters. There was a naked homeless guy yelling outside the office the other day and I said that I bet he’d chill and be happy if I gave him some cakesters. Everyone was like, I can’t believe you’re joking about his plight or your addiction. True story-hand on the Bible level truth-he took a dump on the sidewalk 10 minutes later. I was like, “see? He had tummy troubles. Cakesters might have helped him go with less discomfort.” I said that because they’ve changed my digestive system. My tummy makes noises it didn’t before. I’m pretty sure we’re using more toilet paper in our house and I’m pretty sure the reason is me. And cakesters. And I’m pretty sure DCUM won’t approve of any of that lifestyle choice.

I’ve bought all of them at every Safeway, Target, and Walgreens (the only stores I’ve seen them in locally). I did a Target delivery order at work the other day and I was beside myself when I saw they had cakesters available. The shopper called to say they were out of stock and to see if I wanted them to substitute anything else. I said no thanks because regular Oreos are a different texture and he said he totally understood and lamented how hard it is to find cakesters. At first I was happy to find a kindred spirit, then I felt really irritated because he’s been eating my cakesters! I ordered all the ones I could find for under $7/box on Amazon. I’ve had to resort to having to order them from target online.

Otherwise I’m a healthy eater. Normal weight, no excesses. I eat at nice restaurants. I do hello fresh and eat salads and all that BS. Cakesters though. They’re like heroin.

For once DCUM has left me speechless.

Cakesters lady here. First, you’re welcome. I enjoy being part of new experiences for people, so that was great for me too. Second, I’m really curious which part of the bolded got you there. Was it that there was a naked guy yelling who then pooped on the sidewalk, that my coworkers thought I was nutty for making jokes, or that I was speculating on the effects of my favorite treat on naked homeless dude?

Last weekend my stomach was making some scary noises but I had run out of cakesters and was detoxing. DH commented on the noise and I said I thought it was a withdrawal symptom. He said A) that’s not true and B) whether that’s true or not, I definitely have a cakester problem.

To the PP who said they’re off to buy cakesters now, don’t do it! I’m not even sure they taste good anymore. But if you do buy some, grab some quilted northern triple ply while you’re there. You’ll thank me later.

These kinda sound like something marketed in 1998 so if you’re stomach’s grumbling maybe check the expiration dates in case they’re actually from 1998. Although now that I think about it, the chemicals in there would probably keep them fresh.

Ps I LOVE Devil Dogs even though they taste synthetic, the only reason I don’t have this problem is bec they don’t sell them in my part of the country.

[Anonymous]

I think Hampton Inn is pretty nice. I like the breakfast.

I’m poor and with inflation feel like I’m getting poorer by the day. (65k single mom)

I buy my kid Starbucks when I get Starbucks

I go to every school board meeting

I judge you if you let your kid play tackle football

I think you’re insane if you do travel sports

[Anonymous]

I encourage my kids to find a spouse young and marry right after college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think Hampton Inn is pretty nice. I like the breakfast.

I’m poor and with inflation feel like I’m getting poorer by the day. (65k single mom)

I buy my kid Starbucks when I get Starbucks

I go to every school board meeting

I judge you if you let your kid play tackle football

I think you’re insane if you do travel sports

I agree!!!’

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I bought my kid her first BOB when she was snooping and took mine.

Props to you for being a good mom! You’ve won my heart